need advice...:(

[elluminati14]

mga ka pt.. gnito kc sitwasyon ko..3 months kming mag girlfriend ng gf ko tapos gus2 nya akong ipakilala sa parents nya dahil mahal nya ako at gus2 ko rin syang puntahan sa bahay nila.. naging gf ko xa ng hindi alam ng parents nya. ganito yun nung time na sinabi nya sa parents nya na may manliligaw sa kanya nung sinabi ang apilyedo ko ayaw kaagad ng papa nya.. may galit ata sa clan namin yung papa nya dahil daw ganun.. etc.pero sa family namin wala naman kaming nagawa. napasagot ko gf ko ng di alam ng family nya. pero yung gf ko pinakilala ko na sa family ko dahil gus2 nyang makilala family ko at yun ok naman sa kanya ang family ko... sa kasamaang palad yung papa nya ang ayaw sakin kahit di pa ako nakikita ng ama nya... need help po tnx.

[animazoo]

Dude lahat ng ama kalaban ang manliligaw ng kanilang dalaga. In every dad's eyes you are a thief. They will never trust you with their daughter. So to answer your question, Kung mahal mo ang gf mo, patunayan mo... if that means going to meet their parents, gawin mo. Thats the least you can do to earn the right.

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[caligula]

Wait a sec. This sounds familiar. Is your last name Focker?

[monde8]

Waha Focker, tindi mo talaga sir caligs.

Repapips ang pinaka magandang gawin mo ay very obvious, sige at pakibasa ulit ang advise ni idol animazoo.

[IORI™]

Parang romeo at juliet lang sir story mo hehe clan wars .. ligawan mo dad nya kunin mo kiliti .. daanin mo sa suhol hehe malay mo it works ..

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[elluminati14]

ang hirap kc mga tol... nung nalaman ng ama nya na ngkikita kami ng gf ko ayaw na ng ama nya pagamitin ng cellphone yung gf ko ..gus2 ko sana puntahan cya sa bahay nila pero ayaw naman ng gf ko baka daw lalala ang sitwasyon .

[Troll Montero]

pa ridding with tandem mo nalang yung tatay ng gf mo para tapos problema mo

[fayt]

ipon ka ng lakas na loob....

puntahan mo sa bahay at desente ang suot...

harapin mo ang tatay sabay sabi "Mahal na mahal ko yun anak nyo"

biglain mo yun pamilya nya... hehehehe

[sangatboy]

patunayan m nlng n di ka magnanakawng anak.... yan tlaga kc ang ng tatay sa mga manliligaw.... kaya puntahan m wag kng matakot
Post Merge: May 20, 2014, 04:23:57 PMisa pa pala nkalimutan ko... buntisin mo dahil pagbuntis n yan wla n clang magagawa hehehehe yon ang mganda

[elluminati14]

btw... tnx sa mga advice nyo..   baka meron pa kayong mas magandang idea jan hehe

[Prime™]

Or maybe stop caring so much. I know he is her dad, and you should respect him for that fact alone, pero his opinion of you is beyond your control. As long as alam mong you're not acting like a douche and your intentions are good then that's all there is to it.

What does your gf think about the whole thing? Is the relationship a no go for her, because of this? Did she have a boyfriend before, and was he okay with him? And how old are you guys if you don't mind me asking?

It's usually normal for dads to feel irked by the fact that someone is eyeing his daughter. I've to be honest if I had a daughter and I don't think she's ready for a relationship, I'd kick the boy's ass the moment I see him. So there's that.

[elluminati14]

23 po ako yung gf ko 21.....then nag decide nalang kami na cool.off nalang muna baka sakaling maayos pa ang lahat pag dumating ang araw.. maxado kasing kontrolado ng papa nya ang buhay nya kaya nahihirapan ako..

[jamesbond]

i've been following your post since day one... guys here have been giving their inputs on how they can provide you best solutions and i must say that with your decision to have a cooling off period is nonetheless a melt down for me... its sad because you both have given up on your relationship just like that... Its a hard fought battle i know but you could have gone discreet on this one... anyway, i respect both your decisions and i bade you two good luck and hoping that someday lady luck will smile on you two...

[elluminati14]

actually di pa naman kami break ng gf ko... pinapalamig lang muna namin ang galit ng papa nya sa kanya... then balik ulit sa dati heheh..

[¿m☺ÿ]

ipon ka ng lakas na loob....

puntahan mo sa bahay at desente ang suot...

harapin mo ang tatay sabay sabi "Mahal na mahal ko yun anak nyo"

biglain mo yun pamilya nya... hehehehe

gusto ko yung suggestion ni 'tol fayt....

kasi kung ako ang nasa kalagayan mo gagawin ko yung suggestion niya.... actually, sa experience ko laging ganun ang ginagawa ko. I can't care less kung ano ang iisipin ng magulang ng gf ko basta ang alam ko mahal ko siya.. at ang tanging paraan eh puntahan siya sa bahay....

You will kill 2 birds in one stone, una malalaman mo kung gaano ka kamahal ng gf mo and pangalawa, you can prove that you love her that much by facing your greatest fear, fear na lahat yata tayong mga lalaki ay nararamdaman ito....the father or parents of the one's we love.

kung mag-gigive up ka dahil sa ganun lang na hindi mo pa nga nasusubukan then it will be your loss. You should have tried bago ka man lang nakipag-cool off. It just means that your love is not strong enough to stand, i'm telling you this as your senior, i've been threatened to be killed, pointed a gun on my face, napaghasaan ng gulok...but it is all worth it kasi naging masaya ako and proven that my love is true....nobody can blame me if the relationship didn't work out, at least i have done my part...and not just did it but did it with all my heart.... you should the same...your gf will not expect you to catch bullet or shield her with a knife but i'm sure she is expecting you to stand up for her....