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Minsan na akong nagtanong sa sarili ko.Ano ba ang mas matimbang,maling pag-ibig sa tamang pagkakataon o tamang pag-ibig sa maling pagkakataon? Malamang nahirapan karin kung ano isasagot mo sa unang basa mo.Bakit ba tayo umiibig? Para lumigaya di ba? Naniniwala ako na ang tunay na kaligayahan ay makakamit mo kung iibig ka sa tamang paraan at tamang pagkakataon.Paano mo ba masasabing mali ang pag-ibig kung ang mali na yon ay s'yang nagbibigay ligaya sa'yo? Paano mo ring masasabing tama ito kung may nasasaktan kang ibang tao?Wala nga bang maling pag-ibig at wala ding tamang pag-ibig.? lahat ba ng ito ay balanse? Diba't nagiging mali lang naman ang pag-ibig kapag pinipilit natin ang mga bagay na hindi dapat.At naniniwala din ako na kasama ang utak kapag nagmamahal ka.Ang utak kasi ang nakakaalam ng tama at mali.At ang puso naman ay tumitibok lang yan at nagmamahal kahit na sa maling paraan at pagkakataon.May pag-ibig na dumadating sa atin sa maling pakakataon at sa maling panahon.Pero kaylangan mong iwan ang mali na yan,dahil ang mga mali na yan ay s'yang mananakit sa'yo sa bandang huli.Oo alam kong mahirap at masakit pero yun lang ang pwedi mong gawin.At kung talagang para sa'yo siya babalik at babalik yan kahit na ilang besis mo pa syang iwasan at iwanan.Walang halaga ang pag-ibig na mali, hirap at sakit lang ang mararamdaman mo sa huli.Tandaan! mahirap ang umibig sa maling pagkakataon,magmahal sa taong pag-aari na ng iba.Bawat sandaling magkasama kayo ay pawang hiram lamang.
@sis honey, very well said! pina bilib mo na naman ako iba talaga pag may pinaghuhugutan
Sis, wala akong mahugot kse walang pumapasok. Ahaha Good morning!Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
"Love is not a matter of the heart, it’s all in our brain. Chemicals like dopamine and norepinephrine are released when in love. The chemicals increases energy, increases focus, and helps make us feel falling awesome all the time. In fact, research shows brain activity in love is almost identical to our brain activity on cocaine."kaya pala talagang masarap kahit alam mong mali.
tamang pag-ibig sa maling pagkakataon, o maling pag-ibig sa tamang pagkakataon?para sa akin, there is no such thing as right love or wrong love... love is love and we can not just put something before or after the word "love" to change its meaning... although there are different types of love pero it all leads to the word "care"...and though love has a lot of words synonyms to it, the word care stands on the top for me...because without care, you can not say you've loved.Kaya ko nasabing there's not right or wrong love is because, we can love someone with limitations, by showing we care. Love is not only physical or intimate moments, and don't mistake love from lust. We can lust without love, and we can also love without the lust.Love from the word itself is selfless, putting others happiness is called real love. We don't love just to make us happy, because if we are like this, it is not love but selfishness. And in reality nothing can really make us completely happy, there will always have a missing part of us that says,"something is missing" because this is our nature. We can not really achieve complete satisfaction, unless we taught ourselves to be satisfied, and love a person unconditionally. We will always have regrets, failures, sadness, etc...and no matter how hard we try, we will always experience one of this, though it may or may not be strong enough to make us stop from loving but it will always be there.the only thing that we can really do about this is to think of the consequences and ask our self if a moment of happiness is worth to compare with a lifetime of suffering? Can we stand and ignore the guilt we are feeling? Are we willing to risk the trust our family, friend, etc that they have given? Remember that what he or she can do to her love one just to be with you, so what is there to stop him/her from doing it also to you?We need to be satisfied with what we have, though it is not really easy and can take all our life to learn it, but trying is better than ignoring the bad consequences that we may encounter along the way.
