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Title: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: arthas™ on May 07, 2013, 01:07:39 AM
as a guy, i'd like to know each and every girl's excuses kapag ayaw nyo sa min. for example, a guy invited you for a date pero ayaw nyo si guy? kayo na bahala sa scenario. i'm just up for the common or unique excuses.  8)
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on May 07, 2013, 01:34:58 AM
ex, gusto makipag meet

usually dinidiretso ko na lang na ayaw makipag kita

pero ang gusto ni TS bonobo eh Excuse edi heto excuse ko

"tinatamad ako lumabas eh, may pinapanood pa ako na anime eh

pwedeng sa susunod na lang?" few days later pa medyo persistent yun guy

"lalabas sana ako ngayon pero may tatapusin ako para sa work ko eh

tsaka ka na lang magyaya pag pwede na maybe next month na siguro"

yan poh ganyan excuse ko
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: fayt on May 07, 2013, 04:31:11 AM
Nice topic.. dito magaling ang babae.. to lie... Haha..

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Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: Prime™ on May 07, 2013, 12:39:50 PM
Okey let's see.....
If someone invited me and di ko feel sumama..usually i tell him directly na busy ako or may work ako.  If he insists at makulit na sabihin how about on your day off/ i am willing to wait..can i call you?
and di ko pa rin siya feel then i will let him call me but i will think of a different alibi para hindi naman masyado obvious na parang rude ang dating.  Kasi in my case..ayokong makasakit by being sarcastic, or brutally frank...i want to turn him down in a nice way.  But in certain cases like when i like the guy..of course yes agad and siyempre excited for that date. (out of the topic na pala)

Sometimes it's best to be cruel to be kind.

Some people can't take a hint.
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: arthas™ on May 07, 2013, 03:53:29 PM
Sometimes it's best to be cruel to be kind.

Some people can't take a hint.

agree bro. may mga guys na di nakakagets agad. i mean talagang magpapakatanga rin, depende sa sitwasyon sa sobrang gusto nila sa girl. so ending it with a word would be better. can't girls do that? kasi majority ng cases na nahawakan ko about friends ko na humihingi ng advice is about the girls na paasa or something related. but in the end, di rin pala.  8)
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: lovemarie on May 07, 2013, 05:09:01 PM
agree bro. may mga guys na di nakakagets agad. i mean talagang magpapakatanga rin, depende sa sitwasyon sa sobrang gusto nila sa girl. so ending it with a word would be better. can't girls do that? kasi majority ng cases na nahawakan ko about friends ko na humihingi ng advice is about the girls na paasa or something related. but in the end, di rin pala.  8)

hmm...may pinaghuhugutan? hehehe..o baka naman ikaw lagi ang hindi available :)
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: arthas™ on May 07, 2013, 06:06:21 PM
hmm...may pinaghuhugutan? hehehe..o baka naman ikaw lagi ang hindi available :)

wala namang pinaghuhugutan. ikaw wala ka bang maisasuggest na excuses ng mga babae? hehehe
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: Prime™ on May 07, 2013, 06:44:58 PM
agree bro. may mga guys na di nakakagets agad. i mean talagang magpapakatanga rin, depende sa sitwasyon sa sobrang gusto nila sa girl. so ending it with a word would be better. can't girls do that? kasi majority ng cases na nahawakan ko about friends ko na humihingi ng advice is about the girls na paasa or something related. but in the end, di rin pala.  8)

Daming ganyan bro.

You just have to learn when to walk away. Sometimes it's not worth the hassle or aggravation.

7 billion people in the world. Majority of them women. Many of those women are lonely and single, and would be dying to meet you.

All you have to do is show up.

