sino ang pipiliin mo?

appleblossomgirl · **on:** March 08, 2015, 10:37:29 PM

feeling ko napaka stupid na question... sino ba ang pipilin mo? yung taong laging kang pnapaiyak at sinasaktan, pero mahal mo, kasi nakikita mo na nag ke care naman xa sayo..super insensitive nga lang, kaya laging ikaw ang umiiyak.. hindi marunong tumanggap ng pagkakamali.. laging xa ang tama...pero mahal mo..

o yung taong ayaw kang makitang nasasaktan o umiiyak, lahat ginagawa nya wag ka lang malungkot at umiyak.. sensitive xa sa feelings mo kaya kahit mahirap para sa knnya, ggwin nya suaya ka lng.. napa selfless nya... special xa sayo at willing xang maghintay kahit gano katagal para sa yo..pero mas mahal mo un isa...

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Prime™ · **Reply #1 on:** March 09, 2015, 03:53:07 AM

I would choose the one who loves me. I'm kinda lazy, ayaw ko nag hahabol, but that's just me, ma pride chicken.

Ask yourself, who makes you happy? Who do you see yourself with? Is it all bad? Could there be a compromise?

Who do you really want to be with? Could you talk to the other guy and tell him these are your boundaries, and ask him not to cross it and how it makes you feel when does? I'm sure if the guy has half a brain, he would understand.

Stick to one, and once you've made your decision, love your own. Grass is always greener on the other side, till you get there.

P.S.
But if you're being abused, that's a different matter. You should skedaddle.

appleblossomgirl · **Reply #2 on:** March 09, 2015, 12:04:06 PM

Quote from: Prime™ on March 09, 2015, 03:53:07 AM

I would choose the one who loves me. I'm kinda lazy, ayaw ko nag hahabol, but that's just me, ma pride chicken.

Ask yourself, who makes you happy? Who do you see yourself with? Is it all bad? Could there be a compromise?

Who do you really want to be with? Could you talk to the other guy and tell him these are your boundaries, and ask him not to cross it and how it makes you feel when does? I'm sure if the guy has half a brain, he would understand.

Stick to one, and once you've made your decision, love your own. Grass is always greener on the other side, till you get there.

P.S.
But if you're being abused, that's a different matter. You should skedaddle.

the guy who made me cry also makes me happy..but it seems like behind those hundreds of happiness, there are thousands of pain.. i was never part of his future.. cultural differences perhaps.. when we talk about the future,, he talks about his future with somebody else.. im only existing in his present.. but never in his future..

the other one who's afraid of losing me, makes me happy all the time.. he tries his best to make me happy.. i am part of his life now as he said, wanted me to meet his family.. although we are of different cultures, he's willing to sacrifice everything.. i dunno to what extent.. but the fact that he introduced me to his family is something considering their culture is kinda strict.. he cant sleep without asking if im ok, .. i said i cant accept him now for i love somebody else.. he said he will wait.. until i finally learn how to love him..

i never even thought a guy like this would exist..

my question, i deem was stupid.. for there is an obvious answer.. but my heart is trying to ignore them all...|

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simpleman1225 · **Reply #3 on:** March 09, 2015, 04:02:49 PM

Sa tingin ko dapat mo munang timbangin ang sitwasyon. Hanggang kelan mo kayang tiisin ang isang taong mahal mo pero sinasaktan ka naman. O yung isang guy na matututunan mo palang mahalin pero handang ibigay at gawin ang lahat para lang mapasaya ka at hindi ka na masaktan.

Maaaring anytime ay iwan ka nung guy na never kang nakasama sa future nya. Dagdag mo pa ang cultural differences ninyong dalawa. Ang lalaki kapag hindi ka sinama sa future nya, malamang hanggang present ka lang at darating ang time magiging past na lang.

Ikaw na rin ang nagsabi na alam mo na kung ano ang sagot sa tanong mo. Baka kailangan mo ng space or time para makapag-isip isip kung ano ba at sino ba talaga ang gusto mong piliin. Sabi nga "when pain is more than happiness, that is not love, that is stupidity".

Nobody can blame you, you're just following what your heart feels. But love is not just what our heart tells, our mind also plays an important role for us to remind that hurt is just around the corner.

naruto789544 · **Reply #4 on:** March 10, 2015, 01:45:57 AM

the question is not stupid at all... why? because it happens to a lot of people and many are experiencing it... now, the solution can either be easy or stupid if you may say... why again? because you know that inspite the pain and heartaches that your bf has given you, you still love him and is still with him... would you risk your future with him or try to find someone who will be better, which in this case is the other guy who is willing to move heaven and earth just to show you his love... remember, you also have your mind not only your heart and i suggest you also use it to know the right decision to make... at the end of the day, it will still be your decision and i hope that you make the correct one for your future...

