premarital pregnancy, tama bang magsama na or magpakasal agad?

xxxchoholic Rai ♥ · **on:** October 30, 2013, 08:40:47 PM

a lot of people do engage in premarital six.. kahit di naman

nila mahal ang isat isa or even wala na naman talaga silang relasyon

kalaunan yun iba nakakabuntis/ nabubuntis.. sa stage na yun.. na may buntis

tama ba na mag sama na sila or magpakasal na dahil nga may

bata na sa sitwasyon nila?

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LimitLess™ · **Reply #1 on:** October 31, 2013, 12:00:08 AM

Dapat lang sila magsama kasi may nabuo sa kanilang pagtatalik .. kawawa naman yung magiging anak nila walang kikilalaning ama/ina .. Kung hindi talaga nila mahal ang isat-isa matutunan naman cguro nila yan katagalan lalo na may anak na sila at isang pamilya na sila .. tsaka cguro naman hindi ka naman makikipagtalik sa hindi mo kilala or hindi mo rin type .. pera nalang kung lasing ang isa sainyo ( lalo na ngayon uso ang Pikot sa lalake man o babae ) tsaka kung hindi mo talaga gusto sya kawawa yung isa sainyo na maiiwan ..

Example #1: ikaw hindi mo gusto si lalake di bale nalang na single mom ka ..

Ex.2: Si lalake hindi ka gusto kawawa ka, or walang paninindigan sa nagawa nyo ..

Ex.3: Hindi sya gusto ng pamilya mo/nya dahil adik, mahirap etc. etc. ika/sya?

Minsan ang tao kasi namimili lalo na sa estado ng buhay ng isang tao.

Sa pagpapakasal madali lang yang lalo na kung nasa hustong edad na kayo or with parent consent/by religion.

Pero pinaka-kawawa dyan yung magiging anak nyo dahil walang kikilalaning "AMA or INA" pero may paraan naman dyan kung may sasalong bilang "Ama/Ina" pero paano kung nalaman nyang "Ampon sya?" ( nanay/tatay sino po ang tunay kung magulang?) or darating din dyan na ipapakilala mo sya sa tunay nyang ama/ina .. Or kung wala ka namang pakielam or walang ng balak ipakilala yung ama/ina nya sabihin mo nalang na "Patay or namatay na" pero darating din dyan na hahanapin ng nakatalik mo yung nabuo nyong bata upang makilala rin ..

"Labo noh? Parang walang naging sagot sa reply ko!? Hahaha!" Pero kawawa talaga yung magiging anak ..

xxxchoholic Rai ♥ · **Reply #2 on:** October 31, 2013, 12:30:31 AM

well you just pointed out the scenarios along with

this thing naman which is okay i think... cause that is reality

yun bata ang kawawa in the end.. pero siyempre kailangan

mo din isama yun mga tao who engages on one night stand and such alike..

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psycho29 · **Reply #3 on:** October 31, 2013, 02:27:55 AM

depende pa rin tlga sa magiging usapan nyan.. baka di naman sagot ang kasal para masolved ang problem nila

¿m☺ÿ · **Reply #4 on:** November 02, 2013, 05:57:38 PM

This is a situation na dapat kinukonsider before doing it..... although my thought is telling me na dapat magpakasal sila is the right thing to do but something is telling me na it is not really a good solution....bakit? people may say na kawawa ang bata, pero kung magsama man ang dalawa may guarantee ba na hindi magiging kawawa ang bata? I say na magsama sila kung iyon ang nararamdaman nilang dapat gawin, mahirap kasi yung napipilitan lamang at sigurado pare-pareho silang magsa-suffer.

My wife's cousin bears the same situation at sinubukan nilang magsama noong guy at dahil walang love hindi nagtagal eh naghiwalay din sila. A lot of problem came out noong nagsasama sila but when they decided to just part ways eh naging mas maayos ang buhay ng bawat isa......

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xxxchoholic Rai ♥ · **Reply #5 on:** November 02, 2013, 09:11:41 PM

Quote from: imoy on November 02, 2013, 05:57:38 PM

This is a situation na dapat kinukonsider before doing it..... although my thought is telling me na dapat magpakasal sila is the right thing to do but something is telling me na it is not really a good solution....bakit? people may say na kawawa ang bata, pero kung magsama man ang dalawa may guarantee ba na hindi magiging kawawa ang bata? I say na magsama sila kung iyon ang nararamdaman nilang dapat gawin, mahirap kasi yung napipilitan lamang at sigurado pare-pareho silang magsa-suffer.

