LOVE (marie's) Questions

[Troll Montero]

I have read an article by Danielle Anne Suelik and it says...

 "A recent study managed to shock everyone, when it said that 56% of men and 34% of women in happy marriages cheat."

sa 56% na men ilan kaya ang bakla duon??? hehehe

[lovemarie]

sa 56% na men ilan kaya ang bakla duon??? hehehe

Huh??? Bakla kaya nag cheat?

[jamesbond]

wag na kayo magtalo na dalawa jan sa itaas ko^... ke happy or not ang isang tao sa kanyang relationship still he or she can always cheat... it depends upon the person him or herself... like kung may gf ka tapos at may iba pang ka-fubu so iba din yun... bf ka na tapos ang gf mo may ibang kumakalantare eh iba din yun... so as we can all see, it depends talaga sa tao mismo up to how far he or she can go, how she or he can push her/his luck in playing the cheating game... pakiramdaman na lang talaga kung behave or seryoso talaga ang partner mo syo.... and same goes with any gender, bakla, straight or lesbian, any gender is capable of cheating...

[lovemarie]

wag na kayo magtalo na dalawa jan sa itaas ko^... ke happy or not ang isang tao sa kanyang relationship still he or she can always cheat... it depends upon the person him or herself... like kung may gf ka tapos at may iba pang ka-fubu so iba din yun... bf ka na tapos ang gf mo may ibang kumakalantare eh iba din yun... so as we can all see, it depends talaga sa tao mismo up to how far he or she can go, how she or he can push her/his luck in playing the cheating game... pakiramdaman na lang talaga kung behave or seryoso talaga ang partner mo syo.... and same goes with any gender, bakla, straight or lesbian, any gender is capable of cheating...

Opo depende talaga sa tao...pero why do you think happy naman sya sa relationship nya pinipili pa rin nya mag cheat? Ano kaya ang nagtutulak sa isang tao na wala naman problema sa current relationship nya pero pinipili pa rin magkaron ng iba?

[jamesbond]

Opo depende talaga sa tao...pero why do you think happy naman sya sa relationship nya pinipili pa rin nya mag cheat? Ano kaya ang nagtutulak sa isang tao na wala naman problema sa current relationship nya pero pinipili pa rin magkaron ng iba?

hard to resist temptation i guess.... tipong wala sa loob ng isang lalaki na may nagkakagusto pala sa kanya na iba then biglang darating ang punto na bigla na lang may magpapakita ng motibo sa kanya, okay lang sana kung motibo pa lang eh paano kung biglang naghubad sa harap mo at ayain ka ng tikman mo sya... syempre lalaki lang yan at madaling madarang at matukso... paano iiwas kung sa kanyang pag-iwas naman ay mababansagan naman syang bakla o takot sa kanyang gf o asawa.. laging nakataya ang pride ng lalaki so mahirap umiwas... teetering to breach trust and loyalty... guys have the tendency to jump into such cheating game especially if they have love problems, madali sya matukso para lang makaiwas sa problema nya sa kanyang gf... so my advice would be to keep your partner be loved and satisfied,  talk and solve your problems or misunderstandings before going to sleep or before calling it a day...

[lovemarie]

Sabi mo sir @jamesbond ..."guys have the tendency to jump into such cheating games especially if they have love problems" ...

So does this mean na naniniwala ka na ang nagchicheat lang ay yung hindi happy sa lovelife?

[jamesbond]

Sabi mo sir @jamesbond ..."guys have the tendency to jump into such cheating games especially if they have love problems" ...

So does this mean na naniniwala ka na ang nagchicheat lang ay yung hindi happy sa lovelife?

don't get me wrong here... well, most of the time yes, those who have love problems are susceptible to such cheating but not always... there are times na happy naman sa lovelife but was only exposed to temptations, gaya ng una kong pahayag dito, nakataya ang pride ng lalaki lagi kaya hirap umiwas... hmmm.... why don't we up the ante, say, what about girls with love problems naman... o hindi ba may naririnig din tayong mga term na "shoulder to cry on"? yun pala eh nahuhumaling na sa ka iyakan... now, the next question would be "who's much weaker to resist temptation, was it us boys or you girls?"...

