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the UGLY TRUTH about Men, Women & ReLationship

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Offline Vixen2006

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on: October 01, 2013, 07:31:33 PM
What can You say about the UGLY TRUTH abouT ReLationShip, Men and Women in general?

Are below iLLustrations trUe???





Are men ReaLLy JusT after that? And Women are UsuaLLy thE OneS wHo's muCh a TruE BeLieVeR of the ReaL Sense of the WoRd..L.O.V.e??
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« on: October 01, 2013, 07:31:33 PM »

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Reply #1 on: October 01, 2013, 08:09:48 PM
bitter ang nagpost nito.. hindi naman lahat ng lalaki yan lang ang habol. marami sa amin na mamahalin ang mga babae na gusto nila kahit hindi nila makuha yan...
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Reply #2 on: October 01, 2013, 08:51:11 PM
Okay, there will be creeps out there pero there will still be decent men.

I am not saying I don't want six, cause I do. I will not deny that, and pretend I am harmless cause that's a lie. It's in my nature, pero para yun lang ang maging basis to go into a relationship? That's kinda lame and pig like behavior.

We can't compartmentalize and generalize that all guys are like this, and all girls are like that. We have different values, levels of maturity and principles.

I find sixy girls nice to look at, pero I for one wouldn't sleep with a girl whom I find the character detestable no matter how physically attractive she is.

Meron talagang mga manyak jaan na wala sa lugar, pero you have to use your own judgement if you are dealing with one.

We are hard wired to procreate, that's why six is pleasurable pero dito nadin papasok yung humanity, where you know right from wrong and empathy. If six lang habol nung tao with no regard for someone's feelings, hindi yata kumpleto ang evolution nung tao na yun and might even be a psychopath.

It really is up to the women to discern if decent ba yung guy or hindi, kasi there are plenty of decent nice guys out there, and sadly some girls just have the habit of picking the worthless douchebags.. So yup, two way street din yan.
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Reply #3 on: October 02, 2013, 08:01:56 AM
T​hat is so old school. We are now at the time na the pleasure of six is no longer exclusively conceded by guys but girls are now openly honest about it. Girls should no longer be naive, expecting six to be reciprocated by love or may lead to commitments.


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Reply #4 on: October 02, 2013, 11:32:23 AM
as ExPeCted, Men wiLL come Out as the DefenSive OnEs. WhiLe WoMeN woulD teNd to be JusT MUm AbouT it.  :P

hmm...it's nOt BeIng A BittEr. It's JusT MeReLy sTaTing a FaCt thaT NoRmALLy, MeN are moRE TraNspaReNt ANd MoRe AGGrEssIve WhEn it ComeS to ShOWINg whAt He WaNts. It's In ouR CuLTurE.  :)

EVen ThOUgh NoWADAys, WOmEn aRe StaRtIng To Be soRt of BeIng an EQuaL to MeN, THey StiLL HaVe The TenDeNcy To be SliGhtLy ReSerVed. StiLL haVinG DouBTs to ReaLLY shOw WhAt TheY wanT, in FeAR of WhaT miGhT be The SoCiETy THiNK abOut TheM.  :-\

WoMeN ReCeiVe MoRe HaRsH JudGemEnts thaN MeN if beLow situation is ReVERsEd...RiGhT??? i beLieVe it's in Our Norm.  :(

I ReaLLy love this TopIc. AcTuaLLy, BeLow IlluSTraTion is stiLL DeBaTaBLe...HeNce, this TopIc is MaDe.  ::)
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Reply #5 on: October 02, 2013, 01:02:41 PM
hahaha bitter !!! yuko na dagdagan baka mapano pa ako  :P

basta ito lang masasabi ko, bahala na ang girls kung yun ang isip nila sakin

basta patuloy akong manliligaw sa babaeng napupusoan ko.. hngang sa makuha ko ang gusto ko.... este makuha ang puso nito hahaha :P



Kanta muna tayo Bitter Song

Adele - Someone Like you !!! hahaha  :-\

Kidding !!!


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Reply #6 on: October 02, 2013, 01:40:32 PM
in my thoughts, im not referring the TS as bitter. Im referring to the person who originally create that antics...
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Di porket pare pareho kami ng sagot, nagkopyahan na kami. May sagot ba na iba iba? Ano yun, originality?
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Reply #7 on: October 02, 2013, 01:48:43 PM
fiNaLLy!!! a NeUtraL side! Thank you, BRow Fayt...  :-X

but it'S okay.. Each of us have Our own OpinIons. so, no Harm Done!

