Crossing the Boundaries

[chazer]

Falling in love with your best friend is a bitch. Nakakatakot na nawala ang friendship ninyo kapag nagtapat ka. Nakakalungkot naman na lagi mo siya kasama pero hindi niya alam na mahal mo siya. Feeling mo nasa pagitan ka ng langit at impyerno everytime na kasama mo siya. 
[/the feeling is mutual po...  happened to me way back 4th yr hs, we're friends the until after our graduation, we communicated thru letters since then until i felt there is something i really feel for her.  since i'm always with her, told her about my feelings towards her but she said that she just wanted us to remain friends and wont entertain such feelings.  somehow i felt she got angry about this but i told her it just wasnt my plan or what.  it just happened, one day i woke up, realizing it isnt platonic anymore for me.  but i respected her decision and up to now, though, we have not seen each other for years, we are still bff.]

[trashing214]

there's a reason kung bakit nasa friend zone ka. And unless may pinapakita siyang kakaiba rin towards you, malaking risk talaga ang magtapat sa kanya dahil more likely friend lang talaga turing niya sa iyo.

[dandingco]

i can relate to this situation. Yung wife ko ay naging mag-bestfriend muna kami bago kami nagkatuluyan. I was also scared na mawala siya if magtapat ako ng totoong feelings ko sa kanya pero it was worth it.

Even if it went the other way, at least you can say you have tried than not showing to her what she really means to you.