[lovemarie]

If you look at the statistics given, men are highly probable to cheat even in a happy relationship...although for me, still it  depends on the person's choice. But what got them there in the first place? If the s3x is good, why cheat? If you don’t feel intimidated by your partner, why cheat? Apparently, it’s not an isolated incident, but it isn’t a general consensus either.

People cheat for different reasons. When they’re in a happy relationship, those reasons tend to garner less sympathy. So what are those reasons?

From my point of view...

Romance. Yes, romance is still there in happy relationships. But if someone comes along and makes you feel hotter and more passionate than the way you do with your current partner, cheating suddenly becomes an option.

The thrill. A happy relationship can sometimes become monotonous. Happy doesn’t equate to boring, but the line starts to get blurry when you stay with someone long enough without anything new happening.

No accountability. No matter how happy a person is, when the opportunity presents itself to cheat without any repercussions, it’s possible that they will go for it. And if illicit activities won’t give them any problems and as long as they’re absolutely sure that they won’t get caught.

Past lovers. You’re right in being apprehensive about a partner spending time with their ex. An inappropriate level of frequency and context of meetings could likely end up in an affair, because they have history, are both adults with raging hormones and can resolve themselves to the fact that it can happen because they’ve done it before.

The opportunity is there. We may be human beings with the power of thought and free will, but a good percentage of our body is still made up of the same biological elements as animals. If we are easily aroused by normal triggers like the nakedness of a person or simple stimulation, there’s no saying if we have the ability to stop ourselves from having an affair or not.

Cheating can happen when you least expect it. It’s not inevitable, but it is possible.

[jamesbond]

^ very well said mam labs.... it's inevitable...

[magbubukid]

Miss LM I agree with your paragraph about past lovers. Wala lang, napansin ko lang kasi nagseselos ako sa ganun. 

[naruto789544]

why do people cheat in their relationship... the reason for me is satisfaction...
1. if you are satisfied with something, you are not going to look for another thing...
2. if you are satisfied with someone already, you are not going to look for another one...
3. if you are satisfied with what you feel, then you are not going to look for affection from somebody else...

it is all of our inherent description of satisfaction and happiness... no matter how you say it or defend something, it all boils down to this..."you don't go around looking for something if you have already found it.."

[lovemarie]

Salamat sir naruto and magbu for dropping by...

Here's my next LOVE (marie's) Question

How will you know if it is Love or Lust?



Is it love or lust that you’re experiencing with your partner? Sometimes, you may think you’re in love without really realizing that there’s no love in the relationship, but just lust.

The happiest relationships are those where there’s a perfect balance of love and lust.

But what is it that you’re experiencing, is it love or lust?

How does one know?

[Troll Montero]

di ba dapat dalawa palagi hindi dapat magkahiwalay ang love at lust... well  you'll never know until you had s-ex with someone na pinaghihinalaan mo lol...

[lovemarie]

di ba dapat dalawa palagi hindi dapat magkahiwalay ang love at lust... well  you'll never know until you had s-ex with someone na pinaghihinalaan mo lol...

aw! after having s3x how wil you know na love mo at hindi lang lust? may signs ka ba hinahanap? hehehe

[Troll Montero]

aw! after having s3x how wil you know na love mo at hindi lang lust? may signs ka ba hinahanap? hehehe

kapag love ko siya hindi ako mag juan flavier kase love and last ko na siya nun... gagawa na kame nang baby.. if lust lang lets do it eka nga ni senator! ma i-feel mo yun sa unang baon ibang ang feeling kapag nasa loob ka na nang kanyang pag ibig, nararamdaman mo iyon.. iba ang hugot parang sumama ang kaluluwa... kung lust naman parang ohhh syete! parang walang specia... masarap lang lol,,, tapos naiisip mo na huli na ito wala nang next hehe.

oppps i did it again... baka mamiligro na naman ako..