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Reply #8 on: October 02, 2013, 03:18:45 PM
Some girls are really hard to convince if the feelings of a man is genuine or not lalo na kapag may hindi magandang pinagdaan, whereas kung ang guy naman ang maka-experience eh parang magiging sort of revenge.....but reality is, pagdating sa six things, nagbago na ang mundo ngayon... the guys are not the only one wanting to have someone to cuddle....both man and woman wants romance but on different degree may it be physical or intimate.

Siguro 40 years ago women are much more reserved but now, i really doubt it because when you look at the concert for both male and female entertainer, di ba mas marami ang babae sa audience shouting and showing-off there affection? Look at how women dress in the 60's and look at the way they dress now? I'm not being conservative here but most of the time, men are given wrong impression towards women but in reality if a man made an advancement, nothing will happen if the woman will decline it, right?

I'm not saying that i don't like making love or six which is more known or more famous word, nor i don't feel the lust that everybody else feels when an attractive and seductive woman comes along. But I'm just making a point that a man when in love can be more timid or more shy or more behave than a woman, and don't really always want to have six.... when the guy if inlove; kissing, making love is our way of connection to the woman, the passion, the intimacy, the romance that we want to release... Unfortunately, some guys used this to test their feelings towards the woman, so i really don't blame them for saying that man is always thinking of six.... and the same process is used to have a release of man's burden, urge, problem etc.....all in one process, six. So you see, when a man have six.... the reason may vary depending on the situation.

The difference between women and men is that woman can lie in front of a man without a hint of a lie but man unfortunately doesn’t have that talent, meaning women have the more control over their feeling and urge but it doesn’t mean they don’t have the urge or the feeling….it’s just that they can suppress it and be more in control whereas man always fail in this area, horribly. So, the picture maybe true many years ago but not now...anyway, when a man and a woman got married, i think the wife becomes more aggressive than the husband....?? peace

nice thread +karma sa iyo


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Reply #9 on: October 05, 2013, 01:06:24 PM
the problem is that girls doesn't understand the men are always right but we just choose to shut our mouth about it so that we won't hurt their feelings.
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Reply #10 on: October 07, 2013, 07:14:39 PM
waaahh! kayo po talaga. Please don't have any doubts when sharing your own thoughts. open-MInded po tayoNg Lahat here. (i think...hehehe)

but for me, i reaLLy Love meN whO speak foR theMseLVes. isa po sa yun sa nakakaPagImPress....  ::) ;D ::)
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Reply #11 on: October 08, 2013, 06:58:07 AM
Some girls are really hard to convince if the feelings of a man is genuine or not lalo na kapag may hindi magandang pinagdaan, whereas kung ang guy naman ang maka-experience eh parang magiging sort of revenge.....but reality is, pagdating sa six things, nagbago na ang mundo ngayon... the guys are not the only one wanting to have someone to cuddle....both man and woman wants romance but on different degree may it be physical or intimate.

Siguro 40 years ago women are much more reserved but now, i really doubt it because when you look at the concert for both male and female entertainer, di ba mas marami ang babae sa audience shouting and showing-off there affection? Look at how women dress in the 60's and look at the way they dress now? I'm not being conservative here but most of the time, men are given wrong impression towards women but in reality if a man made an advancement, nothing will happen if the woman will decline it, right?

I'm not saying that i don't like making love or six which is more known or more famous word, nor i don't feel the lust that everybody else feels when an attractive and seductive woman comes along. But I'm just making a point that a man when in love can be more timid or more shy or more behave than a woman, and don't really always want to have six.... when the guy if inlove; kissing, making love is our way of connection to the woman, the passion, the intimacy, the romance that we want to release... Unfortunately, some guys used this to test their feelings towards the woman, so i really don't blame them for saying that man is always thinking of six.... and the same process is used to have a release of man's burden, urge, problem etc.....all in one process, six. So you see, when a man have six.... the reason may vary depending on the situation.

