Complicated Relationship. Go or not?

[naruto789544]

it is what i say as "HE made the way for you to wake up..." 

[sugarlove]

Thank you sir @jamesbond and sir @naruto789544 ! Though what happened to us really pains me a lot and Im terribly hurting till now, I am trying to look at the positive side of it. I know I have to move on. He's not the end of my world.

[trashing214]

Sometimes, a person says something to put you down so that you will think that mababa ka and no one but him will care for you. Nakakainis ang mga ganun. Don't listen to him, someone will always see your worth

[sugarlove]

Thank you @trashing214! You're right, maybe there is someone out there for me,  though I don't see myself involve with anyone else yet. We'll see.

[X_cyt]

mas complicated kung pareho kayong may mga asawa at anak,IMORAL Na yan...

[uchiha_nejer]

what's past is past, move on. face the present. kung ang pagbabasehan lang palagi e yung dati e di dun na lang sila. matuto sa kahapon, huwag manatili, hehehe. everyone deserves a shot at happiness and hopefully yung mga complications na ganyan e di na ma experience nino man.

at kung ganyan ang banat sa iyo, e tama sila, iwan mo na yan. loko pala siya e

[Prime™]

Glad you're trying to move on. Hopefully everything works out for you.

As for your question if I'm willing to be in a relationship with another person na may asawa na or boyfriend. No I'm not. I don't really get any thrills from that and I don't want any unnecessary aggravation. Dami naman single jan.

If the question is paano naman if ako ang meron ng kasama and if kukuha ako ng sideline, my answer is I don't know, probably not.

I don't want to and I'm not looking for it, pero I cannot say with conviction na hindi ko yun gagawin. Iiwas ako and it would take a really special snowflake to make my resolve dwindle and my caveman side to take over.

Good luck with whatever decision you choose to make. We only live once, it would be a waste if we spend it being sad because of something beyond our control.

[Heathcliff]

When we fall in love,  we tend to fall in love with just the idea of love itself.  We let our emotions take over and most of the time when we get hurt, nadi disillusioned tayo. ..And because our rightful judgement is clouded with too much love focused only, towards our other half,  we are blinded and we cannot see the other part of our illusion which is, the reality.

And when the acknowledgement of our sad plight starts to kick in,  madalas we choose to be overwhelmed rather than accept the fact that sooner or later. .. nandyan ang consequences ng lahat ng yan.

You are sure about yourself and your feelings thus you have accepted everything about him.,but I guess it's not enough to nurture the relationship. You know for a fact that both your status is complicated so from there you should know na maraming factor that will affect your relationship. And sometimes if I may say,  happiness and satisfaction in life and love depends on how much is considered enough.

And obviously,  everything you felt and did for him wasn't good enough to make him love you the way you wanted him to love you back.  But the worst is already over and dealt with. It's good to know that you have accepted what happened and learned a good deal about the whole fiasco.

No need to look back at the past, move on na..focus on yourself,  do not for any instant look down upon yourself because you made a mistake.  Failures are meant to cross our paths to make us stronger. Keep your spirits up my dear,  and do not ever let anyone bring down your precious self esteem.

Goodluck.

 

[chazer]

its good that your relationship with him was over, the other thing is that, that other woman might suffer the same fate as you are in his hands. 

you deserve to be happy.  we all deserve to be happy.  and that other woman also deserves to be happy.

someone else should tell her what he has done to your life...

its time to make amends with Him and move on with your own re-discovered life...

good luck!

[remediate]

go. take risks.

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[jamoy]

pahabol....

buti na lang everything turned out ok naman pala... Buti nakakalas ka.. pag di na happy sibat na...

[bhaby_luv_u]

wag na pre. Papahirapan mo lang sarili mo. Hanap ka nalang ng maayos kausap.

[naruto789544]

and just as the day ends with this chapter in your life, wake up the next day with a new hope in life that there is something better for you out there... goodluck...

[Bummergurl]

Been there done that nah!! not worth it! 😜 😂

[naruto789544]

Been there done that nah!! not worth it! 😜 😂

agree... a relationship full of complication is not healthy... instead of being happy, you will tend to look back always to check your shadow...