Don't waste your time with one who isn't worthy.
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: Cathrina on May 07, 2013, 08:07:43 PM
Hmmm ako hinde magaling sa mga excuses nakakalusot parin sa mga nag aalok dati kayo pa oh galing niyo mag excuse ..yong sakin dati sinasabi ko lang na strikto dad ko kung gusto nila doon sila mag ask ng permission kung kaya nila ..strikto namn talaga eh gusto lng nila makatapos ako ng pag aaral kaya ganun..nagka first bf ako nung 2nd year college na pero nde alam ng parents ko nde nga namn seryoso kasi concentrate ako sa pag aaral inisip ko rin na focus muna ako sa schooling saka na love ..so long story short dalawa lng ang naging bf ko in real life even not seryoso but i still count it .till ng ibang bansa at nde ko na naisipang makipagdate kasi focus den sa work till now malapit na lumampas sa kalendaryo..lolz ..anyway nice post ts..ang daldal ko out of topic na yata sorry.. :P
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: rudyf109 on May 07, 2013, 08:30:52 PM
This is a good topic. As we see with the ladies who responded to this thread have different ways of turning a guy down. For me just tell me, in whatever ways you want to tell me. No beating around the bush. I don't know if the statistic still stand right now but last time I check it was 5 female to 1 male. So there there ladies & gents just a bit of info. ;)   
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on May 07, 2013, 10:11:26 PM
mas mabuti talaga na basagin na lang ang bawat hirit ng guy eh

kesa paasahin mo siya eh
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: Heathcliff on May 08, 2013, 03:45:13 PM
 ;D in my experience...meron isang girl... She turned me down... And she was really nasty..

' yung Ate ko idate mo... Mas bagay kayo'

Hahaha...sa malas, tragedy nangyare sa date! Aww!

Na friend zone ka na minalas ka pa...


Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: fayt on May 08, 2013, 03:49:34 PM
mas mabuti talaga na basagin na lang ang bawat hirit ng guy eh

kesa paasahin mo siya eh

good girl... you girls should end the agony if you dont like us..
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: arthas™ on May 08, 2013, 04:00:12 PM
good girl... you girls should end the agony if you dont like us..

guys are word dependent. kahit may hint di papansinin nyan at aasa pa hanggat walang word from girl. prangkahin na lang para tapos agad. ang tunay na lalake walang emosyon o reaksyon. kita mo na lang tatalon yan sa gusali.  8)
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: Prime™ on May 08, 2013, 04:45:18 PM
;D in my experience...meron isang girl... She turned me down... And she was really nasty..

' yung Ate ko idate mo... Mas bagay kayo'

Hahaha...sa malas, tragedy nangyare sa date! Aww!

Na friend zone ka na minalas ka pa...

Oh? Eh maganda ba yung ate nya? Hahaha
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: fayt on May 08, 2013, 04:47:57 PM
the most common excuse ng girl pag ayaw nila ang guy is

"Di pa ako ready"
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: Heathcliff on May 08, 2013, 06:56:15 PM
Prime, ang Ate... trahedya talagah parekoy!

Mas malaki pa kesa saken ! Haha!

Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: fayt on May 08, 2013, 06:58:13 PM
Prime, ang Ate... trahedya talagah parekoy!

Mas malaki pa kesa saken ! Haha!



hahaha... muka napipicture out ko na sinasabi mo hehe
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: Heathcliff on May 08, 2013, 07:02:04 PM
nyahaha! Parekoy wag mo ng tangkain isipin...

... Buminggo ako dun 10! Lol...

Number 10 kame. Haha!
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: fayt on May 08, 2013, 07:10:11 PM
nyahaha! Parekoy wag mo ng tangkain isipin...

... Buminggo ako dun 10! Lol...

Number 10 kame. Haha!



hahaha... sabi na nga ba!!!!
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: Prime™ on May 08, 2013, 07:12:05 PM
Prime, ang Ate... trahedya talagah parekoy!

Mas malaki pa kesa saken ! Haha!



Hahaha! Abay loko nga ano? Ginawa ka pang wrestler bwahaha!
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: Heathcliff on May 08, 2013, 07:19:23 PM
 ;Dhaha! Pambihira!

Naalala ko tuloy ang trahedyang yon...

Mala 123 kid ako dun... Tinatakbuhan yung undertaker na Ate! Haha!

Ang sama ko... :P
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: Prime™ on May 08, 2013, 07:24:48 PM
;Dhaha! Pambihira!

Naalala ko tuloy ang trahedyang yon...

Mala 123 kid ako dun... Tinatakbuhan yung undertaker na Ate! Haha!

