Help for someone whos was doing great with but suddenly lost interest

DoodlerReturns · **on:** February 03, 2014, 10:14:56 AM

hi guys im in a bit of a predicament any advice, you see we were once doing great however after a few days bago ako mag declare sa kanya biglang nailang sya? i know there might be more to it can anyone advice on what should be the best thing to do next? cause really i dont know what to do anymore :/

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witherwind · **Reply #1 on:** February 03, 2014, 11:13:53 AM

I'm not sure if I can help but I'll try to. Ano ba ang idineclare mo?

DoodlerReturns · **Reply #2 on:** February 03, 2014, 09:19:17 PM

thanks man, i do need the talk, she said shes not interested anymore

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jamesbond · **Reply #3 on:** February 03, 2014, 10:12:56 PM

hmmm... i just don't know about your declaration.. if you are doing great about at what status in your relationship? if you were in the
getting to know stage and you are going to declare your love for her, uhmm, and she's not interested in going to that next level, maybe she's not ready yet or she just want you as a friend.. Student ba kayo? Baka studies muna ang gusto nya.. Grown ups na ba kayo? Hmm maybe she needs you as a friend for now, give her time to get to know you better or this could be her strategy, to test your mettle on how much you need and love her... declaring love to someone is not just buying a candy in a store, you want it and you get it, no... if and when you feel she's not really that interested in you, well, maybe its high time you focus your attention to some place else.. convert your frustration into something useful or fruitful.. destiny has it, if she's yours then you have to work for it and if not then you were not really meant for each other... remember this, love comes in mysterious ways and who knows, the one for you is just around the corner waiting for you to be recognized or she is already there but you were too busy not to acknowledge formally... Cheer up, its not the end of the world, marami pang darating sa iyo, wag kang mainip, lalaki tayo meaning we men appreciate while females depreciate, that is accounting 101 for you... So think about it..

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Troll Montero · **Reply #4 on:** February 05, 2014, 06:50:29 PM

ito yung isa sa mga na K-Zone...

nag ilove you ka siguro no, sagot niya lang K hehe, pasok ka sa banga idol..

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somebody · **Reply #5 on:** February 17, 2014, 02:12:59 AM

Quote from: jamesbond on February 03, 2014, 10:12:56 PM

hmmm... i just don't know about your declaration.. if you are doing great about at what status in your relationship? if you were in the
getting to know stage and you are going to declare your love for her, uhmm, and she's not interested in going to that next level, maybe she's not ready yet or she just want you as a friend.. Student ba kayo? Baka studies muna ang gusto nya.. Grown ups na ba kayo? Hmm maybe she needs you as a friend for now, give her time to get to know you better or this could be her strategy, to test your mettle on how much you need and love her... declaring love to someone is not just buying a candy in a store, you want it and you get it, no... if and when you feel she's not really that interested in you, well, maybe its high time you focus your attention to some place else.. convert your frustration into something useful or fruitful.. destiny has it, if she's yours then you have to work for it and if not then you were not really meant for each other... remember this, love comes in mysterious ways and who knows, the one for you is just around the corner waiting for you to be recognized or she is already there but you were too busy not to acknowledge formally... Cheer up, its not the end of the world, marami pang darating sa iyo, wag kang mainip, lalaki tayo meaning we men appreciate while females depreciate, that is accounting 101 for you... So think about it..

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Wow..OMOZONg ser dacs...kahit di ako ang ts nito,nakarelate ako sa advice mo,

Do you have a Black Dog?

Sleepaholic · **Reply #6 on:** February 17, 2014, 02:54:19 AM

Baka naturn off si girl?

Did you do something na di niya nagustuhan tapos bigla siyang umiwas at nailang?

Kulang yung kwento eh.

dennis magtulis · **Reply #7 on:** February 17, 2014, 10:45:58 AM

ang mga babae talaga mahirap minsan ispelengin
simple lang bro,,move on na lang,,
dami pa jan
"pag ayaw talaga marami dahilan"
baka pag kinulet mo pa eh lalo lang iwasan ka
try mo din magpahabol,

runner · **Reply #8 on:** February 17, 2014, 11:06:47 AM

na friend zone ka siguro..

mahirap yan...move on nalang pre...

fayt · **Reply #9 on:** February 17, 2014, 11:38:29 AM

then confess to her your feeling para naman ikaw na rin makaconfirm sa sarili mo nyan..

sabi mo nga before ka palang mag confess nag iba na sya, baka kasi she feel the same way kaya naiilang na sya.

pwede rin naman yun sinasabi nila na hindi na sya interesado sa romantic relationship with you.

paano natin malalaman yan? edi itanong straight sa kanya....

confess mo yan feeling mo para hindi yan maging utot at maglalabasan yan mga "what ifs" mo.....

okay lang naman mareject at least wala kang regret na nasabi mo sa kanya yan nararamdamam mo...

Good luck sayo!

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