3 Reasons Why Your Dating Life Is Miserable (And How to Change That)

[fayt]

I'm about to go on a little bit of a rant because I am sick and tired of women complaining to me about why it is that their dating life is miserable. So for those debbie downers, or gloomy glorias, or dismal daniel's - I'm going to tell you why your dating life sucks and exactly how to fix it.

I'm just gonna jump into it. Here are three reasons why your dating life might suck.

First, Are you a prolific complainer? I've discovered that far more than my male clients, my female clients LOVE to complain about everything. I actually believe that they enjoy it. And I get it, venting is great, but how about instead of focusing so much energy on the problem, why don't you focus on the solution. Next time grabbing drinks with your girlfriends, Instead of going around the table to your friends and asking, why aren't there any good guys out there? Ask, OK, let's brainstorm, Where do you think we could meet some great guys this weekend? Turn your complaints into solution seeking questions and you'll be amazed that golly, you'll actually find some solutions.

Second, when you go out at night, You're probably miserable in the corner if guys aren't showing you any attention. I am so sick and tired of girls complaining when they're out that no guys are talking to them. They're not talking to you because you're miserable. And then you get stuck in this horrible catch 22. If no one's talking to you, it's time to step up your game, get child like and playful and just be total goofball. Goof around, mess with the bar tender, go up to a random guy tell him that if he was a booger, you'd pick him first. Find any way to entertain yourself and what do you know, guys will want to join the fun.

Lastly, I have a feeling that you're probably the definition of insanity. According to Einstein, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. And you know what's absolutely LUNATIC? Is HATING doing the same thing you're doing over and over and expecting a different result. Most women should be locked up in an insane asylum.

Do you know how many women I know that go on dozens of online dates, meet guys they don't like, hate every minute of it, but keep doing it every week? If you're sick of online dating, get offline and start going to some meetup.com events or join a few social clubs.

Do you know how many women I meet that only seem to meet deuch bags at clubs, even though they HATE clubbing? Take a club free month and join eHarmony.

If the singles events you go to are lame, take a break and try a new avenue. I think you get the point.

Just like with anything in life, success comes from attitude. I get it, dating is hard, it's challenging and can be insanely frustrating. But so long as you realize that when you turn into a hater, you'll instantly be hated by the guys you meet.

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[jamesbond]

   kaya miserable? .... they expect too much on a first date.... they want a perfect date... yung tipong hindi pwede sa mga kamayang kainan.... at sa lahat ng napapansin ko eh parang inaanticipate nila susunod na galaw mo.... mas gusto ko kasi yung free willing lang ang lakad... no expectations... yung ganun lang....

[fayt]

:-  kaya miserable? .... they expect too much on a first date.... they want a perfect date... yung tipong hindi pwede sa mga kamayang kainan.... at sa lahat ng napapansin ko eh parang inaanticipate nila susunod na galaw mo.... mas gusto ko kasi yung free willing lang ang lakad... no expectations... yung ganun lang....

Hahaha tama ka po sir bond.. they expect too much kaya nadidisappoint din sila sa bandang huli. Minsan yun overplanned na paggala nakakasira din sa date. Kasi you act by the book kapag kasama mo si kadate.

Salamat po sir sa pagdalaw po..

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[dere'k ™]

yeah tama boss, wag mag expect ng kung ano, para hindi masira ang mood.. maganda din yung biglaang yayaan nalang minsan mas sure pa yun eh

[fayt]

yeah tama boss, wag mag expect ng kung ano, para hindi masira ang mood.. maganda din yung biglaang yayaan nalang minsan mas sure pa yun eh

Hahaha agree.. kung alin pa ang hindi planned yun pa ang natutuloy...

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[dere'k ™]

based on experience tol, yung gf ko hindi planned ung unang date namin, hehehe, basta nalang nagkayayaan, hahaha

[fayt]

Nice share ng experience... Well marmi din kasi pros ang cons sa planned date... Hindi natin maiiwasan na may planned na bulilyaso ang kinalabasan hehe.

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[dere'k ™]

hahaha tama fayt kadalasan kung alin pa ang pinlano yun pa ang hindi natutuloy...

[fayt]

Hahaha agree... Saka masarap ang date kung spontaneous yun tiponh kung ano trip nyo gawin yun ang gagawin hindi dahil sa plano..

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[¿m☺ÿ]

nice tips sir, interesting topic... hehehe
buti na lang graduate na ako sa mga ganito.....
 

[fayt]

nice tips sir, interesting topic... hehehe
buti na lang graduate na ako sa mga ganito.....
 

Hehehe..  ikaw sir baka may idagdag ka sa tips... Isa ka rin sa batikan ehh..

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