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Troll Montero · **Reply #5 on:** March 10, 2015, 03:06:44 PM

I'm sure kapag pinili mo ang palaging nag care sayo kapag na fall ka na sa kanya siya naman magpapa iyak sayo.. cycle of life baby... so choose the one you love.. andyan na yan masasanay ka din lol

matsuraqa · **Reply #6 on:** March 10, 2015, 07:44:22 PM

I prefer the one who loves you.. remember that love can do a lot of things.. a person inlove can reach a star and give it to you though its impossible, it can move a mountain though its a miracle to happen, he can make you happy in many ways but the point is that a person whose deeply inlove is willing to do many things even lose a lot just to prove his love to you.. although i'm just a stranger, i'm asking that you give a chance the one that loves you..

astraljr · **Reply #7 on:** April 22, 2015, 05:13:49 AM

For me, I would choose the one that can love all the negative part of you before loving all that is positive about you. The one that sees you as the last partner that he/she will grow old with.

Also in your part ask yourself why do you love that person. Is it because of all the good things about him or can you love him as he is all about him his negative attitudes and his good attitudes. Another thing is do you have the strength to change the one that you love? If yes then choose him if no then choose another one.

Last one thing to consider is choose the one that makes you feel happy and makes you feel complete

5y5t3m_cr45h · **Reply #8 on:** April 23, 2015, 02:24:27 PM

i can list down all advises i can give but in the end ikaw pa rin ang masusunod... looking back sa sinabi mo isnt it ironic ung second guy is really really a photocopy of YOU

appleblossomgirl · **Reply #9 on:** April 27, 2015, 01:59:12 AM

Choosing was never easy... i made a decision to say goodbye to the person who made me cry and give a chance to the other one who wants me in his life.. even all my friends are telling me that i am so lucky and i made the right decision.. but i asked him to wait for me.. wait for me until i completely forget about the other guy. he said he's willing to wait.. and he will be there for me.. am i being selfish?
actually that was his only fear..he's scared that one day i will tell him that i cannot forget the other guy and i want to be with that guy again... and that guy... that guy now kept on calling and texting me, saying he misses me and he wants me back...

...and to be honest... i said havent completely forgotten him..

fayt · **Reply #10 on:** April 27, 2015, 12:51:57 PM

Then mukha hindi mo pa rin makakalimutan yun past guy mo. Try to weigh the happiness mo compared sa mga sadness mo na nararamdaman sa guy na to. It seems kasi na marami din sya nagawa para mapasaya ka nya. Minahal ka rin ng tao na to kaya nga hanggan ngayon nahihirapan ka pa rin sya i let go. Baka pwede pa naman ayusin ang mga bagay bagay at magsimula ng bago. After all lahat naman ng relationship eh dumaan sa ganyan pagsubok....

chazer · **Reply #11 on:** April 27, 2015, 01:09:17 PM

miss appleblossomgirl, i admire your honesty towards yourself. hard as it may be, decisions we make in life affects, not only the present but our future as well.
life is short, so might as well as enjoy life the best that we can. we can only hope and pray for our future. it may look complicated now, but we could simplify things for your future.
life still, has so much more to offer to each one of us. to let ourselves suffer in darkness commits a greater sin to ourselves.
pray and let your life move towards the light. take care and Godspeed!

razorsharp · **Reply #12 on:** April 29, 2015, 07:15:23 AM

ewan ko kung baket pero maraming babaeng mahilig sa sadista hehehe. kahit maraming sampal ang abutin kakapit pa rin. meron naman halos ibigay na ni lalake ang langit, sunud-sunuran sa lahat pero ayaw ni babae. boring daw.

taro · **Reply #13 on:** April 29, 2015, 11:00:32 AM

mahirap pumili, pag pumili ka laging me mali either way...
so choose without looking back.. yung tipong yun na talaga..
and you can only choose wisely pag pareho silang malayo sa iyo..
so stay away from both of them muna..

bigfatpussycat · **Reply #14 on:** April 29, 2015, 02:26:32 PM

WAG KANG MAMILI SA KANILANG DALAWA

check ur situation..mukhang iba ang aking sasabihin sa pananaw niu..pero iwan mu na lang silang dalawa kasi naattach ka sa iba while meron kang isa..parang may shoulder to cry on ka pero tama ba na mainlab ka sa kanya? .pero ung mahal ku masasaktan mu di ba..

kaya wag kang mamili sa kanila iwasan mu sila pareho pramis mas happy ang life mu..

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