Ang sama ko... :P

Bwahaha! Baka ma tombstone o chokeslam pa tayo jan! Naknang tokwa natawa ako doon ah! Hahaha!

+1 k sayo pare!
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: Heathcliff on May 08, 2013, 07:27:47 PM
Opla! Salamat Parekoy!

... Amff, ok sa trahedya a.. Na bigyan pa ng +K!

Salamat kay Ate! Haha!
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on May 09, 2013, 01:16:27 AM
good girl... you girls should end the agony if you dont like us..
well ganyan talaga ako eh nagkataon lang

na huminge ng reason ang Ero Bonobo TS eh

pag ayoko talaga sinasabi ko ng buong loob at lakas ng boses na

"ayoko sa yo dont you dare bother me again"
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: ladyvirus01 on May 09, 2013, 11:55:53 AM
common reasons hindi na ako masaya sa kanya kasi walang sariling paa  :'( ..... naging aswang na! hahaha just kidding i got easily bored / irretated to the one na insensitive yan lang muna  >:(
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: fayt on May 09, 2013, 11:59:19 AM
well ganyan talaga ako eh nagkataon lang

na huminge ng reason ang Ero Bonobo TS eh

pag ayoko talaga sinasabi ko ng buong loob at lakas ng boses na

"ayoko sa yo dont you dare bother me again"

hahaha ang sakit ng ganyan line pero okay na rin at least sinabi mo na agad
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: yummyyana23 on May 09, 2013, 12:21:34 PM
Minsan kahit na gusto naming mga gurls na direktahin ang mga boys, nangingibabaw pa rin yung pagiging compassionate.lol

kaya talagang magreresort sa excuses.

my usual excuse, dami kong paperworks sa school tapos pagod ako sa part time work ko. pag makulit, sinasabi ko na lang na itext ko siya or tatawagan..lol. lame!  :-[
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on May 09, 2013, 09:52:58 PM
well ayoko rin kasi na kulitin ako

naiirita lang ako kaya ganayan sinasabi ko at di na sila umasa pa
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: yummyyana23 on May 09, 2013, 10:00:24 PM
well ayoko rin kasi na kulitin ako

naiirita lang ako kaya ganayan sinasabi ko at di na sila umasa pa


Naku sis, boys will boys talaga..talagang ipipilit ang gusto noh? tapos pag dineretso ng gurls at nabigo, ayun..magmumukmok, iinom, maglalabas ng  sama ng loob, iiyak? hmmm, yung iba itutuloy ulit..kasi nakakuha na naman ng inspiration sa mga mapangbuyong friends nya..pakipot lang yun, tiyagain mo lang bibigay din yan..

Kayo talaga boys oh..minsan you have to consider that those are not the reason pag ayaw ng girls sa mga boys na nanliligaw sa kanila..although we appreciate all your efforts di ba sis? hahaha  ;D
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on May 09, 2013, 10:11:53 PM
Naku sis, boys will boys talaga..talagang ipipilit ang gusto noh? tapos pag dineretso ng gurls at nabigo, ayun..magmumukmok, iinom, maglalabas ng  sama ng loob, iiyak? hmmm, yung iba itutuloy ulit..kasi nakakuha na naman ng inspiration sa mga mapangbuyong friends nya..pakipot lang yun, tiyagain mo lang bibigay din yan..

Kayo talaga boys oh..minsan you have to consider that those are not the reason pag ayaw ng girls sa mga boys na nanliligaw sa kanila..although we appreciate all your efforts di ba sis? hahaha  ;D

i do appreciate the effort pero minsan

they go way over board na rin eh kaya kailangan din talaga prangkahin talaga
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: Heathcliff on May 10, 2013, 12:17:20 AM
Kapag gusto maraming paraan kapag ayaw ... Takbo na lang! Nyahhaa!!

Pero kung gusto talaga kita, pagtatyagaan kita..

