LOVE (marie's) Questions

[lovemarie]

at first instance, of course magagalit ako sa taong umagaw sa mahal ko... natural naman yan talaga... honestly, i will stop for a while and contemplate of what really happened, bakit sumama si girl sa kanya... there must be something wrong with me and hindi na dapat pahabain pa ang istorya... i'll set them both free without bitterness or harsh words... i'll wish them luck and happiness... then find another girl and this time work harder on the next relationship, baon ang mga aral na natutunan sa dating relasyon... never again na dapat yun maulit... make my new girl savor the best of me...

naks ambait naman ni sir james...i let go lang at hindi magtatanim ng galit....

salamat sa pagsagot

[naruto789544]

agree with sir jamesbond that at first anger will be the emotions that i will feel when someone steals the heart of my love one... after this, rejection will be the next and hopefully acceptance and i will just wish them luck and go on with my life... i know someone up there has better plans for me and i will just wait for the right person that HE will give me...

[lovemarie]

salamat po sir @naruto789544 sa walang sawang pagsagot

Here's my next Love Question guys....

In Love, What Would You Do If Your Heart Tells You It's Right But Your Mind Says The Opposite?

[magbubukid]

Ang dali naman ng tanong mo Ms LM. Right or wrong, I'd follow my heart. Kailangan pa bang i-memorize yan? 

[lovemarie]

sir @magbubukid eh talagang pasaway ka ano? hehehe.... seriously, mas subjective ka pala kesa objective....hmmmm...

thanks for taking time!

[magbubukid]

Dati utak ang sinunod ko pero nagkawindang windang naman ang puso ko, so puso na lang ang sundin para walang labolabo. 

[jamesbond]

In Love, What Would You Do If Your Heart Tells You It's Right But Your Mind Says The Opposite?

wow... malupit itong tanong mo mam labs... not easily answerable by this or that... it's got to be on a case to case basis or it depends on a given situation... it's not proper that we just follow our heart and it's not also proper that we follow our mind either... love should not always be guided neither by your heart or your mind, there's got to be balance between the two... mastering both requires ultimate focus and decision... like for example, binigyan ka ng chance na makilala ang isang girl, type mo, pero marami palang hidden attachments na makikita ka sa kanya, so ano, tuloy ba ang panliligaw sa kanya o hindi? another example is yung alam mo ng fall na si girl syo then ikaw nalang ang hinihintay sa iyong decision para maging kayo na pero atubili kang pumasok ulit sa isang relasyon after a break-up, fresh wounds ika nga, so ano, magsasabi ka na ba na love mo na sya at handa ka na bang maging kayo o saka na muna... it takes time to make a decision whether to just follow your heart or your mind... balance is the key baka sunod ka lang ng sunod sa dikta ng puso mo eh kalaunan pagsisihan mo din kasi hindi mo muna pinag-isipan ng mabuti ang dinidikta ng iyong puso... we have a beautiful thread here that focuses on different kinds of love problems and situations, and i have to give my +like here... ciao!

[lovemarie]

In Love, What Would You Do If Your Heart Tells You It's Right But Your Mind Says The Opposite?

wow... malupit itong tanong mo mam labs... not easily answerable by this or that... it's got to be on a case to case basis or it depends on a given situation... it's not proper that we just follow our heart and it's not also proper that we follow our mind either... love should not always be guided neither by your heart or your mind, there's got to be balance between the two... mastering both requires ultimate focus and decision... like for example, binigyan ka ng chance na makilala ang isang girl, type mo, pero marami palang hidden attachments na makikita ka sa kanya, so ano, tuloy ba ang panliligaw sa kanya o hindi? another example is yung alam mo ng fall na si girl syo then ikaw nalang ang hinihintay sa iyong decision para maging kayo na pero atubili kang pumasok ulit sa isang relasyon after a break-up, fresh wounds ika nga, so ano, magsasabi ka na ba na love mo na sya at handa ka na bang maging kayo o saka na muna... it takes time to make a decision whether to just follow your heart or your mind... balance is the key baka sunod ka lang ng sunod sa dikta ng puso mo eh kalaunan pagsisihan mo din kasi hindi mo muna pinag-isipan ng mabuti ang dinidikta ng iyong puso... we have a beautiful thread here that focuses on different kinds of love problems and situations, and i have to give my +like here... ciao!

meron ako nabasa and it's true...you are focused, pensive, passionate and strong daw...you see things differently...philosopical and tries to understand things....

salamat uli sir james!

