EFFORT!!!

[Prime™]

If you think she has been nothing but kind to you, then appreciate and reward that with your attention too. Do something nice for her.

I'm not saying be all romantic and go casanova on her, pero show her what your intention is. Do you enjoy being with her? Then show it. Do you like to experience eating in a restaurant with her? Do it. Would you like to jog with her in the morning? Go for it.

Let what you feel guide you. If you think watching a movie marathon with her would be a thrilling experience for both of you, man do it.

If you care about this person like you say you do, andami mo sigurong gustong gawin and ma experience with no one else but this person.

I am an introvert, and I am not very showy either pero if I feel like doing something, I do it. We used to jog around folk arts early in the morning and go have a picnic after, it's very cheap and a very healthy alternative if you guys are into that kind of thing.

Or we go on a road trip, buy a little something from the market and head on to the beach, hike a little, swim a little and cook lunch on a hot charcoal.

There are no rules. Just do what feels right.

Anyway that's just an example, my ultimate advice is do what feels right. Don't take her to watch a concert that you wouldn't enjoy, or to eat in a restaurant that you know you wouldn't like, you will just be miserable as a company. Go do something you think you both will enjoy and work from there.

And by the way, past is past. Never bring up what happened before, may kasalanan ka jan kaya steer away from that topic if it ever comes up.

Bro my advice only applies if she wants to do these things with you. It's a two-way street. If you think she is up for it, and she still wants to give your relationship a chance then go for it.

Good luck mate.

[iceprince]

Bro my advice only applies if she wants to do these things with you. It's a two-way street. If you think she is up for it, and she still wants to give your relationship a chance then go for it.

Good luck mate.

Tama si sir Prime...It all comes down to kung ano ba ang kaya mong gawin at ang alam mong magugustuhan nya...
Think that you are doing this as a couple and not just some random act...
It will help you develop a certain bond with her and as time goes by...both of you will look back and say that you were happy and you can do it again...
Marami namang puedeng gawing activities...at sana balitaan mo kami kung ano ang mangyayari...
Lastly, kiss her unguardedly...spur of the moment...let her feel kung gaano mo talaga sya kamahal...

[ladyvirus01]

If you think she has been nothing but kind to you, then appreciate and reward that with your attention too. Do something nice for her.

I'm not saying be all romantic and go casanova on her, pero show her what your intention is. Do you enjoy being with her? Then show it. Do you like to experience eating in a restaurant with her? Do it. Would you like to jog with her in the morning? Go for it.

Let what you feel guide you. If you think watching a movie marathon with her would be a thrilling experience for both of you, man do it.

If you care about this person like you say you do, andami mo sigurong gustong gawin and ma experience with no one else but this person.

I am an introvert, and I am not very showy either pero if I feel like doing something, I do it. We used to jog around folk arts early in the morning and go have a picnic after, it's very cheap and a very healthy alternative if you guys are into that kind of thing.

Or we go on a road trip, buy a little something from the market and head on to the beach, hike a little, swim a little and cook lunch on a hot charcoal.

There are no rules. Just do what feels right.

Anyway that's just an example, my ultimate advice is do what feels right. Don't take her to watch a concert that you wouldn't enjoy, or to eat in a restaurant that you know you wouldn't like, you will just be miserable as a company. Go do something you think you both will enjoy and work from there.

And by the way, past is past. Never bring up what happened before, may kasalanan ka jan kaya steer away from that topic if it ever comes up.

Bro my advice only applies if she wants to do these things with you. It's a two-way street. If you think she is up for it, and she still wants to give your relationship a chance then go for it.

Good luck mate.

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im so captivating bout you advice sir prime very well said and truly believe that all you've done it will be base on that makes you happy and enjoy it hindi para sa gusto ng iba or maplease mo just be honest to yourself... as a woman minsan kasi may limit din ang pasencya namin if mahal namin ang isang tao ipaglalaban namin kesohoda sasabihin na your so desperate kasi nga mahal mo pero kng hindi ka ng exist at wala yung effort mo , automatic na yan mawawala na then saka mo mairealizes yun kng totally wala na siya sau, magulo ata advice ko hihi... basta just do what makes you happy ok
(woman side)

[schneizel]

@sir prime, astig po ung advice nyo po...pero panu po kung lahat ng pagyaya ko sa kanya ayaw nya? sobrang bitter pa din nya saken eh... pero nung wednesday napasmile ko sya kasi dinalhan ko sya ng mga snacks na favorite nya... di nya daw kasi ineexpect un...hehehe... sobrang saya ko nang makita ko ulit smile nya...

[toshka]

di ako romantic, di rin ako sweet... pero my gf is demanding an effort... wala daw syang nakikitang effort saken... di ko naman sya maintindihan... pahelp po mga  ka PT...