No pain no gain... Aight?!
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: moimoi on May 12, 2013, 04:49:18 PM
Hmmm ako hinde magaling sa mga excuses nakakalusot parin sa mga nag aalok dati kayo pa oh galing niyo mag excuse ..yong sakin dati sinasabi ko lang na strikto dad ko kung gusto nila doon sila mag ask ng permission kung kaya nila ..strikto namn talaga eh gusto lng nila makatapos ako ng pag aaral kaya ganun..nagka first bf ako nung 2nd year college na pero nde alam ng parents ko nde nga namn seryoso kasi concentrate ako sa pag aaral inisip ko rin na focus muna ako sa schooling saka na love ..so long story short dalawa lng ang naging bf ko in real life even not seryoso but i still count it .till ng ibang bansa at nde ko na naisipang makipagdate kasi focus den sa work till now malapit na lumampas sa kalendaryo..lolz ..anyway nice post ts..ang daldal ko out of topic na yata sorry.. :P

sis san ka po nag wowork ngayon.
=)
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: cloudinair on May 13, 2013, 04:34:11 AM
mas maganda talaga yung sabihin na agad na ayaw nila hindi yung papatagalin pa yun tuloy may mag a.assume
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: lovemarie on May 15, 2013, 10:51:38 PM
wala namang pinaghuhugutan. ikaw wala ka bang maisasuggest na excuses ng mga babae? hehehe

eto lang yun..kapag gusto may paraan..kapag ayaw maraming dahilan. ;)
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: dere'k ™ on May 16, 2013, 04:02:03 PM
well ganyan talaga ako eh nagkataon lang

na huminge ng reason ang Ero Bonobo TS eh

pag ayoko talaga sinasabi ko ng buong loob at lakas ng boses na

"ayoko sa yo dont you dare bother me again"

nakakatakot ka naman haha
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: dere'k ™ on May 16, 2013, 04:02:53 PM
eto lang yun..kapag gusto may paraan..kapag ayaw maraming dahilan. ;)

kaya pala ang daming dahilan ni carol haha
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: lovemarie on May 16, 2013, 05:30:53 PM
kaya pala ang daming dahilan ni carol haha

ahaha..madami na ba akong nai dahilan sayo? hihihi..
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: dere'k ™ on May 16, 2013, 05:32:49 PM
ahaha..madami na ba akong nai dahilan sayo? hihihi..

nyahaha huli ako ah... lol

more than 1 means madami na ryt? hahaha
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: lovemarie on May 16, 2013, 05:45:55 PM
nyahaha huli ako ah... lol

more than 1 means madami na ryt? hahaha

waaahhh...ibahin ko na style ko LOL
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: dere'k ™ on May 16, 2013, 05:49:50 PM
waaahhh...ibahin ko na style ko LOL

nyahahha bigyan mo naman ako ng tip ng bago mong style para naman mahalata ko agad nyahaha
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: puroy on May 16, 2013, 06:00:51 PM
Naku sis, boys will boys talaga..talagang ipipilit ang gusto noh? tapos pag dineretso ng gurls at nabigo, ayun..magmumukmok, iinom, maglalabas ng  sama ng loob, iiyak? hmmm, yung iba itutuloy ulit..kasi nakakuha na naman ng inspiration sa mga mapangbuyong friends nya..pakipot lang yun, tiyagain mo lang bibigay din yan..

Kayo talaga boys oh..minsan you have to consider that those are not the reason pag ayaw ng girls sa mga boys na nanliligaw sa kanila..although we appreciate all your efforts di ba sis? hahaha  ;D

Ganyan din naman kayo mga girls eh, pag ayaw na sa inyo ng boys nagpupumilit pa rin.
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on May 16, 2013, 07:29:46 PM
nakakatakot ka naman haha
well sir im just being real and true

tsaka mabait pa ako niyan eh hahaha
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: dere'k ™ on May 16, 2013, 07:35:16 PM
well sir im just being real and true

tsaka mabait pa ako niyan eh hahaha

hmmmm take note ko yan... hahaha...
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on May 16, 2013, 08:16:16 PM
hmmmm take note ko yan... hahaha...
hala sige take notes pa poh hihihi
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: lusotako on May 24, 2013, 05:35:25 PM
hindi ko akalain na mapapadpad ako dito. kakalibang yung mga post niyo hehe, dami din natutunan sa mga rason ng mga babae. tama rin yung sabi ng iba direktahin na lang haha
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: arthas™ on May 24, 2013, 05:42:24 PM
boys don't mind whether the word hurts as long as the girl said it. we don't usually care about any hint na ayaw kami ng girl. we need words.  8) a guy's nature.
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: lusotako on May 24, 2013, 06:39:35 PM
boys don't mind whether the word hurts as long as the girl said it. we don't usually care about any hint na ayaw kami ng girl. we need words.  8) a guy's nature.