[jamesbond]

meron ako nabasa and it's true...you are focused, pensive, passionate and strong daw...you see things differently...philosopical and tries to understand things....

salamat uli sir james!

  thanks mam, you're very much welcome... eh mind if i take a look at that material on where  you have read that? hahahaha.... parang may kodiko ka ata jan ah... +like po dito again...

[naruto789544]

"agree with what they say... this question is a toughie... for me the reason why the brain is above the heart is because it is able to think in logical ways rather than the heart which deals more in emotions...  the problem here is that when it comes to love, it is the heart which normally prevails... ever heard the saying that love is blind?  that is a perfect example...

[lovemarie]

"agree with what they say... this question is a toughie... for me the reason why the brain is above the heart is because it is able to think in logical ways rather than the heart which deals more in emotions...  the problem here is that when it comes to love, it is the heart which normally prevails... ever heard the saying that love is blind?  that is a perfect example...

LOVE is BLIND . . . hmmmm... i think and believe that love is seeing all the flaws yet accepting them... love recognizes all the fears and insecurities and knowing your role is to comfort . . .  aw! i think i am using more of my heart in replying to your comment hehehe...

many thanks as always!

[lovemarie]

Eto na po ang sunod ko tanong mga ka PT. . .



Kanino ka mas bilib... Sa maganda/guwapo na nagmahal ng pangit o sa pangit na nakakuha ng maganda/guwapo?

[jamesbond]

(seriously...napa-jingle ako dito ah...) well, i think it's just the same, isang pangit at isang gwapo/maganda pa din yan... they say love can not be measured and can not be dictated upon... kung dun tumig**s- este tumibok ang puso ng ka-partner eh ano magagawa natin... but the thing there is that love is not blind at all, iba lang ang ginamit na sa pangsukat sa pagmahahal ng isang tao.. heart maybe? hmmm... ako naman ay hindi ka-gwapuhan pero ang gf ko naman ay saksakan ng ganda... sometimes women just wanted to be cared for, remembered, and treasured like a rare diamond... gwapo ka nga pero iniiwanan mo naman sya, maganda ka nga pero pinaglalaruan mo naman sya, gwapo ka nga pero nagmamalaki ka naman, at ma-beauty ka nga pero ang ugali mo naman ay hindi maganda.. so ano mangyayari syo... just be true to oneself and others will notice you no matter how you look... kung bilib ba ako either way? hmmm... i'm not judgmental in this case, to each his/her own... i'm not in anyone's position to judge them kasi i don't want them also to judge me... may karma yan... kaya maging maligaya na lang tayo sa kung anung merong karelasyon ang ating mga kaibigan or sa ating mga nakikitang couples... +like here...

[lovemarie]

(seriously...napa-jingle ako dito ah...) well, i think it's just the same, isang pangit at isang gwapo/maganda pa din yan... they say love can not be measured and can not be dictated upon... kung dun tumig**s- este tumibok ang puso ng ka-partner eh ano magagawa natin... but the thing there is that love is not blind at all, iba lang ang ginamit na sa pangsukat sa pagmahahal ng isang tao.. heart maybe? hmmm... ako naman ay hindi ka-gwapuhan pero ang gf ko naman ay saksakan ng ganda... sometimes women just wanted to be cared for, remembered, and treasured like a rare diamond... gwapo ka nga pero iniiwanan mo naman sya, maganda ka nga pero pinaglalaruan mo naman sya, gwapo ka nga pero nagmamalaki ka naman, at ma-beauty ka nga pero ang ugali mo naman ay hindi maganda.. so ano mangyayari syo... just be true to oneself and others will notice you no matter how you look... kung bilib ba ako either way? hmmm... i'm not judgmental in this case, to each his/her own... i'm not in anyone's position to judge them kasi i don't want them also to judge me... may karma yan... kaya maging maligaya na lang tayo sa kung anung merong karelasyon ang ating mga kaibigan or sa ating mga nakikitang couples... +like here...

ibig ba sabihin nyan mas bilib ka sa pangit na napa-ibig ang isang maganda o guwapo?

[jamesbond]

ibig ba sabihin nyan mas bilib ka sa pangit na napa-ibig ang isang maganda o guwapo?

  it's not really 'bilib' eh... when we say 'bilib', there is this notion that we have na magaling or ok kumuha ng loob ng magaganda yan ah or vice versa, what i admire most is the good-hearted person that one has... aba eh kung pogi ang guy tapos pangit si babae, so ano meron ang babeng yun? mabait or maganda siguro ang puso nun...