Your thoughts on dating a single mom?

Ozymandias · **on:** February 22, 2016, 04:48:31 AM

What are the pros and cons of dating a single mom? I'm dating one.

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iceprince · **Reply #1 on:** February 22, 2016, 07:47:44 AM

If serious ka sa Single Mom...

Just show her na malinis intention mo...

Single moms tends to know kung ano ang hinanap nila sa relationship...

I mean... Mas madali nilang iexpress sarili nila na yun ang gusto nila...

Hindi na masyadong kailangang magpaliguy ligoy pa...

Kapag nagclick kayo sa simula pa lang...

More or less smooth sailing na...

Pero minsan yan din ang cons...

Lalo na kung ang hinahanap niya ay future father figure...

For her kid/s... Dapat lang kaya mong tanggapin yun...

therasmus · **Reply #2 on:** February 22, 2016, 08:01:19 PM

I think wala namang problema dyan.. Lalo na kung maganda at sixy... Hehehe!
Kung mahal mo naman diba? Go lang ng go..

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naruto789544 · **Reply #3 on:** February 22, 2016, 11:34:44 PM

most are looking for a man who can accept her for what she is... so if you looking for a good time only, better think it over since most single moms have learned their lessons from the past...

Prime™ · **Reply #4 on:** February 24, 2016, 11:29:41 AM

Good for you. When it all comes down to it, what's important is what the two of you are actually expecting from this relationship. As long as pareho kayo ng direction and malinaw yung intention ng both parties, then there shouldn't be a problem.

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therasmus · **Reply #5 on:** February 24, 2016, 03:55:30 PM

^ Agreed with that...

@TS
Yun naman kase ang importante eh, kung ano yung intensyon mo talaga. If seryoso ka then I think matatanggap mo lahat about sa kanya no rebuttals and excuses.

Ozymandias · **Reply #6 on:** February 25, 2016, 05:09:04 AM

I read all the replies and thank you for the thoughts that you shared guys.

We've been dating for 2 months now so we're just new as a couple. But every time we hook up and as I do my thing, she will immediately halt whatever we're doing. Of course as a gentleman I will respect it. The reason is she's been abstaining from s-e-x for 3 years until now and from that period she only dated 2 men, which makes me the 3rd guy (medyo choosy sya and she's not entertaining all suitors). We've had a discussion about it and she's committed not to do it until she's sure i'm the one (hinting too that it's better if we're married when we do it). I've never been into this kind of situation before and as a young adult in mid 20's it will be a struggle. I know some men are capable of waiting but I'm not sure about myself. She's still young in her early 20's and yes she's just a teenager when she conceived her baby.

iceprince · **Reply #7 on:** February 25, 2016, 08:09:22 AM

Quote from: Ozymandias on February 25, 2016, 05:09:04 AM

I read all the replies and thank you for the thoughts that you shared guys.

We've been dating for 2 months now so we're just new as a couple. But every time we hook up and as I do my thing, she will immediately halt whatever we're doing. Of course as a gentleman I will respect it. The reason is she's been abstaining from s-e-x for 3 years until now and from that period she only dated 2 men, which makes me the 3rd guy (medyo choosy sya and she's not entertaining all suitors). We've had a discussion about it and she's committed not to do it until she's sure i'm the one (hinting too that it's better if we're married when we do it). I've never been into this kind of situation before and as a young adult in mid 20's it will be a struggle. I know some men are capable of waiting but I'm not sure about myself. She's still young in her early 20's and yes she's just a teenager when she conceived her baby.

At the very least you still respect what she wants...

Yun nga lang talaga...

May standards na siyang gustong mameet...

Katulad nang kasal and everything...

Malalaman mo naman sa sarili mo kung she's worth the wait...

Sa tingin ko naman... Maganda nga ang dating nito...

Kahit may anak na she's somewhat 9-10...

Kung maganda ang ugali niya at wife material...

It's better you go for it...

Pero i-reason mo din na somehow...

Dapat malaman niyo parehas kung magkakasundo kayo sa lahat nang aspect...

Lalo na sa s-e-x... Isang malaking factor din yun...

Mukha nga lang na hindi pa yun ang priority niya...