tama. sabihin na lang hindi yung pahapyaw pa sa hangin  >:(
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: arthas™ on May 25, 2013, 01:21:40 AM
sabi nga sa kanta ng parokya ni edgar (just heard it sa car while driving home), wag mo na sana akong pahirapan pa. kung ayaw mo sa kin ay sabihin mo na. wag mo na sana akong ipaasa sa wala, oo na mahal na kung mahal kita.  8)
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: fayt on May 25, 2013, 05:24:59 AM
Ewan ko lang, baka ako lang siguro.. if all sign are pointing into one direction that the girl you like does not like you too...

Gusto ko pa rin sabihin nya sa akin ng diretso na hindi nya ako gusto o may mahal na syang iba rather na hindi nya sabihin.. kahit papaano kasi, pag hindi nya sinasabi umaasa lang ako nun ehh..

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Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: jasmine on May 25, 2013, 08:08:09 PM
It depends, my mga girls kasi na pa hard to get... pero ako pag ayoko, ayoko, pero kung friends zone lang ok lang.
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on May 26, 2013, 12:34:14 AM
hindi ko akalain na mapapadpad ako dito. kakalibang yung mga post niyo hehe, dami din natutunan sa mga rason ng mga babae. tama rin yung sabi ng iba direktahin na lang haha
well kailangan talaga deretso na lang

kesa magrason pa nakakadisturb din kasi yun sunod ng sunod parang aso eh
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: dere'k ™ on May 26, 2013, 01:06:02 AM
yung hindi hindi naman talaga sila nag dadahilan, sadyang suplada lang talaga sila.... hehe
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: lusotako on May 28, 2013, 11:43:54 PM
well kailangan talaga deretso na lang

kesa magrason pa nakakadisturb din kasi yun sunod ng sunod parang aso eh

tama istorbo na sa babae tapos muntanga na, shunga pa ang lalake sa kakahabol, hindi sa ayaw maghirap pero if tatanungin ako, mas direct pa magsalita ang mga maria clara na babae noon. haha
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: arthas™ on May 28, 2013, 11:52:15 PM
masakit na katotohanan ang friend zone for us guys. mahirap din iadjust ang lahat kasi maiilang na kayo sa isat isa. friend zone pa kayang matatawag yan? stranger zone is the best term.
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: fayt on May 28, 2013, 11:57:32 PM
masakit na katotohanan ang friend zone for us guys. mahirap din iadjust ang lahat kasi maiilang na kayo sa isat isa. friend zone pa kayang matatawag yan? stranger zone is the best term.

Stranger zone? Eto yun term after breakup.. haha..

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Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: lusotako on May 28, 2013, 11:58:03 PM
masakit na katotohanan ang friend zone for us guys. mahirap din iadjust ang lahat kasi maiilang na kayo sa isat isa. friend zone pa kayang matatawag yan? stranger zone is the best term.

tama andun na yung salitang ilang sa isa't isa. kahit na gusto mo magbigay ng ngiti eh bigla na lang naiiba yung tabas ng mukha.
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: arthas™ on May 29, 2013, 11:33:20 AM
maiilang kasi para saan pa nageffort si guy. given na ayaw ni girl si guy, parang ang magiging feeling ni guy hindi naappreciate ang mga efforts nya. may girls kasi na taking advantage sa efforts na yun pero at the end, babagsak din sa friend zone. di bagay ang term na friend zone sa scenario na yan.  8)
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: chillout on May 29, 2013, 11:53:42 AM
nangyari saken dati sinabi nung girl na may bf daw sya kahit alam nman ng lahat na single sya. later on nalaman ko na inlove pala sya sa besfriend nya.

how about sa situation na ininvite mo to go out pero sinabi ni girl na payag sya to hangout as a group? parang excuse lang din e haha.

Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: arthas™ on May 29, 2013, 11:58:29 AM
nangyari saken dati sinabi nung girl na may bf daw sya kahit alam nman ng lahat na single sya. later on nalaman ko na inlove pala sya sa besfriend nya.

how about sa situation na ininvite mo to go out pero sinabi ni girl na payag sya to hangout as a group? parang excuse lang din e haha.

clue na yan bro. pag may narinig kang "group" sa suggestion nya when inviting her for a date, alam na. paligoy pa kasi. mas ok nang sabihin nilang di sila interesado kesa magsuggest pa ng mga ganyang bagay. that doesn't make any sense.
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: Fade Away on May 29, 2013, 11:59:37 AM
Most of the time ginagamit na excuse is busy with work i think if working na :P
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: chillout on May 29, 2013, 12:08:32 PM
clue na yan bro. pag may narinig kang "group" sa suggestion nya when inviting her for a date, alam na. paligoy pa kasi. mas ok nang sabihin nilang di sila interesado kesa magsuggest pa ng mga ganyang bagay. that doesn't make any sense.

oo nga eh. naguluhan nga ko sa response nya. di ako prepared sa excuse niyang yon. sobrang paasa lang talaga siya. siguro di nya lang gusto masabihan na di sya nagbigay ng chance.
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: arthas™ on May 29, 2013, 12:13:48 PM
Most of the time ginagamit na excuse is busy with work i think if working na :P

busy-busyhan sa iba bro kasi ayaw nya maging busy sa mga guys na ayaw nila.  8) kanya-kanya lang talaga ng style ang mga babae.

oo nga eh. naguluhan nga ko sa response nya. di ako prepared sa excuse niyang yon. sobrang paasa lang talaga siya. siguro di nya lang gusto masabihan na di sya nagbigay ng chance.

it makes me wonder, why can't girls become straightforward sa bagay na yan. siguro ayaw lang talaga nilang maging harsh, pero di pa rin e. kapag di naman sila nagsabing ayaw nila, mageeffort pa rin tayo. kung naappreciate man nila, masaya na tayo sa simpleng thank you.
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: chillout on May 29, 2013, 12:17:01 PM
i think ego boost din sa girls pag may nagkakagusto at nangungulit sa kanila kaya they like the idea na may mga nagpapacute sa kanila. pag kasi diniretso na nila yung guy, more often than not iiwas na si guy. 
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: lusotako on May 29, 2013, 08:30:35 PM
it makes me wonder, why can't girls become straightforward sa bagay na yan. siguro ayaw lang talaga nilang maging harsh, pero di pa rin e. kapag di naman sila nagsabing ayaw nila, mageeffort pa rin tayo. kung naappreciate man nila, masaya na tayo sa simpleng thank you.

yes. true indeed, yung thank you na yun parang kumpleto na araw mo haha
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on May 29, 2013, 09:41:43 PM
it makes me wonder, why can't girls become straightforward sa bagay na yan. siguro ayaw lang talaga nilang maging harsh, pero di pa rin e. kapag di naman sila nagsabing ayaw nila, mageeffort pa rin tayo. kung naappreciate man nila, masaya na tayo sa simpleng thank you.
well ewan ako sa iba pero sa akin kasi

talagang binabasag ko silang lahat problema nila yun

kung masaktan sila at least di na sila aasa pa di ba?
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: chillout on May 30, 2013, 11:06:36 AM
well ewan ako sa iba pero sa akin kasi

talagang binabasag ko silang lahat problema nila yun

kung masaktan sila at least di na sila aasa pa di ba?