The difference between women and men is that woman can lie in front of a man without a hint of a lie but man unfortunately doesn’t have that talent, meaning women have the more control over their feeling and urge but it doesn’t mean they don’t have the urge or the feeling….it’s just that they can suppress it and be more in control whereas man always fail in this area, horribly. So, the picture maybe true many years ago but not now...anyway, when a man and a woman got married, i think the wife becomes more aggressive than the husband....?? peace

nice thread +karma sa iyo

Nice explanation sir... but i cant help not to smile when i read the last part nyahahaha it seems I can hear my hubby talking...

all I can say to this topic eh nasa ating babae pa rin paano tayo rerespetuhin ng mga guys... yes if we fall to a certain man..and give them our heart and trust.. we are are as well giving them the right to hurt us or to respect us... dont get me wrong sis pero meron kaseng babae na sineseryoso at meron din babae na talagang sad to say eh lagi na lang niloloko...because she was giving them the right to do that ( forget about six) I'll give you guys a good example...

I have a friend , she's nice she only want true love but guess what walang sumeryoso sa kanya... dahil kami ang malapit sa kanya we can see whats wrong bakit walang sumeseryoso.. kase naman sa una palang she was already showing how generous she was.. as in pinapakita na nya gaano nya kamahal ang guy eh kaya nya ibigay or bilhin ang lahat.... so here comes the guy taking advantage ... so at this argument i dont agree w/ sir imoy theory na

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The difference between women and men is that woman can lie in front of a man without a hint of a lie but man unfortunately doesn’t have that talent, meaning women have the more control over their feeling and urge but it doesn’t mean they don’t have the urge or the feeling….it’s just that they can suppress it and be more in control whereas man always fail in this area, horribly

Hell no... i still believe that we women are the victims of our own sincerity... we trust too much that guys take advantage... we cant lie.. we are too transparent to show how much we care , how much we can give and how willing we are to be the victim...

sa panahon ngayon... wag ka na maghanap ng lalaking igagalang ang pagkababae mo kundi ang lalaki na magpapakalalaki sa mga Words na binibitawan nila ( guys maybe a bad liar but unfortunately they are good pretender they can pretend to be your shinning armor but the truth is only few can be the Prince charming in the end)... all man have 2 balls but the question is who got the balls???

btw nice post mam sis vixen....
I would rather be known in life as an honest sinner, than a lying hypocrite


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Reply #12 on: October 08, 2013, 04:53:13 PM
That's it. From now on, I will be truthful and honest to women.

Shit. My nose is getting longer while typing that...


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Reply #13 on: October 11, 2013, 07:08:29 PM
Nice explanation sir... but i cant help not to smile when i read the last part nyahahaha it seems I can hear my hubby talking...

all I can say to this topic eh nasa ating babae pa rin paano tayo rerespetuhin ng mga guys... yes if we fall to a certain man..and give them our heart and trust.. we are are as well giving them the right to hurt us or to respect us... dont get me wrong sis pero meron kaseng babae na sineseryoso at meron din babae na talagang sad to say eh lagi na lang niloloko...because she was giving them the right to do that ( forget about six) I'll give you guys a good example...

I have a friend , she's nice she only want true love but guess what walang sumeryoso sa kanya... dahil kami ang malapit sa kanya we can see whats wrong bakit walang sumeseryoso.. kase naman sa una palang she was already showing how generous she was.. as in pinapakita na nya gaano nya kamahal ang guy eh kaya nya ibigay or bilhin ang lahat.... so here comes the guy taking advantage ... so at this argument i dont agree w/ sir imoy theory na
The difference between women and men is that woman can lie in front of a man without a hint of a lie but man unfortunately doesn’t have that talent, meaning women have the more control over their feeling and urge but it doesn’t mean they don’t have the urge or the feeling….it’s just that they can suppress it and be more in control whereas man always fail in this area, horribly. So, the picture maybe true many years ago but not now...anyway, when a man and a woman got married, i think the wife becomes more aggressive than the husband....?? peace
Hell no... i still believe that we women are the victims of our own sincerity... we trust too much that guys take advantage... we cant lie.. we are too transparent to show how much we care , how much we can give and how willing we are to be the victim...

sa panahon ngayon... wag ka na maghanap ng lalaking igagalang ang pagkababae mo kundi ang lalaki na magpapakalalaki sa mga Words na binibitawan nila ( guys maybe a bad liar but unfortunately they are good pretender they can pretend to be your shinning armor but the truth is only few can be the Prince charming in the end)... all man have 2 balls but the question is who got the balls???

btw nice post mam sis vixen....

