for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?

[arthas™]

as a guy, i'd like to know each and every girl's excuses kapag ayaw nyo sa min. for example, a guy invited you for a date pero ayaw nyo si guy? kayo na bahala sa scenario. i'm just up for the common or unique excuses. 

[xxxchoholic Rai ♥]

ex, gusto makipag meet

usually dinidiretso ko na lang na ayaw makipag kita

pero ang gusto ni TS bonobo eh Excuse edi heto excuse ko

"tinatamad ako lumabas eh, may pinapanood pa ako na anime eh

pwedeng sa susunod na lang?" few days later pa medyo persistent yun guy

"lalabas sana ako ngayon pero may tatapusin ako para sa work ko eh

tsaka ka na lang magyaya pag pwede na maybe next month na siguro"

yan poh ganyan excuse ko

[fayt]

Nice topic.. dito magaling ang babae.. to lie... Haha..

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[Prime™]

Okey let's see.....
If someone invited me and di ko feel sumama..usually i tell him directly na busy ako or may work ako.  If he insists at makulit na sabihin how about on your day off/ i am willing to wait..can i call you?
and di ko pa rin siya feel then i will let him call me but i will think of a different alibi para hindi naman masyado obvious na parang rude ang dating.  Kasi in my case..ayokong makasakit by being sarcastic, or brutally frank...i want to turn him down in a nice way.  But in certain cases like when i like the guy..of course yes agad and siyempre excited for that date. (out of the topic na pala)

Sometimes it's best to be cruel to be kind.

Some people can't take a hint.

[arthas™]

Sometimes it's best to be cruel to be kind.

Some people can't take a hint.

agree bro. may mga guys na di nakakagets agad. i mean talagang magpapakatanga rin, depende sa sitwasyon sa sobrang gusto nila sa girl. so ending it with a word would be better. can't girls do that? kasi majority ng cases na nahawakan ko about friends ko na humihingi ng advice is about the girls na paasa or something related. but in the end, di rin pala. 

[lovemarie]

agree bro. may mga guys na di nakakagets agad. i mean talagang magpapakatanga rin, depende sa sitwasyon sa sobrang gusto nila sa girl. so ending it with a word would be better. can't girls do that? kasi majority ng cases na nahawakan ko about friends ko na humihingi ng advice is about the girls na paasa or something related. but in the end, di rin pala. 

hmm...may pinaghuhugutan? hehehe..o baka naman ikaw lagi ang hindi available

[arthas™]

hmm...may pinaghuhugutan? hehehe..o baka naman ikaw lagi ang hindi available

wala namang pinaghuhugutan. ikaw wala ka bang maisasuggest na excuses ng mga babae? hehehe

[Prime™]

agree bro. may mga guys na di nakakagets agad. i mean talagang magpapakatanga rin, depende sa sitwasyon sa sobrang gusto nila sa girl. so ending it with a word would be better. can't girls do that? kasi majority ng cases na nahawakan ko about friends ko na humihingi ng advice is about the girls na paasa or something related. but in the end, di rin pala. 

Daming ganyan bro.

You just have to learn when to walk away. Sometimes it's not worth the hassle or aggravation.

7 billion people in the world. Majority of them women. Many of those women are lonely and single, and would be dying to meet you.

All you have to do is show up.

Don't waste your time with one who isn't worthy.

[Cathrina]

Hmmm ako hinde magaling sa mga excuses nakakalusot parin sa mga nag aalok dati kayo pa oh galing niyo mag excuse ..yong sakin dati sinasabi ko lang na strikto dad ko kung gusto nila doon sila mag ask ng permission kung kaya nila ..strikto namn talaga eh gusto lng nila makatapos ako ng pag aaral kaya ganun..nagka first bf ako nung 2nd year college na pero nde alam ng parents ko nde nga namn seryoso kasi concentrate ako sa pag aaral inisip ko rin na focus muna ako sa schooling saka na love ..so long story short dalawa lng ang naging bf ko in real life even not seryoso but i still count it .till ng ibang bansa at nde ko na naisipang makipagdate kasi focus den sa work till now malapit na lumampas sa kalendaryo..lolz ..anyway nice post ts..ang daldal ko out of topic na yata sorry..

[rudyf109]

This is a good topic. As we see with the ladies who responded to this thread have different ways of turning a guy down. For me just tell me, in whatever ways you want to tell me. No beating around the bush. I don't know if the statistic still stand right now but last time I check it was 5 female to 1 male. So there there ladies & gents just a bit of info.    

[xxxchoholic Rai ♥]

mas mabuti talaga na basagin na lang ang bawat hirit ng guy eh

kesa paasahin mo siya eh

[Heathcliff]

  in my experience...meron isang girl... She turned me down... And she was really nasty..

' yung Ate ko idate mo... Mas bagay kayo'

Hahaha...sa malas, tragedy nangyare sa date! Aww!

Na friend zone ka na minalas ka pa...

[fayt]

mas mabuti talaga na basagin na lang ang bawat hirit ng guy eh

kesa paasahin mo siya eh

good girl... you girls should end the agony if you dont like us..

[arthas™]

good girl... you girls should end the agony if you dont like us..

guys are word dependent. kahit may hint di papansinin nyan at aasa pa hanggat walang word from girl. prangkahin na lang para tapos agad. ang tunay na lalake walang emosyon o reaksyon. kita mo na lang tatalon yan sa gusali. 

[Prime™]

in my experience...meron isang girl... She turned me down... And she was really nasty..

' yung Ate ko idate mo... Mas bagay kayo'

Hahaha...sa malas, tragedy nangyare sa date! Aww!

Na friend zone ka na minalas ka pa...

Oh? Eh maganda ba yung ate nya? Hahaha