Sumisigaw Ka ba Kapag Galit

lovemarie · **on:** June 25, 2015, 07:13:20 AM

"Why We Shout In Anger"

A Hindu saint who was visiting rive Ganges to take a bath found a group of family member on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his disciples smiled and asked.

"Why do people in anger shout at each other?"

Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout.'

'But why should you shout when the other person is next to you? You can as well tell him what you want to say in a soft manner.' asked the saint.

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the other disciples. Finally the saint explained.

'When two people are angry at each other, their heart distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the louder they have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.

What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either non existent or very small...'

The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'

He looked at his disciples and said.

'So when you argue, do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, or else there will come a time when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.'

*credit to the source

My Board · « **on:** June 25, 2015, 07:13:20 AM »

chazer · **Reply #1 on:** June 25, 2015, 09:16:06 AM

very well said... when i am angered, i seldom shout. rather, i keep silent because when a person is angry, he says things unworthy of listening. only poison keeps coming out of his tongue.
so i try to calm myself first before i speak my mind out. i also avoid saying shit words...
how about you?

jamesbond · **Reply #2 on:** June 25, 2015, 05:53:07 PM

$:-\$ wow... ang ganda ng paliwanag ng saint na yun... i think i'll browse this share of yours TS using my iPhone and have it screenshot so i can keep it always closer to my heart and whenever someone comes to me for some advice i'll let her/him read it... ang ganda... +like po ito...

My Board · « **Reply #2 on:** June 25, 2015, 05:53:07 PM »

naruto789544 · **Reply #3 on:** June 26, 2015, 01:07:59 AM

"very well said... so it is really true that anger blinds the person and peace is the only way for that person to be able to see again..."

lovemarie · **Reply #4 on:** June 26, 2015, 11:14:02 AM

same here, i am usually quiet when i am angry and when i can't handle it anymore i just cry so that i can vent all my emotions...from there i can be more objective so i won't say harsh words to my love ones...

My Board · « **Reply #4 on:** June 26, 2015, 11:14:02 AM »

Troll Montero · **Reply #5 on:** August 19, 2015, 04:53:12 PM

nasigaw ako kapag galit, kapag nagulat, at kapag nasasarapan hehehe...

lovemarie · **Reply #6 on:** August 19, 2015, 05:09:31 PM

Quote from: Troll Montero on August 19, 2015, 04:53:12 PM

nasigaw ako kapag galit, kapag nagulat, at kapag nasasarapan hehehe...

geh nga ano sigaw mo kapag galit? gulat? nasasarapan? sure ako malaki pagkakaiba nyan hehehe...

shane · **Reply #7 on:** August 19, 2015, 05:22:04 PM

Ako tahimik na lang ako kapag galit. Hinga lang ng malalim mga three times sabay alis okay na ako. Katwiran ko kase huwag lang nilang sagarin ako. Sumisigaw ako kapag malayo kausap ko.

lovemarie · **Reply #8 on:** August 19, 2015, 05:29:40 PM

Quote from: shane on August 19, 2015, 05:22:04 PM

Ako tahimik na lang ako kapag galit. Hinga lang ng malalim mga three times sabay alis okay na ako. Katwiran ko kase huwag lang nilang sagarin ako. Sumisigaw ako kapag malayo kausap ko.

Apir sir shane! ganyan di ako eh. . .

ako naman sumisigaw kapag bingi ang kausap hahahaha. . . .

jamesbond · **Reply #9 on:** August 19, 2015, 05:52:20 PM

nakikinig naman ako ah... di naman ako bingi... hmmm.... hahahahaha.... +like syo mam...

lovemarie · **Reply #10 on:** August 20, 2015, 08:56:44 AM

Quote from: jamesbond on August 19, 2015, 05:52:20 PM

nakikinig naman ako ah... di naman ako bingi... hmmm.... hahahahaha.... +like syo mam...

aba aba kelan ba kita sinigawan hahaha . . . i am so nice ah

Flash · **Reply #11 on:** September 01, 2015, 08:12:17 AM

i tend to be quiet when i'm mad. basta hindi ako hot-tempered

lovemarie · **Reply #12 on:** September 01, 2015, 09:19:21 AM

Quote from: Flash on September 01, 2015, 08:12:17 AM

i tend to be quiet when i'm mad. basta hindi ako hot-tempered

It's good when we know how to control our emotions especially when we are mad. We tend to say things and do things that we are not supposed to be doing and in the end we hurt others.

Thanks for droppin'

gab · **Reply #13 on:** September 05, 2015, 03:33:51 PM

nope..di ako sumisigaw pag galit, pero makikita mo sa mukha ko na dismiyado ako. Napapasigaw lng ako mag may umutot sa tabi ko..

lovemarie · **Reply #14 on:** September 06, 2015, 02:23:25 AM

Nyaha! yun pala nakakapagpasigaw kay sir

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