Complicated Relationship. Go or not?

[5y5t3m_cr45h]

true. . . at pede rin sabay sila magkalablayp  my advise habaan mo pasensya mo sa partner mo and dont be to demanding.. alam mo ang sitwasyon nya at sa tingin ko tinanggap mo ng buong buo pagkatao nya... dont be an ass like me  gang ngayon pinagsisihan ko bat nawala ung taong tumanggap kung ano at sino ako 

[sugarlove]

Ginagawa ko nmn yan.kahit most of the time feeling ko taken for granted na ko. Pati mga harsh words nya sakin. Tanggap ko nmn.. Kaya lang naiisip ko na mag give up dahil di nmn na naaappreciate ang presence ko,  ang effort ko. And wala na talaga sya time sakin. Even simple good morning di na nya magawa ngaun and tuwimg gabi na lng, cannot be reached ang fon nya.

[5y5t3m_cr45h]

ouch... pero try to know ang reason behind bakit nagagawa niya ang ganyan... dapat kasi two way street yan ei... both kayo nag eeffort to keep the relationship...

till next time mam @sugarlove uwian time na 

[sugarlove]

Thanks @5y5t3m_cr45h  ingat sa pag uwi. Till nxt time.

[jamesbond]

Would you go on a serious relationship with someone on a complicated status? Like married but separated guy or girl, single mom or dad?

I am in a complicated situation. My bf, he is too. But the thing is, whenever we fight or argue, he would always say.. "walang seseryoso sayo...tingin m ba may lalaking tatanggap sayo, wala! "
So most of the time, I self pity.

Kayo po, what's your stand on this? Thanks!

+like muna po sa iyo... i admire you for opening up a bit of your private life... first of, yes, i would go the distance... why? mahal ko at mahal ako eh... you may call me whatever you want for at the end of the day it is still my decision and not yours... there is this saying that i have read in one of Michael Jacksons books by the Indian Proverbs, “Don't judge any man until you have walked two moons in his moccasins”...

and secondly, i've read those remarks by your BF and this i say to you, don't self pity... only fools who were out there would say those for fear of losing you.. he is just trying psyche you up.. defense mechanism... that only goes to show that he has a dick like the size of a peanut... a mere coward or shall we say insecure is what he is... he is just afraid of losing you... so the next time he talks like that in your face, just burst out a loud laugh hahahaha... think of what i have said (peanuts) and i'm pretty sure the confidence you lack at those ugly moments before will all come back to you in a jiffy... regards....

[sugarlove]

@jamesbond thank you sir! Your advice gave me hope and lift up my self esteem. :-)

[naruto789544]

sometimes you have to turn your back and walk away from something to realize that there is something out there much better for you... have faith and never lose your trust in HIM and i assure you that it is always the best that HE intends for you....

[sugarlove]

Thank you @naruto789544! Your kind words enlighten me.

[shakiralala]

I have the same situation before everytime i walk away he treateN's me, so i play nice at go with flow eventually napagod din siya buti naman. 

[Troll Montero]

first of all pabibigyan kita nang jacket kay willie kase nag restock na siya today at ang mga tanong niya eh medyo malalim na hehe..

Yung feeling na gusto ko na mag asawa pero ang aasawahin ko may asawa pang iba... Yes indeed willing ako pasukin anumang klaseng butas maski kumplekado at masikip 'chos..

well sa sitwasyon mo girl, komplikado na nga kayo tapos ganyan pa turing niya sayo.. haistt iwan mo na yan dame dyan iba lol.. alam ko ang mga may kumplikadong sitwasyon pinupunan nila nang extrang pagmamahalan ang kanilang kumplekadong sitwasyon.. kaya naman mas masarap kapag kumplekado, mas ramdam nyo ang sarap nang isa't isa sa pagmamahal kaso mas ramdam nyo din ang hapdi at kirot..

[sugarlove]

I have the same situation before everytime i walk away he treateN's me, so i play nice at go with flow eventually napagod din siya buti naman. 

Hi girl! Buti nmn napagod na sya. Un sakin kaya? Sana soonest na. Hehe.
Post Merge: May 11, 2015, 07:03:31 AM

first of all pabibigyan kita nang jacket kay willie kase nag restock na siya today at ang mga tanong niya eh medyo malalim na hehe..

Yung feeling na gusto ko na mag asawa pero ang aasawahin ko may asawa pang iba... Yes indeed willing ako pasukin anumang klaseng butas maski kumplekado at masikip 'chos..

well sa sitwasyon mo girl, komplikado na nga kayo tapos ganyan pa turing niya sayo.. haistt iwan mo na yan dame dyan iba lol.. alam ko ang mga may kumplikadong sitwasyon pinupunan nila nang extrang pagmamahalan ang kanilang kumplekadong sitwasyon.. kaya naman mas masarap kapag kumplekado, mas ramdam nyo ang sarap nang isa't isa sa pagmamahal kaso mas ramdam nyo din ang hapdi at kirot..

Antayin ko yang jacket sir! Hehe. Salamat po sa comment. Yan nga po eh, mas ramdam ko lng ang hapdi at kirot kesa sa sarap ng pagmamahalan.

[sugarlove]

Just an update: We broke up! The reason - he made another woman pregnant. wala na ko magagawa andyan na yan.. Pero di na ko pumayag sa pakiusap nya na icontinue pa din ung sa amin. Di ako ganun kadakila at wala ako balak palitan si dr.jose rizal sa luneta.

[messirooney]

Would you go on a serious relationship with someone on a complicated status? Like married but separated guy or girl, single mom or dad?

I am in a complicated situation. My bf, he is too. But the thing is, whenever we fight or argue, he would always say.. "walang seseryoso sayo...tingin m ba may lalaking tatanggap sayo, wala! "
So most of the time, I self pity.

Kayo po, what's your stand on this? Thanks!

When girls take this kind of comment from their significant other/bf and still ask people if they need to stay in that relationship, I automatically assume that the girl is either too ugly or too stupid.

The reason you broke up with your bf was that he got another girl pregnant? SMH. Kung hindi nakabuntis ng iba, hindi ka pa pala matatauhan.

I'm sorry for being harsh, nakakaawa kasi yung mga girls na tulad mo.

[sugarlove]

It's fine @messirooney, i get ur point. Yeah, i might be both of the qualities u assumed... And  I wont be  making excuses of what i did but hey,  i just loved.

[jamesbond]

Just an update: We broke up! The reason - he made another woman pregnant. wala na ko magagawa andyan na yan.. Pero di na ko pumayag sa pakiusap nya na icontinue pa din ung sa amin. Di ako ganun kadakila at wala ako balak palitan si dr.jose rizal sa luneta.

  wow.. what a turn of events... well, what can i say... it's good it happened that way... you've seen everything he'd been keeping behind your back.. he was really not worth your while... take care miss sugarL... goodluck...