Relationship Advice - How to Get Over Being Dumped!

[fayt]

Being dumped sucks. And it hurts a lot, especially if you didn't see it coming. But you know you have to deal with it, no matter how hard it is! You can't beg your ex partner to take you back. Unless, of course, you're prepared for another round of rejection and humiliation.

So, to help you cope with your breakup and get over your ex, here are some tips for you to follow...

1. Stay away from your ex: You may be tempted to be friends with them. Don't. What you need to do is to learn from the mistakes made, forget about your ex, and move on. You owe that to yourself. Here are what you need to do asap: erase their phone number in all forms of your address books. Get rid of all the bits and pieces that remind you of them. And don't be at the same place with them "accidentally." At least, until you can honestly know you have moved on. Until then, don't be a masochist, that won't help you.

2. Give yourself some space: Give yourself the space and time to mourn. It's absolutely normal. That's how you deal with your pain appropriately. Just don't feel bad about yourself. Isolate yourself from the world if you want; at least for a little time. Have some "me" time to reflect on your breakup and think things through so you don't take the toxic issues into your next relationship.

3. Socialize: Catch up with your friends and your family. Mix with the people who can give you solid support. Spend time with them and bond over a couple of drinks or a trip to your favorite coffee shop. If you're not comfortable in sharing your feelings with them, then just have fun and loosen up. It will help you take your mind off your ex.

4. Get back into your hobbies: There are probably some favorite hobbies you loved doing before you met your ex. You probably had to put them off to have time for your relationship. Well, this is a great time to enjoy doing them again. You love reading books? You love watching movies at home while munching on a bowl of popcorn? No problem. Now, you have plenty of time to enjoy them again.

5. Entering a rebound relationship is not the solution: Avoid getting into a rebound relationship. Remember you need a reasonable amount of time to heal from the ending of a significant love relationship. Going out with some random person who shows interest in you will not help you to become healthy in your relationship thinking. It's unfair to both of you; a relationship on the rebound often does more harm than good.

This is a time to learn about yourself. Are destructive emotions at the heart of any problems you are now experiencing? If this is the case, you will need to look at your beliefs and get control of what you are really telling yourself.

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[jamesbond]

  sabi nga sa song ni Pat Benatar.. "love is a battlefield".. you win some and you lose some.. and when you lose you must know how to deal with it.. 

[Troll Montero]

ang isa sa maganda kapag nababasted ka ay dumarami ang friends mo... simple lang maka move on eh, manligaw ka nalang ulit nang iba

[jamesbond]

sabi nga sa song ni Pat Benatar.. "love is a battlefield".. you win some and you lose some.. and when you lose you must know how to deal with it.. 

   and i'm going to deal with it a heavy heart.. just got to shrugged it off.. take 3 or 4 bottles of Buds.. i'll be okay...

[¿m☺ÿ]

these are good advise especially getting a rebound relationship, the last thing we want to do is spending time with someone without liking them.... or be in a situation you don't want to be when everything returns to normal.....
 

[Prime™]

All I know is when a relationship is over, you best look somewhere else agad. You don't want then extra time to dwell on the past, or think about those nice (but now useless) memories you've had with that person.

I thinks it's best to see new people agad and start dating as soon as you think you're up for it. Pick yourself up, and dust yourself off. We only live once, why live it thinking about a person whose no longer yours. Go out and do something.

Almost anything is better than dwelling and brooding. Doesn't help you, your ex or your future partner. Sucks for everyone around.

[dennis magtulis]

Love on a rebound is what exactly happened to me,,true enough it didn't worked for us , kawawa lang ung girl

One time after a very painful heartbreak I became much closer to my college "girlfriends" and sobrang nagenjoy ako that I forgot to find a "new one" for almost 2 years!
kanya kanyang coping mechanisms lang yan

[Troll Montero]

ang pinaka mahirap yung ma K-Zone ka..

boy: i love you so much

girl: K

[dennis magtulis]

ang pinaka mahirap yung ma K-Zone ka..

boy: i love you so much

girl: K

langya ,,mas masaklap pa to sa Friend zone ah!
magbigti ka na pag ganyan,,haha

[jamesbond]

ang pinaka mahirap yung ma K-Zone ka..

boy: i love you so much

girl: K

ibang klase ka talaga idol....


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[Troll Montero]

Ang gamot sa babaeng masungit ay pagmamahal ng lalaking makulit!

a friendly reminder

[jamesbond]

madaling sabihin kasi na go out and find somebody else, it only helps when you really want to forget temporarily but when you are alone magsi-sink na naman yan.... Hmmm... Better be productive na lang in all your activities just to convert your frustrations into something more productive...


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[Troll Montero]

MATIMTIMANG DALAGA: Hay, naku! Kung ikaw rin lang ang makakatuluyan ko, IBUBURO ko lang itong kiki ko para huwag mong pakinabangan!

MATIYAGANG BINATA: Sige! Iiihaw ko na lang din itong TALONG(etits) ko para maisawsaw ko pa rin!

[jamesbond]

i don't have any spare tire for everything..she will walk this way only once and i have to show her that i'm the one... if and when she walks away, well, at least there are no regrets..i kept her company while she's walking with me...


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