FOR CHEATERS

[fayt]

Look at the statistics.

The chance of a successful relationship born of infidelity is not even one in 100. A marriage that starts in infidelity has no foundation. You go into it with guilt, shame, angst, worry, and all the baggage that comes with that. Add to that managing your ex and going through possible custody battles for children. Is it worth it?

Think of the children.
If you have children and you are cheating on your spouse, your children will suffer. You are turning their lives upside down, fracturing their family unit and destroying their peace and harmony.

Be honest with yourself.

Be honest with your partner.

Accept responsibility.

Assess your commitment level.
Keep in mind, you can no longer be in contact with the person you were having an affair with.

Behave your way to success.

Turn toward your partner.
When your life or relationship becomes rocky and affects your sixual relationship, that is the time you should turn toward your partner, not away from him/her because of your sixual needs.

Re-engineer your life.
If you are a six addict, and you really want to change this, it's not a quick fix. It's an entire re engineering of your life, values, beliefs, thoughts, conduct and emotions. It's about deconstructing your life, and reconstructing your future. Unless you get professional help, you're going to continue to victimize everybody who you touch because you're controlled by your impulses rather than your values.

[monde8]

Tumpak na tumpak. I know because I've been there and I've done that already.

 

[Prime™]

It is sad indeed lalo na sa mga bata.

It's a growing trend. Nauuso. Media plays a big role in peoples lives.

I would always choose the old school filipina na conservative and respects herself, marunong mag luto, madasalin and masikaso and you could carry out a decent conversation with  than a westernized liberated imbecile.

[llj]

I agree but don't discount the facts that there relationships that would not work and each of the partners should go their separate ways as living together will do more harm to children and themselves........... there are no perpect one solution to every problem.......

[kid_yolub]

ouch... thats y gud boy na ako ngayon.
mahirap talaga lalo na pag may anak ka na

[fayt]

I agree but don't discount the facts that there relationships that would not work and each of the partners should go their separate ways as living together will do more harm to children and themselves........... there are no perpect one solution to every problem.......

yeah.. but in cheating? hell no..

[jamesbond]

ridiculous but true... when one partner is a cheater, he or she must also know the word 'karma'... but if both partners are cheaters, chances are it is not a union of marriage anymore... these things really happen in the lives of the elites... they co-exists just because of wealth...

[Bummergurl]

Korek!! I Know someone iniwan  si wife  for his new gf and now also cheated on his new gf goodluck to them! Hahaha complicated ggss lang

[naruto789544]

been there... done that... and honestly, i felt empty after all this... wake up before it's too late...