respect & love should always be together but since i really have to choose then i'll go with what comes first...and for me it's respect since I don’t believe at love at first sight.The first time you saw somebody and sudden rush of feelin' of admiration surge into your nerves it compels you to take one step forward to get to know the person...then respect comes in between.why? this attribute make somebody craft a plan on how to make the first move and the response you will get depends on how you approach. Response whether positive or negative have to be done with respect in order not to hurt somebody or for the ladies, your first response to the guy approaching you has a lot of impact on how they will respect you from then on.As well when love develops latter between two persons, respect will always be there.Lastly, if relationship fail and love sours, falling out of relationship or I mean ending a relationship with respect can eased the pain a little bit and it’s impact to each individual self.So respect always comes first for me.
