sino ang pipiliin mo? ang taong mahal mo o mahal ka?

[hoticecream]

@erah kanya kanyang personalidad yan pgdating sa pagpili, mas kaya kong magmove on pag ayaw sakn nung taong mahal ko kesa sa kargahin ko ang konsensya at sapilitan na magbayad ng utang na loob at ipalabas na kunwari masaya ako sa piling ng taong nagmamahal sakn pero ang totoo hindi naman talaga.

[Troll Montero]

makasabad sa usapan....

dun ako sa taong mahal ako dahil sabi nila natutunan naman daw paano mahalin ang isang tao...

[erah]

makasabad sa usapan....

dun ako sa taong mahal ako dahil sabi nila natutunan naman daw paano mahalin ang isang tao...

Thanks ser sa pagdaan sa thread ko at pagbibigay ng opinyon . . . .   

[Heathcliff]

Repost ko na lang reoly ko dun sa similar topic sa kabila...





If you're selfish enough to think only but yourself then you'll probably opt for the person who loves you...but that would be miserable for you until you find that one person whom you believe is worth the chase and could make you happy because you love him/her deeply and truly..But isnt it unfair for the one who loves you devotedly?

There really is no appropriate answer to this question. Either of the two choices is painfully difficult.

True love is unconditional...and somehow it doesnt exist in this too complicated modern existence. You give love...you crave love in return. Who would have risked their hearts to love someone so deeply without even thinking of being loved in return and in full satisfaction? Nobody. Because everybody needs love...no single person is brav enough to say "okay lang...this is enough" then wouldn't flinch of the pain of being ignored and unloved....that's quite a hallucination. And even if you try hard not to be foolishly needy of the attention and affection ....for how long?

There will come a time that you will just come into realization that it is not what you really wanted..
.and all pent up emotions will burst and it will leave you...emotionally barren and feeling useless.

Self pity? Low self esteem.. Im afraid this is the unhappy bottomline for those who,unfortunately...been through this kind of experience.

Love ..but be sure to know the difference between loving in reality and fooling with your hallucination...you can have your fill of emotional and physical satisfaction...but for how long...?

I guess...the answer would be ...for as long as you believe that you are still satisfied well enough...but then...satisfaction depends....on how much is considered enough.

...complicated diba?

Bad.....bad...love.

 

[erah]

Repost ko na lang reoly ko dun sa similar topic sa kabila...





If you're selfish enough to think only but yourself then you'll probably opt for the person who loves you...but that would be miserable for you until you find that one person whom you believe is worth the chase and could make you happy because you love him/her deeply and truly..But isnt it unfair for the one who loves you devotedly?

There really is no appropriate answer to this question. Either of the two choices is painfully difficult.

True love is unconditional...and somehow it doesnt exist in this too complicated modern existence. You give love...you crave love in return. Who would have risked their hearts to love someone so deeply without even thinking of being loved in return and in full satisfaction? Nobody. Because everybody needs love...no single person is brav enough to say "okay lang...this is enough" then wouldn't flinch of the pain of being ignored and unloved....that's quite a hallucination. And even if you try hard not to be foolishly needy of the attention and affection ....for how long?

There will come a time that you will just come into realization that it is not what you really wanted..
.and all pent up emotions will burst and it will leave you...emotionally barren and feeling useless.

Self pity? Low self esteem.. Im afraid this is the unhappy bottomline for those who,unfortunately...been through this kind of experience.

Love ..but be sure to know the difference between loving in reality and fooling with your hallucination...you can have your fill of emotional and physical satisfaction...but for how long...?

I guess...the answer would be ...for as long as you believe that you are still satisfied well enough...but then...satisfaction depends....on how much is considered enough.

...complicated diba?

Bad.....bad...love.

 

Thanks sa pagbibigay opinyon sis, well cguro nga dpende nalang sa sitwasyon yan haha . . . Hayyy ! ! !

[Heathcliff]

You're welcome.


Paano yan nakapili ka na ba?

Hehe...left or right?

Walang in between ha. Hmnnn

[erah]

Sa ngayon wala pa sis hahaha, may iba akong priority, payaman muna ako sis para bilhinn ko nalang yung guy na gusto ko

[Heathcliff]

Parang indecent proposal lang ano? Haha!


.... Cruel yan pero sa isang banda praltikal.


Basta ihanda ang contract ...short term lang para walang hassle. Haha!


Toinkz!

[erah]

Heheheh sis pede nga din shotgun wedding eh . . . .


Pero imposible yun, ha ha diko gagawin yun . . .

[carlo1225]

 
ung taong mahal mo ba eh hindi ka mahal?...o hindi mo mahal ung taong mahal ka?...eh panu kung mahal ka ng taong mahal mo, mamahalin mo pa ba ung taong mahal ka?...
 

[Heathcliff]

That's absolutely correct.


Just the right answers to my unspoken question.

[nopperabo]

Sabihin nyo nang selfish ako pero mas gusto kong piliin ay yung mahal ko kaysa sa mahal ako...at least alam ko sa sarili ko na ginagawa ko ang best ko dahil gusto ko, mahirap din kasi sabihin na sa yung sa mahal ako ang pipiliin ko pero kelan mo pa maibibigay yung full love mo, walang specific time para matimbang mo at masabi mo na mahal mo na rin sya..."peace" 

[BOYLIBOG]

SA EXP KO, MAS MGIGING MSAYA AKO KUNG DUN AKO SA MHAL KO, ATLIS DUN MAY CHALLENGE, TSKA YUN TLGA YUNG IDEAL MO..