Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?

Fade Away · **on:** May 18, 2013, 06:49:35 PM

First of all, mababa ang gaydar ko, so if di visually obvious na gay/lesbian sila, di ako magkakaidea.

Well basically, i like this girl sa office namin. Nice and cute but there're rumour na she's actually a lesbian, babae naman siya manamit pero parang lalake gumalaw at maglakad. Lahat ng ka-close niya are girls and mostly deadma lang siya sa guys if di siya kinakausap ng diretso.

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arthas™ · **Reply #1 on:** May 18, 2013, 06:58:05 PM

yun na rin ang clue bro. yung mas siga pa sa yo maglakad and kapag mostly kasama nya mga babae. short hair ba sya o long hair? kasi mga nakikilala kong lesbo, maikli as in parang lalake ang hair do. also di naman siguro lahat, pero karamihan flat ang breast. napapaisip ako bakit pa nila kailangang gawin yun para lang di sila lapitan ng lalake.

Fade Away · **Reply #2 on:** May 18, 2013, 07:04:19 PM

rebonded long hair siya, babae talaga manamit, with the exception na palagi siyang naka pants, never ko pa siya nakitang naka skirt or dress.

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xxxchoholic Rai ♥ · **Reply #3 on:** May 18, 2013, 07:17:32 PM

Quote from: Fade Away on May 18, 2013, 07:04:19 PM

rebonded long hair siya, babae talaga manamit, with the exception na palagi siyang naka pants, never ko pa siya nakitang naka skirt or dress.

meron naman sa amin nakapalda

minsan betida pa

sniffer · **Reply #4 on:** May 18, 2013, 07:18:33 PM

tell her your intention para malaman mo sagot nya .. or just ask her straight forward if she's a lesbian ..

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Fade Away · **Reply #5 on:** May 18, 2013, 07:22:44 PM

Di ba kinda rude sa girl if you ask them directly if they're a lesbian?

sniffer · **Reply #6 on:** May 18, 2013, 07:28:58 PM

Quote from: Fade Away on May 18, 2013, 07:22:44 PM

Di ba kinda rude sa girl if you ask them directly if they're a lesbian?

tell her first your intention baka dun p lng malaman mo na ..

Fade Away · **Reply #7 on:** May 18, 2013, 07:31:49 PM

Thanks! Never a better approach than the direct approach? haha

sniffer · **Reply #8 on:** May 18, 2013, 07:35:45 PM

Quote from: Fade Away on May 18, 2013, 07:31:49 PM

Thanks! Never a better approach than the direct approach? haha

yup, straight to the point haha .. good luck!

arthas™ · **Reply #9 on:** May 18, 2013, 07:37:34 PM

yep. di naman maooffend yan and instead, sasabihin nya straight what she's really into.

yuel0022 · **Reply #10 on:** May 18, 2013, 07:45:28 PM

I have a friend (officemate ko) na hindi rin nagpapalda, and boyish nga kumilos at may group sya na puro lalake ang kasama hehe. nakwento niya once na meron siyang type na guy tapos tinanong siya kung lesbian siya. ayun, na-turnoff siya.

kaya ako I don't recommend the direct-to-the-point approach, lalo na kung meron kang intentions na ligawan siya. maliban na lang siyempre kung magaling ka magsalita. malay mo kung san pa mapunta ang usapan

fayt · **Reply #11 on:** May 18, 2013, 07:47:06 PM

lesbian?

pagkafriend sa guys yun tipo male din kung makipagkaibigan... lalabas naman ang attitude ng pagiging male kapag lesbian..

Kolehiyala™ · **Reply #12 on:** May 19, 2013, 05:45:43 AM

meron naman talagang tibo na babaeng babae itsura at pananamit... been courted twice with that type haha... at ako naman imattracted minsan sa girls but i love making it with a guy more haha

manwhocantbemoved · **Reply #13 on:** May 20, 2013, 10:37:46 AM

pag ayaw magpahalik lesbian ang babae.

Fade Away · **Reply #14 on:** May 20, 2013, 01:03:59 PM

Thanks po sa mga suggestions, we're friends na naman, pero di ganyan ka close, think try ko na lang yayain lumabas muna, see how it goes.

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