Ozymandias · **Reply #8 on:** February 27, 2016, 04:29:39 AM

Quote from: iceprince on February 25, 2016, 08:09:22 AM

At the very least you still respect what she wants...

Yun nga lang talaga...

May standards na siyang gustong mameet...

Katulad nang kasal and everything...

Malalaman mo naman sa sarili mo kung she's worth the wait...

Sa tingin ko naman... Maganda nga ang dating nito...

Kahit may anak na she's somewhat 9-10...

Kung maganda ang ugali niya at wife material...

It's better you go for it...

Pero i-reason mo din na somehow...

Dapat malaman niyo parehas kung magkakasundo kayo sa lahat nang aspect...

Lalo na sa s-e-x... Isang malaking factor din yun...

Mukha nga lang na hindi pa yun ang priority niya...

Tama ka dyan sir Aga. She's not s-e-xually active talaga, her pregnancy was a one and done. So she only experienced it once pa lang and bam, pregnant! The guy was a douche, it left a bad taste in her mouth, buti na lang kamukha nya yung daughter nya. Attitude wise, she's a snob and a bitch, if she's not in the mood to socialize then you're in trouble. My only edge is that she likes me and it makes me feel special, since a lot of people are asking her out on a date but she just ignores them like a fly. I think in general, all girls mahirap talaga basahin minsan, ehem. Paunti unti i'm teasing errr teaching her that this will feel good if she lets me go to a certain base, if you know what I mean.

Blackdog · **Reply #9 on:** February 27, 2016, 02:13:48 PM

Sa pinas lang naman problema kung single mom or dad ang isang tao dahil iniisip kaagad nila yung sasabihin ng ibang tao,
Kung mahal mo siya at kaya mong yakapin ang reponsibilidad na meron kang instant anak bakit hindi at ikaw ang magpapaligaya sa sarili mo at hindi ibang tao.

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maxpedition · **Reply #10 on:** March 02, 2016, 06:48:57 PM

at the end of the day it all boils down on how you feel and how much you can take... honestly having a kid is a great responsibility but very rewarding seeing them grow up and guiding them to be a better person is a fulfilment in it self.. for me think that is a very important part of her ... how you will interact her kid will be very crucial in her decision if she can let her guard down again... trust me 99% of moms will do anything when it comes to their children... as men we tend to get blinded by beauty and body its acceptable because thats how are are wired.. but when there is a child involved its a whole different world....you hear stories about hookups online about single milfs putting out easy but you almost never hear stories about a second date or an actual date with involving their children....why because those type of women are already secured and open to the idea that they can have more than one piece of the cake... in summary having a relationship with and instant mama (excuse the pun) is more of an investment like any other relationship its just that you need to invest more if your really serious about getting into it.....i hope I'm making sense and good luck...

planetX · **Reply #11 on:** March 02, 2016, 09:55:19 PM

yung mga single mom may experience na yan alam na niya ang mga bagay na dapat pangalagaan. kapag naging kayo for sure na mamahalin ka nya ng husto. based on my experience masarap silang kasama, kausap at maalaga

jamesbond · **Reply #12 on:** March 13, 2016, 04:13:58 PM

masarap yan hahahaha....

kinda jealous lang yan kung minsan... i mean both ways... you have to understand that her attention is divided between her kid and you... likewise, she is very jealous about you getting in touch with other girls also... may bad experience na yan... pero other than those i've mentioned, panalo yan..../size]

jamoy · **Reply #13 on:** April 13, 2016, 11:22:35 PM

Iba kasi kultura natin, kaya iba ang tingin sa mga single moms sa pinas.Kesyo nadisgrasya,etc.. Pero in my opinion hindi naman big deal yun.

As for kung of magdate ng single mom, case to case basis siguro.
Wala ring pinagkaiba sa ladies na walang anak. Either magcclick kayo or hindi.

Pero isip isip ka din. Baka mamaya kaya naging single mom dahil mahirap pakisamahan. Or loko lang talaga yung nakabuntis sa kanila at nagmahal lang sila ng tunay.

iantorres0428 · **Reply #14 on:** May 05, 2017, 03:47:51 PM

Tama nga kaPT natin, most single mom eh natuto na ika nga kya medyo ingat na din cla. Im sure naghahanap din cla ng makakasama pro not being desparate kc naranasan na nila sakit ng maiwanan.

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