Hmmm madalas sabihin to ng babae pag nanlalamig na at di na nararamdaman presence mo minsan kahit magkasama na kayo parang magkalayo pa rin. Madami relationship na dumadaan sa ganyan stage.

Maaaring di ka romantic at showy na tao tanggap ka na ganyan ka, pero the moment na humingi ng effort. Oh dude, you really need to do something. Di pwede ibale wala yan.

Hope ok na kayo ts.

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[witherwind]

EFFORT? Ako, pickup lines lang everyday. Hahaha. Masaya na siya dun. Though wala kasi akong bad record, even dun sa ex ko.

[jamesbond]

@fayt, mahirap po talaga... tumatanggi sya everytime na yayain ko sya magdate kami... by the way, pareho kami 4th year college sa bicol university college of engineering, Mech. Eng. course ko, Civil Eng. naman sya...araw araw kami nagkikita at araw araw din kami nag aaway... pero kahit ganun kami at niloko ko pa sya, araw araw syang nag iloveyou saken... sobrang nagsisi ako sa ginawa ko... more than one year na kami pero di ko pa sya nabibigyan ng flower... di ata ako deserving sa kanya...

ayusin mo kasi ang pagsuyo sa kanya... tama si tol fayt, gawin mo yung corny things sa movies... bakit mo naman inaaway sya madalas? may dahilan ka ba para awayin sya? huwag ganun tol... baka kasawaan ka nyan lalo't hindi pa kayo mag-asawa at mga students pa lang kayo... may manligaw dyan na mas matino kaysa sa iyo eh ikaw rin baka magsisi ka sa huli...

[schneizel]

@jamesbond, natakot naman ako dun... pero meron syang manliligaw ngayon simula pa 1st year, apat na taon na nanliligaw and taon taon busted palagi pero matyaga pa din manligaw... gusto ko na nga dispatyahin...hehehe

[witherwind]

Do something unique -- the small things dude.
The bigger things are somehow generic, dahil halos lahat ung ang pinupursue para sa taong gusto nila.

When you put up the small things together, you can make something bigger.

Like they said, gumaya ka sa movies. One time, gumamit ako ng sinulid na singsing to ask my ex GF out. And she was like, kinikilig LOL.

Another thing, wag ipilit ang hindi gusto. If ever that fact is lingering, let go.

[wildreader02]

tama silang lahat hehehe

it all boils down to "time" and "communication"

Time is a precious thing, its finite and you can never take it back or make more of it. - spend quality time with your someone and make sure you both enjoy every second of it.
Communication is very important too, if you love her;... tell her!... open up!...
if you like her;.. find out what she likes!... start a simple conversation and go from there

It doesnt have to be extravagant. its the simple things (as per witherwind).

[Prime™]

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im so captivating bout you advice sir prime very well said and truly believe that all you've done it will be base on that makes you happy and enjoy it hindi para sa gusto ng iba or maplease mo just be honest to yourself... as a woman minsan kasi may limit din ang pasencya namin if mahal namin ang isang tao ipaglalaban namin kesohoda sasabihin na your so desperate kasi nga mahal mo pero kng hindi ka ng exist at wala yung effort mo , automatic na yan mawawala na then saka mo mairealizes yun kng totally wala na siya sau, magulo ata advice ko hihi... basta just do what makes you happy ok
(woman side)

Right on chief and aga.

Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness

That's what it's all about.


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[darkbahamut]

di ako romantic, di rin ako sweet... pero my gf is demanding an effort... wala daw syang nakikitang effort saken... di ko naman sya maintindihan... pahelp po mga  ka PT...

alam mo dalawang bagay lang yan eh...at aminado ka sa isa "hindi ka romantiko"...mahirap magpakita na you appriciate your partner kung hindi ka romantiko...maganda siguro manood ka ng mga konting love story...kahit na conry...pangalawa...it's either meron ng ibang nag-eeffort sakanya...at ayaw mo yun...siguro maganda start to compliment her...halimbawa...kung magkasama kayo sa upuan ng bus...tignan mo lang siya habang nakaupo kayo at nakaakbay ka sakanya sa balikat...tapos kapag tinanong ka sabihin mo wala lang...tapos bigyan mo siya ng light kiss sa forehead niya sabihin mo love you..AHAHA...ganun ang banat AHAHAH

[schneizel]

hayzz... mga ka-PT, sobrang naiinis ako sa sarili ko... di ko alam bakit ako ganito... napakawalang kwenta ko... ginagawa  ko best ko at nagiging maayos kami pero pag may maliit na bagay kaming pinag aawayan di ko makontrol galit ko... di ko naman sya sinasaktan physically pero kahit ano nasasabi ko... hayzzz... by the way salamat sa mga payo nyo... naappreciate ko lahat... salamat talaga sa inyo...

[toshka]

Aw TS is everything ok? Anyare? 

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[schneizel]

Aw TS is everything ok? Anyare? 

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