I like this topic because i can say whatever i want without my wife reprimanding me, ouch!

But i think i may need to make a stand on behalf of the males out there, at least for those that doesn't really into taking advantage of women.....

I will not disagree ma'am dimple, especially the example you've mentioned... and i believe everything you've said is true....but my point is that, what happened to your friend is also happening to some of the males out there and the one writing this have a similar experience....well, similar because i can't really offer my body to the woman i thought loved me, oh wait, 2 of them told me they loved me but there is someone whom they love more(2 of the most painful experience i have, 1st happen when i was 16 and the other when i was 24)... anyway, when i say that women can lie, i didn't say that all women lie every now and then. What i'm saying is that, they can do it, without a hint. My lady friends(my advisers, I have what they called "my angels" those that taught me how to know if a woman likes me or not, i really thank them kasi it's handy and keeps me from being rejected on the first try at least) once told me that it was an inborn talent, wether they use it or not it's their choice.

I've been working in an electronics company for almost 10 years, where the majority of the work force is mostly women, the ratio is 44:1 (women to men), but i'm proud to say that i did not turn into gay and able to have 1 girlfriend that turns out to be a 2 timer but unfortunately, i've learned it after 4 years only because she can't hide it anymore(totoo nga ang kasabihang we can't hide the truth forever). I'm not telling this because i'm a woman hater or bitter but my own experience spoke a lot . My girlfriend (the 2 timer) gave me everything she have, and i'm contented with it. I also gave her everything i have and whatever i can give her, even my underwear if she wants to used it. My mistake is that i never really doubted her, why should i? She gave herself to me and whatever i have it's her's and vice versa only marraige is the remaining step to seal the bond.

Then gossip just flew to my ears about a guy who she talks about a lot, that according to her was like a younger brother, and of course who am i to doubt someone that captivated my heart and more, and i never really believe the gossip until one time she told me she will be having an all girls night out with her girl friends, and truly all her friends was there plus an additional one guy, the guy in the gossip. She never knew that i will be there because being a gentleBF I want to make sure to see her off with sweet goodbyes but then when i saw her from afar with her friends and the guy waiting for a taxi...i did not go near, i don't want to spoil their fun. Then i sense something is wrong. Why him instead of me? So the morning came and i asked her who she's with that night....suprisingly but not much i thought i suspected it, she only told me of her girl friends leaving the guy part.... something is fishy i guess.....you know what, i felt like an idiot that time and the time to come, right under my nose. But i never regret it, i'm just glad that before i pop the question, i've learned it myself.

Now, i'm sure she's the victim of this event because she was the one to decide what to do. Believe it or not, i gave her another chance when i caught them red handed in her apartment with the guy hiding behind the closet, not inside but crooked at the side....it's a funny position he got there but i was really angry to have a laugh. I think she's really embarrass because she became aloof for many days, i think i lost count and became months, then the talk came where she admitted that she love the guy more but there's a consolation....she also love me but not that much compare to the guy. It was devastating but i have lived another day.

The thing is, in this event we all lost. Nobody really is the winner. I know, other males and female out there experience this kind of thing not once twice or a lot more....for me i experience 4x, 2 of them i mention earlier, 3rd one when i'm 19 during college and the 4th when i was 29 but lost not to a guy but to a dream, a carreer that she regreted when it didn't really became successful.

So point is really clear, wrong things can happen, wrong decision can be regretable, everyone can be a victim. It doesn't really matter if you're a male or a female. The female maybe more emotional and showy but it doesn't mean that we are immune to feel the pain of loosing, of being cheated or being used as an outlet. In a relationship, men and women are equal both are still human with different emotion to show. But the question is how to handle and control it. I know for a fact that when a person really said no and really meant it then nothing will happen or else the police will play their part, maybe not be true 40 years ago but on this generation where woman can build a home without a man with a lot of laws that can be considered, it is really by choice. Peace po.
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Reply #14 on: October 12, 2013, 09:56:03 AM
VerY weLL-saId, Brow ImoY. I reaLLy LooK up to PeoPLe like you. HurT aNd ToRn so maNy Times anD yeT...heRe You ARe...stiLL staNding taLL.

YoUr WiFe is One LucKy LadY, BrOw.


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