You Found Your Partner's Diary? Would You Read It?

[bohica]

You are cleaning the house and accidentally found you partner's diary.  Would you read it?

[AgileZero]

In my perspective...

No, reading someone's diary could potentially ruin your relationship due to two reasons:

1. If the partner finds out about it, you are finished.
2. If you found out something horrifying about your partner (e.g. what he/she think about you, your family, and your friends or he/she is maybe a zombie, a squid boy/girl, an NBI agent, a superhero or something) , your relationship is finished.

So carefully put it back and repress the memory that you discovered a black book of immense danger.

 

[bohica]

Thanks for replying AgileZero.  Good points. 

[jamesbond]

naahh... a diary may seem complicated as an example since its not common nowadays.. let's make it simple, shall we? let's take for example your partner's cellphone was left behind and you have chanced upon it, would you open and read her successive text messages? hmmm... for me, it's a NO... it's just a matter of respect to her... vis a vis, i don't want her too to open and read my messages.... so respeto on both sides... treat every messages as private... anyways, if and when there's something fishy about the messages, you for one will be the one to notice something different... but just the same, learn first to respect her privacy...

[¿m☺ÿ]

nice thread bro... +karma sa iyo

- out of respect sa partner ko kung sakali mang makita ko yung diary niya... hindi ko ito babasahin kasi, some personal things should be communicated, gusto ko siya mismo ang magsabi sa akin in person to gain trust.

- ayaw ko ring magkaroon kami ng di pagkakaintindihan dahil lang sa kanyang past... or sa nakasulat sa kanyang diary. Truth will always reveal itself in due time kung mayroon man siyang itinatago.....

[somebody]

Am I ready to get hurt sa mababasa ko Handa ba akong tanggapin ang nangyare sa past nya Di ko kaya ikaselos ang mababasa ko   mga tanong na dapat itanong bago ko susubukan basahin ang diary ng partner ko... Kahit na curious ako sa mababasa ko pero I leave it nalang...di ko na babasahin, Kasi kung ako ang nasa kalagayan ng partner ko..for sure di ako matutuwa na yung diary ko mabasa... MAging mitya pa yun ng pag-aaway namin.. Kaya for me.. a big No No!

[magbubukid]

No. Kasi baka mapraning ako kapag meron ako mabasa duon na hindi kanais-nais.   

[radicalerror]

ndi ko babasahin.. Kung may secrets partner ko sa akin hintayin ko na lng na sabihin nya un sa akin..



Sent from the Ethereal Horizon

[shinta]

No. If i need to know something, ill just ask. Relationship is also about trust.

[mitten-15]

hindi ko babasahin ang diary niya, kasi in case may mabasa ako hindi maganda, siguradong mappraning ako at baka magkahiwalay lang kami. and ayaw ko rin na magbasa siya ng messages ko..

[Tonying Bayawak]

Point of reality, matetempt ako. Pero itatanong ko sa kanya kung pwede kong basahin. Kung ayaw niya, respeto nalang siguro, problema tyagain niya kulit ko. Hahaha!
Curious talaga akong tao at isa yun sa mahirap baguhin sa akin.

[monde8]

I would pero secret ko lang. Di ko na sasabihin kay misis na binasa ko diary niya. I would read it not because gusto ko chumismis sa mga bagay na posibleng hindi niya pa nasasabi sakin but rather para makaalam ng mga bagay bagay na makakapagpasaya sa kanya na hindi ako aware or hindi niya nasasabi sakin. Would use that info to make her happier and feel more loved.

[fayt]

nope....

pero mahirap hindi basahin yun kaya lang i respect privacy ng partner ko if ever na meron syang diary...

[ladyvirus01]

to be honest, maattempt ka talaga basahin ang diary niya lalo na kong ngkakalat/pakalatkalat BUT i do respect him a lot kaya isantabi ko muna ang curiosity na yan para basahin in fact masasaktan ka lang sa mga nilalaman nito db? so huwag na lang 

[Troll Montero]

babasahin ko siya, kase pagsisihan ko lang kung di ko yun binasa, madaming tanong na mamumutawi sa aking isip.... sabi nga nila nasa huli naman ang pagsisisi...