My wife's cousin bears the same situation at sinubukan nilang magsama noong guy at dahil walang love hindi nagtagal eh naghiwalay din sila. A lot of problem came out noong nagsasama sila but when they decided to just part ways eh naging mas maayos ang buhay ng bawat isa......

i totally agree with that sir..

kasi sa una lang yan na ayos true na may tatayo sa bata na parents..

pero in the long run dahil di nila mahal ang isat isa

the child might and would grow up without love and having a dysfunctional family

or a broken family at malaki ang chances nun na mangyari

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rage955 · **Reply #6 on:** November 02, 2013, 09:15:59 PM

Tingin ko dito hindi dapat magsama unless gusto nila yung isa't-isa. Mahirap sa parte nung lalake at babae yan. Nagtitiisan lang sila.
At kawawa rin yung bata kasi may mutual separation yung parents nya. Magkasama sa bahay,pero walang pagmamahal. Mahirap sa bata yun.

Kurimasu · **Reply #7 on:** November 02, 2013, 10:05:51 PM

Depende... Kung kaya ng magsarili, plus, kya ng buhayin ang pamilya, plus mhal nyo ang isat isa, bkit hindi?

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Itachi101 · **Reply #8 on:** November 02, 2013, 10:30:17 PM

dapat alam ng magkabilang panig ang kanilang sitwasyon
para malaman kung anong mga bagay ang dapat nilang gawin
dahil kung marunong silang gumawa ng bata
dapat marunong ding silang humarap sa reponsibilities

Prime™ · **Reply #9 on:** November 04, 2013, 06:07:04 AM

Depende. There is no generic answer here.

Meron compatible sila, and meron din naman hindi. At the end of the day it's the child that would suffer the most. That is usually the case, sad to say.

One of the worst mistakes a child could make is choosing idiot parents.

I'm Catholic, but I'm starting to think birth control should really be used. Mahirap na pigilan mga bata ngayon lalo sa ganyan. I would rather they abstained parin, pero because of our culture now, It's a pipe dream.

six sells ika nga, and people in the business do not hesitate to use it.

zzgundam · **Reply #10 on:** November 04, 2013, 06:45:34 AM

My personal conviction is that they should get married.
This is to prevent the child from having further legal and emotional complications.

Cathrina · **Reply #11 on:** November 04, 2013, 07:41:14 AM

On my own opinion if pregnant and getting married is not an option to either one side or both sides coz they dont love each other then its rather the baby will raise by a single parent than raise by both parents in which they cant get along and fights every time that would be a worst place of that child to be more worse than raise by a single parent..but still it doesnt mean that both of you didnt give that child life misserable coz situation like these the child is always the loser and the victim..so,lesson to learn be responsible to your own act.. $:-\$

dennis magtulis · **Reply #12 on:** November 04, 2013, 10:41:18 AM

well it always depend on the situation,,
halimbawa kung one night stand lang yan,,or you rarely know your partner,,I think gettting married is not the right option..
wag padalos dalos sa decision since marriage is not a joke,,ask niyo yung mga married pt members naten,,haha

mahirap din kasi pag lumaki tayo sa medyo conserbatibong pamilya,,madlas un kagad ang sagot,,like what happened to my cousin,,ayun inanakan lang ng inanakan ng tambay niyang asawa,,

cloe · **Reply #13 on:** November 07, 2013, 10:21:03 AM

nope. getting maried or living together is not the best thing to do when a woman gets preggy. believe me

jamesbond · **Reply #14 on:** November 10, 2013, 09:26:12 AM

Quote from: cloe on November 07, 2013, 10:21:03 AM

nope. getting maried or living together is not the best thing to do when a woman gets preggy. believe me

$:-\$ i agree with ms. cloe (parang may pinaghuhugutan ah), marriage is not the answer... although the TS didn't mention the age of parties involved, hmmm... marriage is so sacred that nobody can force someone to do it.. it is by own freewill... kung mga minors ang involved mas lalo na hindi dapat ikasal ang mga yan... init lang ng katawan yan kaya nabuo... let time test their preparedness before taking the plunged....

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