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Title: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: Fade Away on May 18, 2013, 06:49:35 PM: First of all, mababa ang gaydar ko, so if di visually obvious na gay/lesbian sila, di ako magkakaidea.

Well basically, i like this girl sa office namin. Nice and cute but there're rumour na she's actually a lesbian, babae naman siya manamit pero parang lalake gumalaw at maglakad. Lahat ng ka-close niya are girls and mostly deadma lang siya sa guys if di siya kinakausap ng diretso.
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: arthas™ on May 18, 2013, 06:58:05 PM: yun na rin ang clue bro. yung mas siga pa sa yo maglakad and kapag mostly kasama nya mga babae. short hair ba sya o long hair? kasi mga nakikilala kong lesbo, maikli as in parang lalake ang hair do. also di naman siguro lahat, pero karamihan flat ang breast. napapaisip ako bakit pa nila kailangang gawin yun para lang di sila lapitan ng lalake.
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: Fade Away on May 18, 2013, 07:04:19 PM: rebonded long hair siya, babae talaga manamit, with the exception na palagi siyang naka pants, never ko pa siya nakitang naka skirt or dress.
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on May 18, 2013, 07:17:32 PM: Quote from: Fade Away on May 18, 2013, 07:04:19 PM
rebonded long hair siya, babae talaga manamit, with the exception na palagi siyang naka pants, never ko pa siya nakitang naka skirt or dress.
meron naman sa amin nakapalda

minsan betida pa
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: sniffer on May 18, 2013, 07:18:33 PM: tell her your intention para malaman mo sagot nya .. or just ask her straight forward if she's a lesbian ..
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: Fade Away on May 18, 2013, 07:22:44 PM: Di ba kinda rude sa girl if you ask them directly if they're a lesbian?
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: sniffer on May 18, 2013, 07:28:58 PM: Quote from: Fade Away on May 18, 2013, 07:22:44 PM
Di ba kinda rude sa girl if you ask them directly if they're a lesbian?

tell her first your intention baka dun p lng malaman mo na ..
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: Fade Away on May 18, 2013, 07:31:49 PM: Thanks! Never a better approach than the direct approach? haha
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: sniffer on May 18, 2013, 07:35:45 PM: Quote from: Fade Away on May 18, 2013, 07:31:49 PM
Thanks! Never a better approach than the direct approach? haha

yup, straight to the point haha .. good luck!
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: arthas™ on May 18, 2013, 07:37:34 PM: yep. di naman maooffend yan and instead, sasabihin nya straight what she's really into.
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: yuel0022 on May 18, 2013, 07:45:28 PM: I have a friend (officemate ko) na hindi rin nagpapalda, and boyish nga kumilos at may group sya na puro lalake ang kasama hehe. nakwento niya once na meron siyang type na guy tapos tinanong siya kung lesbian siya. ayun, na-turnoff siya.

kaya ako I don't recommend the direct-to-the-point approach, lalo na kung meron kang intentions na ligawan siya. maliban na lang siyempre kung magaling ka magsalita. malay mo kung san pa mapunta ang usapan :P
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: fayt on May 18, 2013, 07:47:06 PM: lesbian?

pagkafriend sa guys yun tipo male din kung makipagkaibigan... lalabas naman ang attitude ng pagiging male kapag lesbian..
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: Kolehiyala™ on May 19, 2013, 05:45:43 AM: meron naman talagang tibo na babaeng babae itsura at pananamit... been courted twice with that type haha... at ako naman imattracted minsan sa girls but i love making it with a guy more haha
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: manwhocantbemoved on May 20, 2013, 10:37:46 AM: pag ayaw magpahalik lesbian ang babae.
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: Fade Away on May 20, 2013, 01:03:59 PM: Thanks po sa mga suggestions, we're friends na naman, pero di ganyan ka close, think try ko na lang yayain lumabas muna, see how it goes.
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: jamesbond on October 19, 2013, 02:17:33 AM: :P to smell a lesbian is kinda easy... but to deal with a lesbian is something i haven't explored yet... i have had lesbian friends who wore men's clothings or even acted like a real man... but in this case, an incognito... better tap her butt and see what's her reaction... hahahahaha...
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: ¿m☺ÿ on October 19, 2013, 10:57:36 PM: if type mo siya, better ask her then kapag sinabi niyang hindi siya lesbian sabihin mo kaagad na liligawan mo siya...hehehe....straight forward... i've done this once at nagtagumpay naman ako... boyish din siya noon kahit babae manamit at hindi siya nagpapalda but it turns out na kilos lalaki lang siya kasi she didn't how to act like a girl....
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: Prime™ on October 22, 2013, 06:30:10 AM: Find it out for yourself. Rumors are just garbage anyway. No value in it, like the people who spread it, it's not worth your time.

