need advice...:(

[elluminati14]

thank you mga tol....... pag di namin ma resolve yung sitwasyon namin ngaun... pupuntahan ko gf ko sa bahay nila.. bahala na heheh... tnx sa advice

[monde8]

Basta pag pumunta ka sa kanila ay wag mo kalimutan magdala ng foods.

[Prime™]

Basta pag pumunta ka sa kanila ay wag mo kalimutan magdala ng foods.

Hahahaha! Pambihira, last time na may mag ganyan na may dalang foods kuno, parang inapakan ng kalabaw sa mukha ang resulta! Na gulpi de gulat haha! Catch you're like pareng monde, tawa ako ng tawa dito Oo.

OT: Nasa sa iyo yan, okay yung sumipot ka it shows your sincerity, pero use common sense too. If you think things will end up badly, then why make it more difficult. Depende din yan sa situation. In my example, if I'm the dad and I told my daughter not to see this guy, and he decides to show his face in my house, then I would tear that guy apart. Dafuq are you doing here?

Depends how the guy hates you. I wasn't able to see your answer to my question, did she have a boyfriend before, and does he know him? How did he react towards him if so? Kung wala naman then you might be witnessing some sort of empty nest syndrome. Parents feel like someone is taking their precious away from them, I think it's normal to feel antagonistic.

I'm not going to lie to you, this sorta happened to me too. It might help out things in perspective for you, but I think mine was more extreme than your situation.

I was involved with a girl, I got her pregnant, her family was understandably more than pissed, they went ballistic. She called me, crying and all that. What did I do? I showed up ng mag isa doon sa kanila and talked to her parents and brothers. Yung kalsada pa nila was napapaligiran ng mga ka anak nila and long time family friends. I got to tell you, all eyes were on me that day. I have nothing to hide, you're daughter wanted to be with me, if not then I wouldn't be here. I appreciate their protectiveness, lalo at bunso pa yung anak nila. Mind you this is the first time they have ever seen me, I don't have the habit of meeting the family of girls I dated. I just don't do that.

My brothers, cousins and our driver wanted to come with me in case the situation got pretty bad, but I didn't let them. This is something I'm going to have to fix myself. Sometimes you just have to man up and tough it out. I told them how it is respectfully, and they are just going to have to accept it. Your daughter loves me, I got her pregnant, I'm not running away from my responsibilities, hence why I'm here. Nakita nila na hindi ako duwag and that was a plus to them I guess.

When I showed up, they talked to me, I talked to them like civil people do. Okay naman ang result. We are all very pleasant now with each other. Things are great.

I'm not saying this is how it's going to turn out, maaaring Oo, maaring hindi. Mine was an extreme case, she was already carrying my child, come hell or high water of course I will show up. It's my right.

Think about your options, if his opinion truly matters so much to you guys, then you're just going to have to deal with it, sooner or later.

[shane]

Basta pag pumunta ka sa kanila ay wag mo kalimutan magdala ng foods.

Maganda ang suggestion ni tol monde8. Basta tiyakin mo lang na hindi sa condo ang bahay ng gf mo ha. Toinks

Sorry not helping. 
Peace


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[elluminati14]

actually sa tanong mo "Prime" tungkol sa gf ko .. may bf po xa dati at nasaktang xa ng sobra.. then kaya siguro parang na phobia yung papa nya. at ang nag palala pa dahil ata may galit rin ang papa nya sa relatives ko at yun pati ako nadamay ..

[madokka]

Di ka talaga gusto nung girl. Dinadahilan lang nya yung papa niya kasi alam niya di mo naman talaga mamemeet yun eh

[groundhog]

Dude... in your post, 3 months (well 4 na ngayon) pa lng kayo... I think it is still to early in the relationship to meet the parents. Biro you will be biting the bullet ika nga to meet her father, risking insult & rejection and you are not yet still sure kung sya nga yun girl na pakakasalan mo.
Patagilin mo muna pag sure na sure na na sya na nga yun girl then saka mo ipaglaban and prove to her dad that you are the best thing that ever happened to his daughter. Otherwise sayang lang yun effort.

[ThrashMetal]

Umiinom ba tatay nya? Or meron kapatid na lalaki yung gf  mo? Kung meron, inom kayo. Tapos kunin mo yung loob ng mga kapatid nyang lalaki. Matutulungan ka non.

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[Heathcliff]

... Ok ang advice nung nasa taas ko ah.

Segundahan ko lang ...

Ask mo na den, well not directly .. Research ka muna ng konti...

Try to know kung ano weakness ni Erparts.. May bisyo?

Cards, mahjong? Manok ? Hahaha!

Yung unang sinamang palad na suitor ko.. Binigyan ng manok daddy ko... It was a McLean Hatch ( yellow leg) ... Yun.... Di nagtagal ... Naging sila yata ni Daddy.. Wahaha!


Joke lang! There's probably a reason baket nde pa sya ready na ipakilala ka sa family nya..

Have patience ... Wag madaliin.. May tamang oras para sa lahat ng bagay..

For the meantime... Keep every moments with your girl worth while .

Aight?!





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[magbubukid]

isa pa pala nkalimutan ko... buntisin mo dahil pagbuntis n yan wla n clang magagawa hehehehe yon ang mganda

Ito ang pinaka-gusto kong advice, kaya lang baka gawin kang fertilizer sa kangkong nung tatay at kapatid nyang lalaki. 

OT: Man up! Nasa tamang edad na kayo nung GF mo. Sabihin mo ng diretso sa pamilya nya na mahal mo ang anak nila. Ask and the worst they can do is say No. Then it's up to you and your GF if you are willing to continue your relationship without her family's permission.

[chazer]

thank you mga tol....... pag di namin ma resolve yung sitwasyon namin ngaun... pupuntahan ko gf ko sa bahay nila.. bahala na heheh... tnx sa advice
[/show her family how much she means to you in your life, earn their trust, kung anuman sabihin nya sa iyo, tanggapin mo.  tutal, opinyon lang nya siguro iyon, isapa, dahil nga siguro babae ang anak nila kaya protective lang sila sa anak nila.  it may take a long time, but in due time, kung talagang mapatunayan nilang sincere ka sa anak nila, they will understand.   good luck po!]

[billkulas]

Tol, kung anong tricks ang ginawa mo sa gf mo nun niligawan mo sya. I double mo pa sa panliligaw sa erpat ng gf mo. At laging ipakita mo na magalang ka. Mag sori ka din kasi di sa pamamahay nila mo niligawan ang gf mo.