Would you ask for a second chance to someone you love after you cheated her/him?

Cathrina · **on:** April 28, 2013, 10:05:26 AM

We all know that no ones is perfect ,sometimes we do/did something that can hurt other people specially someone we love ,like you cheated on her/him,or just happen you been tempted such as a one night stand..but you really love the person your with for quiet sometimes and she/he finds out what happen and broke up with you..would you ask for a second chance ??
For me,yes ...first i will ask for forgiveness with sincerety,and do everything to win his trust and it probably takes a long time or maybe he dont even want me back but atleast i tried and showed him how sorry i am for what happen.... So its your turn ka pt ..

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fayt · **Reply #1 on:** April 28, 2013, 03:15:20 PM

Even if im deeply in love with this girl, i will forcefully forget her no matter what it takes.. but then again, im only human and i dont know if i can carry this things out.

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fayt · **Reply #2 on:** April 28, 2013, 03:34:51 PM

It is not that mistake that im worried about because its already been done. Its the trust issue that matters to me most. I don't know if i could completely trust her. So better will push her away rather than staying together but your trust is not 100% complete to her.

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Cathrina · **Reply #3 on:** April 28, 2013, 03:54:17 PM

Quote from: fayt on April 28, 2013, 03:34:51 PM

It is not that mistake that im worried about because its already been done. Its the trust issue that matters to me most. I don't know if i could completely trust her. So better will push her away rather than staying together but your trust is not 100% complete to her.

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Sir fayt,,ang po ay would you ask a second chance to the one you love after you cheated her?sorry po kulang pala ang tanong ko walang chance....thanks !

fayt · **Reply #4 on:** April 28, 2013, 04:10:38 PM

Sorry... I will give respect to my partner. After all im the one who commit this things by choice. There no such things as cheating by chance. I would not ask for the second chance. Because in the first place, i already knew that forgiveness will be a bonus for this kind of act. I will walk away in her life and its up to her if she will give me a chance. I will not ask, its up to her. Kapal naman ng mukha ko para humingi ng second chance.

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Cathrina · **Reply #5 on:** April 28, 2013, 04:52:53 PM

Quote from: bella on April 28, 2013, 04:25:28 PM

Somewhere, somehow, for whatever reason we make mistake .. as the saying goes " no one is perfect", in my opinion, for as long as we accept that we are at fault and we ask forgiveness sincerely then love can be sweeter the second time around. Giving second chance and trusting someone is something that we need to learn in life. It's part of adopting, coping, adjusting to a particular situation in order to grow.

Agree sis..im not perfect myself and as a human im not ashame to ask and forgive someone..coz i believe that we learn from our mistakes and deserve a second chance,everyone deserve a second..thats what i believe ..

fayt · **Reply #6 on:** April 28, 2013, 05:03:36 PM

Marami nagsasabi na everybody deserves a second chance. I dont think there is. Nasasabi lang to dahil sa pagkakamali nila at para majustify ang pahingi nila ng sorry. Kung cheating na ang pinag uusapan, bakit tayo mag chcheat? Dahil ba meron tayo sinasabi na there is a second chance? Then why we do those stuff in the first place? Alam naman natin na mali ang gagawin natin pero pinili pa rin natin gawin. Kahit may saying pa na we do deserve a second chance i dont think in this kind of stuff like cheating we have to compromised those things. Specially yun nararamdamam ng partner mo. Napakasakit kaya nun nalaman mo may iba ang kapartner mo pero ang gagawin lang natin humingi ng sorry? Hihingin natin na dapat matuto sya magpatawad? Hihingin ba natin sa kanya na we do deserve a second chance?

Deserve a second chance ay applicable lang sa tao na gumawa ng bagay na magreresulta ng tama o mali. Kung nagkamali then bigyan ng pagkakataon. Pero kung gagawin ng tao ay mali na sa simula palang, hindi na applicable dito ang second chance.

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rhedzz · **Reply #7 on:** April 28, 2013, 05:23:43 PM

Nope.

Hindi naman ako magloloko kung walang mali sa relasyon na napasukan ko.

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Cathrina · **Reply #8 on:** April 28, 2013, 05:42:57 PM

Quote from: fayt on April 28, 2013, 05:03:36 PM

Marami nagsasabi na everybody deserves a second chance. I dont think there is. Nasasabi lang to dahil sa pagkakamali nila at para majustify ang pahingi nila ng sorry. Kung cheating na ang pinag uusapan, bakit tayo mag chcheat? Dahil ba meron tayo sinasabi na there is a second chance? Then why we do those stuff in the first place? Alam naman natin na mali ang gagawin natin pero pinili pa rin natin gawin. Kahit may saying pa na we do deserve a second chance i dont think in this kind of stuff like cheating we have to compromised those things. Specially yun nararamdamam ng partner mo. Napakasakit kaya nun nalaman mo may iba ang kapartner mo pero ang gagawin lang natin humingi ng sorry? Hihingin natin na dapat matuto sya magpatawad? Hihingin ba natin sa kanya na we do deserve a second chance?