If you think it's worth knowing, then go for it and see for yourself.
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: sweet_vagabond on October 22, 2013, 11:00:25 AM: nde ako mahilig sa makeup d din ako nag shoshort ng maigsi, i hate heels pero nde ako lesbian ha 100% sure lalake hanap ko hihi cningit talaga sarili eh..

may tao tlagang observant malakas yung pakiramdam if gay/lesbian yung isang tao same tayu fade mahina ako pagdating sa ganito..

anyway tama cla ask mo na lang straight to da highest level but before that magaral ka munang umilag para pag cnampal ka nya o inupakan dka masaktan ;D ;D

gudluck sayu :-X :-X
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: IORI™ on October 22, 2013, 11:15:04 AM: yung pinsan ko boyish type pero di lesbian .. may 3 anak na sya .. so kung di mo kilala eh masasabi mo lesbian na sya .. ang lesbian at gay para sa akin kasi eh wala sa looks kundi nandon sya sa lugar na may karelasyon sya sa same six.. meron nga dyan eh babaeng ichura pero kinakasama babae din ..
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: Nike on October 22, 2013, 06:00:03 PM: kutob ko, di lesbian yung office mate mo.Why not make an effort to spend time with her? Invite her for coffee, then dinner, etc..
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: darkbahamut on November 26, 2013, 07:08:22 PM: sakin walang secret secret.girls willingly share me there secret about being a lesbian
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: Mark Yap T. on November 27, 2013, 05:50:28 PM: Kong lalaki ka im sure malalaman mo yan, the way ang girl gumalaw yung bang daig pa ang lalaki, tapos subra sa openminded ba. and the way cla mag susuot ng damit.

Much good if e test like, as her kong sino crush nya na boy or kaya ask her about virginity. yan lang...
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: radicalerror on January 03, 2014, 10:46:05 PM: Mejo mas malapit sya dun sa pinaka maganda nyo sa classroom xD

Sent from the Ethereal Horizon
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: Kolehiyala™ on January 04, 2014, 05:31:37 PM: go ahead ligawan siya sir baka naman bisixual lang... malay mo maging kayo advantage pa kasi pag nagkagusto siya sa ibang girl malay mo maging threesome pa kayo haha
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: Troll Montero on January 09, 2014, 07:46:02 PM: well regaluhan mo nang panty na may burdang dila na nag lalaway... kapag binato sayo ang regalo mo tomboy yun...
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: broski045 on January 13, 2014, 04:07:49 PM: For future references na rin (since most likely nasolve na ni TS yung tanong nya); datapwat may correlation ang terminong "sixual orientation", "gender expression", at "gender identity", hindi sila mutually exclusive at magkakaiba sila ng tinutukoy.

1. sixual Orientation ay kung kanino ka naaattract physically: same six (homosixual), opposite six (heterosixual), both (bisixual), or none(asixual). Ito marahil ang gustong malaman ni TS dahil may interes sya dun sa kaibigan nya.

2. Gender Identity ay kung saan mas nakakarelate ang tao kung sa tingin nya ba ay lalaki o babae ang "kaluluwa" (for lack of a better term) nya. May mga babae/lalaki na asal babae/lalaki at mahilig sa babae/laki ngunit, ngunit sa nakakaidentify pa rin sa sarili bilang lalaki/babe.

3. Gender Expression ay ang mga gawain at katangian na itinuturing ng lipunan o kultura sa either panlalaki or pambabae: ex. pagpapalda sa babae, at panliligaw sa lalaki. Maaari magbago ang batayan nito depende sa lipunan. Ito usually ang nakasanayang basehan ng lipunan sa "gaydar" nila kung ano ang sixual Orientation at Gender Identity ng isang tao, at sa konteksto ng Pilipinong lipunan ay marahil nag-aaply ito in general, ngunit hindi palagi.

TL;DR Kung gusto mong malaman kung prefer nya ang girl, boy, gay, or lesbian, its best to ask her than assume based on her actions dahil may mga babaeng barako umarte at manamit ngunit sa lalaki lang talaga naaattract.

Note: Ang mga ito ay base sa napag-aralan ko sa basic Psychology and Sociology classes sa kolehiyo. Feel free to correct me kung mayroong mas malawak ang expertise sa ganitong topic.
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: lurklurk on January 13, 2014, 05:23:25 PM: Yayain mo na agad makipag-date para malaman nya na na type mo sya. Kung tibo talaga yun sasabihin nya sayo na tibo sya para wag ka na umasa. #BASEDONEXPERIENCE 8)
Title: Re: Paano niyo malalaman if a girl is secretly a lesbian?
Post by: razorsharp on January 14, 2014, 11:10:55 AM: karamihan naman ata sa mga girls e dumarating sa buhay nila na nagiging bi-curious sila. curious lang kung paano pumatol sa kapwa babae.