ok lang po bah?

[rat_trap_29]

 

ok lang po bah makipag kaibigan ulit sa x mo?

yung x na feeling mo nun niloko ka....

muli....

nag ka add sa FB....

nag ka usap.....

nag ka paliwanagan....

 

ok lang ba na freinds na ulit?

sa inyu? pwedi banag ganun?

share naman....

 

[jamesbond]

yes, why not my friend.... it's a small world after all... Okay lang yan basta ba wag na ulit darating sa point na mai-in love ka na naman sa kanya... hold your feelings this time and make sure that you remain as friends... ayos nga yan at least magkita man kayo sa malls or somewhere else hindi kayo mag-iiwasan, both of you can smile and look into each other's eyes without animosity... friendship has been restored and that's the most important thing...

[Prime™]

If nilolo ako, I would rather not let a person like that back into my life. Dami ibang tao jan worth of my attention, why spend it on some scumbag that has betrayed me? It's up to you mate, iba iba naman ang situation but to me it's not worth the aggravation.

JB has a point that at least it wouldn't be awkward when you see each other and it's nice if you guys can be mature towards each other, nothing wrong with that. No one wants an adult acting like a petulant child, however I just can't find any bone in my body that is genuinely interested in having a relationship even platonic as it may with an EX lalo na if the cause of the breakup was disloyalty.

Being civil like Hi and Hello is alright pero being friends? Uggh. It's a can of worms.

It depends on you mate, ikaw nakakaalam what really happened and your gut feeling should tell you if it's a good idea or not. If the reason for your break up isn't extreme, and if you guys are comfortable with the idea of seeing each other with someone else and has completely moved on, and the people you are seeing now is also down with that, then probably.

[fayt]

For me.... depende sa kung paano kayo nagkahiwalay... Kung nagkahiwalay kayo dahil sa panloloko nya sa akin o sayo, no no no ako na maging friends uli kami. Hindi naman sa pagiging bitter pero ang awkward yun feeling to be friend with someone who hurt you so much.. Ang dami dami ko na friends, hindi na sya kailangan just to add as "Friends list" sa buhay ko. More on negative lang kasi ang ibibigay neto sa akin dahil palagi mo maalala kung ano ang ginawa nya sayo at kung regular kayo nagkakausap, regular mo din maalala yan...

Pero sa pagkakatype mo dito sa thread, sa tingin ko may feelings ka pa rin sa kanya.. Ikaw na magtitimbang nyan kung ano ang mas mabigat... Yun bitterness or yun pagmamahal mo sa kanya.

[caligula]

You don't learn, do you?  Will you hold a snake that bit your hand?

[rat_trap_29]

 
maraming salamat po sa mga advice nyu...

 

[arthas™]

This is a big NO for me. It's like accepting a traitor on your circle of friends. Befriending your ex is good if you've parted ways in an acceptable manner. If that happened because of negative vibes then what's the sense of befriending her? That does not make any sense at all. All the comments above are right. Make sure you get each point though at the end of the day, that would still be your decision.