when it comes to love are you possessive?

[xxxchoholic Rai ♥]

tanung lang poh sa inyo

uhm possessive ba kayo sa pagmamahal niyo? if yes..

gaano naman kayo kapossessive? can you share it here

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[arthas™]

I'm not sure kung possessiveness na matatawag since two timer ang ex ko nung kami pa. Ayun, when we're not together lalo na pag exams nya at umaalis sya, I always ask sino kasama nya and san sila pupunta. May doubt na ko kasi dahil sa nalaman ko na ganun sya, and when nagpapaalam sya minsan di ko pinapayagan. We argue with simple things and at the end ang idadahilan ay nasakal na sya so she wanted to be free.

[fayt]

Yes of course.. syempre pinapahalagaan ko yun relationship namin at masasabi ko akin lang sya. Pero hindi naman ako pumupunta sa point kung saan lahat ng galaw nya dapat monitored ko at lahat ng kilos alam ko. Nandun kasi ang trust.. kapag walang trust lagi mo na lang iisipin na mawawala sayo anytime ang partner mo na magreresulta na pagiging over possessive mo sa kanya.

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[dere'k ™]

as long as may time siya for our relationship kahit na maki halubilo siya sa ibang tao ok lang sa akin, hindi naman ako ganun ka possessive eh, kapag nagmahal talaga ako eh nagtitiwala ako ng 100% pero sempre wag nya lang sisirain yun kc ako yung tao na hindi na humihingi ng explanations once na na confirm kong gumawa siya.... no more 2nd chance ika nga.

[¿m☺ÿ]

possessive, ....the meaning of possessive based on the dictionary:
"Having or manifesting a desire to control or dominate another, especially in order to limit that person's relationships with others.."

siguro masasabi kong medyo lang ako, from the scale of 1-10 where 10 is the highest desire eh 5 lang... kasi i let her be with friends and family.

[toshka]

at certain level i guess i am possessive.perhaps because the guy somewhat liked it that way din. tipo akin ka lang factor kasi gusto naman magpaangkin. kahit nga di na tanungin nagsasabi na kusa.

[dennis magtulis]

possessive ako pag "time " namin talaga..
but i let her do things she wants to do,,supportive ako lage sa kanya

[arthas™]

di naman siguro mawawala yung pagiging possessive ng isang tao lalo na sa isang relationship. this is normal. kahit saan mo kasi tingnan, may point na susumpungin ka ng pagiging possessive mo kasi para sa kin ito ay ang childish part ng pagkatao ng kahit sino. siguro ako kung magkakagf, since understanding (daw) ako, e wala naman problema yan, but i feel in myself na meron din akong part na possessive, di ko nga lang alam kailan sya mag aapply.

[eyes]

Not of course. The purpose of a relationship is to complement each other, grow together, and achieve your common goals as a couple. At the same time, maintain you individual identity as a human being.

Becoming overbearing and possessive can turn a once happy, loving relationship into a relationship based on fear, jealousy and control. Possessiveness stems from feelings of insecurity in a relationship, where the possessive person doubts the love and dedication of another person and as a result, becomes jealous and controlling. Unfortunately, the more possessive someone is in a relationship, the more their partner will struggle to be free, hence making the possessive person feel even more insecure and desperate to gain control.

Relationships that are no longer based on mutual trust and respect, won't last long. It's true that the desire to get something fun constantly - whether it is six, happiness, or togetherness - is so human. However, if you can't control it, what happens is you'll never feel satisfied and your desire will turn into a demand that doesn't make sense to your partner.

[dennis magtulis]

elibs talaga ako dun sa nasa taas,,
pwede ka ng doctor love o isa sa trio tagapayo
ideally talaga dapat ganyan naman talaga,,although there are  times na me mga tao talaga na sobra minsan sa possessiveness,,
ipakiusap kaya kita sa wife ko? 

[xxxchoholic Rai ♥]

I'm not sure kung possessiveness na matatawag since two timer ang ex ko nung kami pa. Ayun, when we're not together lalo na pag exams nya at umaalis sya, I always ask sino kasama nya and san sila pupunta. May doubt na ko kasi dahil sa nalaman ko na ganun sya, and when nagpapaalam sya minsan di ko pinapayagan. We argue with simple things and at the end ang idadahilan ay nasakal na sya so she wanted to be free.

well thats possessive in a way

that you wanna make the girl your own

at keep her yours for your ownself only the fact the she is two timer

so you are being much more possessive than normal

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[xxxchoholic Rai ♥]

possessive, ....the meaning of possessive based on the dictionary:
"Having or manifesting a desire to control or dominate another, especially in order to limit that person's relationships with others.."

siguro masasabi kong medyo lang ako, from the scale of 1-10 where 10 is the highest desire eh 5 lang... kasi i let her be with friends and family.

nice one poh very well said

i think di naman dapat yun masyadong possessive na magiging control freak

na ang dating mo sa relasyon, ang mahalaga eh

you know when to let him/her be or pull him/her close right?

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[monde8]

Nung high school at college yes possessive ako sa mga naging jowa ko. I guess the reason behind that is that I get insecure kapag may nakakahalubilo silang iba or close close sa ibang tao lalo na kapag mga lalake.

As I grew older though, nawala na insecurities ko and I became more confident na hindi ako ipagpapalit ng chicks ko at kung ipagpalit man niya ko eh its her loss.

[jamesbond]

  not necessarily possessive to that extent... nasa tamang timpla naman... i let my partner grow as a person... i give her my 99% trust...

[zzgundam]

Yes, very much. She is also very possessive, so it balances out.