LOVE (marie's) Questions

[SkilledSilverTongue]

good point sir! sabi nga . . . don't be sad that it's over . . . be glad because it happened.

salamat po 

baka gusto nyo pong sagutin din ito  . . .










Does Love Wear Out With Time . . . ?

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Love is a feeling and loving is an action. Everyone has days when they are not so lovable and it is those days when you wake up choose to love them anyway and those are the days that build on the foundation of what you have.

Love grows when nurtured. If you give the best of yourselves to each other and choose to love each other when it isn't so easy they feed off of each other. Your love will grow and not wear out. When you expect it to take care of itself it will fade.

Love is all about getting what you give and it is a cycle and a circle. They say marriage takes work. Keeping your priorities straight and communication going should be the goal. Today I am tired and have a headache and resent the errands I have to do along with work, the house, kids and dogs. Hubby has gone to work and will come home to a good meal and a relaxing evening playing with the kids and dogs until bed. I am giving what I don't have today to this relationship. Saturday is a day he would love to relax and just play and he will be tilling our flower garden and herb garden as well as caring for the kids while I am doing what I need to do. He won't like Saturday. We trade off. Sunday, we will focus on each other and the kids. We will nurture ourselves and be proud of ourselves that we put the others needs first when needed and still found a way to have our own needs met.

Work in progress!

- from yahoo answers 

tama din naman

[lovemarie]

i agree . . . Loving a person and staying in love  is a choice . . . being in a relationship is a work in progress.

[Troll Montero]

kamusta na ba ang mga katanungan dito? nasasagot pa din ba? mukhang pahirap nang pahirap eh..

yes it will! sometimes hindi naman love ang mas mahalaga sa isang relationship kung hindi ang companionship...

[lovemarie]

Uy @Troll Montero na miss kita di to ah  . . .  dahil mang hang over pa ako ng napanood ko hehehe . . .eto na sunod na tanong ko . . .

Does being hurt gives you the right to hurt back ?

[jamesbond]

  hmmm... i don't think so... hindi na maayos ang alitan kapag ganyan.. so ang nangyayari ay nagtitikisan na lang, hanggang saan, hanggang kailan? pwede siguro ang magpalamig muna until one speaks up pero yun nga hindi dapat gumanti. . .  maybe if the importance is not there pwede cguro magawa yan sa girlfriend or boyfriend mo, something like madaling kalimutan kapag ganyan... but the thing is that if the love is there and it's that deeper and madly in love well then there is no space for such "hurting back" the other. . .

[Prime™]

Does being hurt give me the right to hurt them back?

Maybe in some cases, pero to say outright yes.. Eh probably not.

I could justify my actions, we are our best lawyers ika nga. A thief will say napilitan lang ako dahil sa kahirapan, or a henchman goon can justify his actions by saying napagutusan lang ako.

My point is, well we are our best lawyers. We can justify whatever twisted actions we could come up with to try not to take responsibility for our actions.

If you are hit, then you hit back, and then he hits you back, and then you hit back so on and so forth.

Such a waste of effort isn't it? If someone hurts you, I think it's best to tell them what they did. If you can forgive them, it's probably better to do so and let them try to make it up to you. If you can't forgive them, then you're tormenting yourself by sticking around.

I remember this quote. The gist is " We judge people by their actions, but judge ourselves by our intentions."

Scenario 1:
"Naapakan tayo sa paa kasi bobo at clumsy yung nakaapak. Careless and rude. Malamang sinadya nya dahil mukhang psycho"

Scenario 2:
"Nakaapak tayo ng paa ng iba, kasi pagod na tayo sa trabaho, 2 days ng walang tulog, super stressed sa work and madaming bills na dapat bayaran. Hindi ko na napansin yung tao, Hindi ko naman sinasadya. Maintindihan naman ako siguro non"

We judge others by their actions, but ourselves by our intentions.

[lovemarie]

" we judge others by their actions,  but ourselves by our intentions."

very enlightening . . . the more aware of your intentions and your experiences you become, the more you will be able to understand the connection of the two. . . by that you will realize that hurting others especially the people we love is more powerful than all your good intentions.

thank you sir @Prime™ and sir @jamesbond for taking time.

[Troll Montero]

kung rights ang pag uusapan of course may rights ang lahat para bumawe sa taong nakasakit sayo..

May dalawang klase nang pagbawe, isang magandang paraan at isang masamang paraan hehehe, which is which..

ako kung sinaktan ako babawe ako sure yun... pero di ko alam if good or bad na bawe lol depende sa sitwasyon nyahahaha

[lovemarie]

kung rights ang pag uusapan of course may rights ang lahat para bumawe sa taong nakasakit sayo..

May dalawang klase nang pagbawe, isang magandang paraan at isang masamang paraan hehehe, which is which..

ako kung sinaktan ako babawe ako sure yun... pero di ko alam if good or bad na bawe lol depende sa sitwasyon nyahahaha

Yan si Troll hindi talaga papalamang hahahaha . . .

salamat sa pagsagot

[lovemarie]

TANONG  . . . .



Bakit kaya may mga tao na ayaw ng COMMITMENT?

[magbubukid]

Ms. LM hindi naman siguro sa ayaw, baka hindi pa lang talaga decided. Sooner or later lahat tayo mag co-commit, maliban lang dun sa mga gustong tumandang binata o dalaga.   

[lovemarie]

What makes one decide to commit? . . . .

[magbubukid]

When you find the right one, then it's time to go for broke. Bahala na ang diyos ng hapon. 

[frankiko]

Bakit may mga taong ayaw ng commitment?
Baka dahil committed na sila sa ibang bagay, ibang tao o sa kanilang sarili.

When will they decide to commit?
Probably when they're ready to choose one over the other.

-not really an expert on these topics, but somehow they stimulated my mind into thinking deeper. Thanks. Backread ako sa ibang questions pagdating sa office. Hehehe.

[lovemarie]

thanks sir @magbubukid for taking time and sir @frankiko backread mo lang previous questions ko baka gusto mo share insights mo . . . thanks in advance