tama dapat diretsahan na lang sinasabi na wala nman pag-asa. sana lahat ng babae katulad mo ms rai.
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on May 30, 2013, 11:32:53 AM
tama dapat diretsahan na lang sinasabi na wala nman pag-asa. sana lahat ng babae katulad mo ms rai.
well iba iba naman ang mga babae eh

pero meron lang talaga yun mga malanding nagpapaasa sa mundo eh

and dapat alam ng guys kung ganun ba yun pinopormahan nila

kasi sa huli sila rin masasaktan eh
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: arthas™ on May 30, 2013, 11:39:47 AM
well iba iba naman ang mga babae eh

pero meron lang talaga yun mga malanding nagpapaasa sa mundo eh

and dapat alam ng guys kung ganun ba yun pinopormahan nila

kasi sa huli sila rin masasaktan eh

kung pwede lang ipaclone ka Rai e. para wala nang babaeng nagiinarte pagdating sa ganyan. note: clone ng way of thinking, hindi ng itsura kasi iba iba rin ang taste ng guys pagdating jan.  8)
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on May 30, 2013, 11:52:46 AM
kung pwede lang ipaclone ka Rai e. para wala nang babaeng nagiinarte pagdating sa ganyan. note: clone ng way of thinking, hindi ng itsura.
well kung ipapaclone mo ang paguugali ko

dadami na ang single na tao sa mundo hahaha

at dadami na din ang mga potential psycho at potential serial killer sa mundo
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: arthas™ on May 30, 2013, 11:57:19 AM
well kung ipapaclone mo ang paguugali ko

dadami na ang single na tao sa mundo hahaha

at dadami na din ang mga potential psycho at potential serial killer sa mundo

tama. itayo ang bandera ng mga single. ang pagiging potential psycho mo is a sign ng pagiging pebrero mo. pero back to topic, guys really hate excuses, though may guys na may sarili ring excuses pag ayaw naman ang girl na nagpapacute sa kanila, pero iba pa rin ang dating pag guy ang nag effort at paasa mode naman tong si babae. nasasayang ang panahon at efforts ni guy.
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on May 30, 2013, 12:03:12 PM
well yun iba gusto lang magexcuse kasi nageenjoy sila makipaglandian eh

kahit may iba silang gusto sige pa din sila natural na yun sa malandi
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: arthas™ on May 30, 2013, 12:08:52 PM
well may guys din kasi na kahit nireject na ni girl e umaasa pa rin and trying the next time around. iniisip na kung may mali sa nagawa e bumabawi pa kahit super labo na silang mapansin ni babae. si babae naman taking advantage which is not good. hassle sa guy mageffort lalo na kung love na nya si girl.
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on May 30, 2013, 12:14:21 PM
meron talagang mga taong makulit nag lahi eh

at meron din yun manggagamit naiirita ang sa mga taong ganun eh
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: toshka on June 19, 2013, 12:18:12 AM
^ if hang out as a group sa tingin ko ok pa yan baka kasi takot lang na kayo lang 2 lumabas. testing the waters yan and tingnan muna how will things go.

ako naman since konti lang talaga kaibigan ko at bihira lumabas. if may maginvite madalas ok lang saken. masabi ko man na di pwede yun ay dahil sa busy lang talaga, pero pag nagkaron ng chance ay natutuloy naman. basta i make sure na ok ang conversation habang magkasama. kelangan madala ko ang sarili ko ng maayos.

pero pag nagsabi na ang guy na "i like you" at di ko naman kasi talaga gusto sinasabi ko na lang ang gasgas line "di naman romantically like yan di ba?" ayun tumitigil na. pero pag may makulit na ayaw tumigil may all time mapagpanggap bf ako. i will ask my guy friend na tumawag at mag sweet sweetan para lang matigil na talaga, meron kasi talaga iba na grabe makabakod.
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: fayt on June 23, 2013, 07:25:43 PM
^ if hang out as a group sa tingin ko ok pa yan baka kasi takot lang na kayo lang 2 lumabas. testing the waters yan and tingnan muna how will things go.

ako naman since konti lang talaga kaibigan ko at bihira lumabas. if may maginvite madalas ok lang saken. masabi ko man na di pwede yun ay dahil sa busy lang talaga, pero pag nagkaron ng chance ay natutuloy naman. basta i make sure na ok ang conversation habang magkasama. kelangan madala ko ang sarili ko ng maayos.