Deserve a second chance ay applicable lang sa tao na gumawa ng bagay na magreresulta ng tama o mali. Kung nagkamali then bigyan ng pagkakataon. Pero kung gagawin ng tao ay mali na sa simula palang, hindi na applicable dito ang second chance.

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Wow sir fayt wala palang second chance sayo hehe peace po..eto na lang ask ko second chance ikaw na lang e admire ko haha ..anyway each one of us have a different views and principles and opinions and nothing wrong with that..thanks po..

Prime™ · **Reply #9 on:** April 28, 2013, 08:36:02 PM

My views remind me of a latin phrase. Aut Caesar, Aut nihil.

Either Caesar or nothing.

All or nothing.

What it means for me, is either you give me all of you or don't give me nothing at all.

I will get it somewhere else.

So my answer is never.

fayt · **Reply #10 on:** April 28, 2013, 10:23:15 PM

Quote from: Cathrina on April 28, 2013, 05:42:57 PM

Wow sir fayt wala palang second chance sayo hehe peace po..eto na lang ask ko second chance ikaw na lang e admire ko haha ..anyway each one of us have a different views and principles and opinions and nothing wrong with that..thanks po..

Hahaha... Maganda rin ang topic mo!! Just stating my views.. cheers!!

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j4kst0n3 · **Reply #11 on:** April 28, 2013, 11:04:12 PM

it's very hard to earn someone's trust.

much harder to regain it after it has been broken.

love and forgiveness may be able to heal the pain, but it will never be forgotten.

having said that, i believe in second chances.

or third.

or fourth.

¿m☺ÿ · **Reply #12 on:** April 29, 2013, 01:54:13 PM

I'm not really sure, di ko pa kasi naranasan eh...pero if it happens then for sure hihingi din ako ng tawad and make it up to her and accept the consequence kasi kasalanan ko naman.....

Katorse · **Reply #13 on:** November 20, 2013, 04:13:44 PM

Definitely i would do everything to get him back.., i would beg and kneel if i have to. Forgiven or not at least i tried. Mas madali dn mgmove on kung alam mong ginawa mo lahat ngwork man o hinde.

Gagawin ko lahat in the name of love, kahit na magmumuka pa akong tanga basta masaya ako at wala ako naapakan n ibang tao, kesa nmn mgkukunwari kng buo un pala durog na durog nmn ang kalooban mo (weakling) niloloko mo sarili mo nun mamamatay kng nksimangot hahaha.

Tsaka lahat nmn ng tao ngkakamali.. ang importante my natutunan ka sa bawat pagkakamali mo.

Though i cant imagine myself sharing bed with someone i dont love ewwww.

Cathrina · **Reply #14 on:** November 20, 2013, 10:27:22 PM

Quote from: Absent on November 20, 2013, 04:13:44 PM

Definitely i would do everything to get him back.., i would beg and kneel if i have to. Forgiven or not at least i tried. Mas madali dn mgmove on kung alam mong ginawa mo lahat ngwork man o hinde.

Gagawin ko lahat in the name of love, kahit na magmumuka pa akong tanga basta masaya ako at wala ako naapakan n ibang tao, kesa nmn mgkukunwari kng buo un pala durog na durog nmn ang kalooban mo (weakling) niloloko mo sarili mo nun mamamatay kng nksimangot hahaha.

Tsaka lahat nmn ng tao ngkakamali.. ang importante my natutunan ka sa bawat pagkakamali mo.

Though i cant imagine myself sharing bed with someone i dont love ewwww.

Hi po ms absent,buti naman napresent ka dito hehe joke lang..anyway.. agree,i cant reflect myself also sleeping with someone that i dont love but there also what we call temptation which anywhere,anytime it can happen to anyone, we know its wrong to do such embarassing act but things happen all the time that we dont expect to happen next thing we know we like to strangle ourself for what we have done and we cant change it beside just to find away how to be a better person and show it to the person you love that you are sorry for hurting her/him not only by saying sorry but through actions and the important is to learn our mistake coz it is not a mistake anymore if you do it over and over again...thanks for the opinion you share and for the dropping by here see you around po..

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