pero pag nagsabi na ang guy na "i like you" at di ko naman kasi talaga gusto sinasabi ko na lang ang gasgas line "di naman romantically like yan di ba?" ayun tumitigil na. pero pag may makulit na ayaw tumigil may all time mapagpanggap bf ako. i will ask my guy friend na tumawag at mag sweet sweetan para lang matigil na talaga, meron kasi talaga iba na grabe makabakod.

hehe, isa rin yan sa naencounter kong excuse ng mga gals is they have fake bfs hehehe..
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: dere'k ™ on June 26, 2013, 09:38:47 PM
yung ibang babae sasabihin nila ayaw nilang committed sila sa ibang tao or something...
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: dennis magtulis on June 27, 2013, 03:51:14 PM
eto lang yun..kapag gusto may paraan..kapag ayaw maraming dahilan. ;)

I do agree with you ma'am..,based na rin sa sagot nung ibang PT girls,,they will turn you down in a nice way,,pero once na type ka rin nila,,aysus jackpot!.hehe
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: pilyo_ng_china on June 29, 2013, 06:24:34 PM
Daming ganyan bro.

You just have to learn when to walk away. Sometimes it's not worth the hassle or aggravation.

7 billion people in the world. Majority of them women. Many of those women are lonely and single, and would be dying to meet you.

All you have to do is show up.

Don't waste your time with one who isn't worthy.


Absolutely true _ nice one Prime
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: dere'k ™ on July 01, 2013, 03:54:49 PM
may mga babae talagang pakipot na kahit gusto na eh umaayaw pa...

cguro dahil takot na din sila mag tiwala
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: ladyvirus01 on July 02, 2013, 10:37:00 AM
may mga babae talagang pakipot na kahit gusto na eh umaayaw pa...

cguro dahil takot na din sila mag tiwala
hahaha well, case to case basis tama ka iba takot na magtiwala dahil sa misjudge in short "judgemental" effect,ang iba just say in a straight way "please leave me alone" nyeahhh brutal ata yun infairness, if ever diko feel ang guy or nakukulitan ako dedma ko na lang siya or just ignore him yoko kasi magsalita na alam ko masasaktan siya in that way alam na niya ang sagot, pero kng mahina pick up niya? well problema na niya yun hahaha kong like ko naman isang tao mararamdaman niya yan hindi as a friend kundi a special someone , oh ot na ata ako ???
Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: fayt on July 05, 2013, 05:48:58 PM
agree bro. may mga guys na di nakakagets agad. i mean talagang magpapakatanga rin, depende sa sitwasyon sa sobrang gusto nila sa girl. so ending it with a word would be better. can't girls do that? kasi majority ng cases na nahawakan ko about friends ko na humihingi ng advice is about the girls na paasa or something related. but in the end, di rin pala.  8)

Hindi naman sa hindi magets ang hint.. ayaw lang nila tanggapin ang hint na nasa utak nila kaya gusto nila sabihin totally straight to their faces na ayaw mo sa kanila to have a period for their hint that they think about..

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Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: Prime™ on July 05, 2013, 06:29:50 PM

Hindi naman sa hindi magets ang hint.. ayaw lang nila tanggapin ang hint na nasa utak nila kaya gusto nila sabihin totally straight to their faces na ayaw mo sa kanila to have a period for their hint that they think about..

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Very good answer pareng Fayt. This is usually the case.

Halimbawa ang sinabi sayo, "I will only be yours when hell freezes over, or when pigs fly". Ang unang papasok sa isip nila, "so there's a chance?"

Sometimes it's best to be cruel to be kind. Straight nalang. No hints or pussy footing around.


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Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: fayt on July 05, 2013, 06:35:56 PM

Sometimes it's best to be cruel to be kind. Straight nalang. No hints or pussy footing around.


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Agree sir prime. No hints. It is a yes or a no...

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Title: Re: for girls, what are your common reasons/excuses kapag ayaw nyo si guy?
Post by: dere'k ™ on July 05, 2013, 11:10:58 PM
Very good answer pareng Fayt. This is usually the case.

Halimbawa ang sinabi sayo, "I will only be yours when hell freezes over, or when pigs fly". Ang unang papasok sa isip nila, "so there's a chance?"

Sometimes it's best to be cruel to be kind. Straight nalang. No hints or pussy footing around.


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