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wahahaha.may kidnap pa talagang nagaganap... isa ka palang marahas ser magbu Sent from my GT-S5300 using Tapatalk 2
Kinidnap ko at dinala sa isang bodega. Wala na siya magagawa kaya sinagot na lang ako. OT: Call me if you cannot move on. Bigyan kita wheelchair for Christmas.
Maybe my trick is not so nice, but it's very effective. OT: At least the wheelchair can make you move along, if not on.
Well, moving on is really difficult if you can't accept emotionally that the person will never go back. Magstart ka in giving importance for yourself, afterall it's not love we're talking about here now it's about love being gone. A definite closure will be a big help pero hindi lahat kaya ito, pero paano mo nga naman malilimutan ang isang tao na sinisilip mo pa sa fb or pinadadaanan mo ng GM. For my own experience when i "moved on" means apathetic na ako sa person. I am not happy nor sad nor angry whatever she does. We have our own process, nagkakapareho lang tayo on how we start and how will it end.
lemme share these tips on how to move on...tanong ko, sagot ko..hahaha1. Cry. Face the fact that you are sad and depressed. There’s no point of hiding it to the world most especially to yourself. Lock yourself in your room and cry. Sob or even wail all you want, just cry to let out all the heartaches you are feeling. It hurts so badly and the pain is so unbearable so let it out by all means. You might get raccoon eyes but at least not cancer or any heart ailments.2. Scrounge Some Ear. When in pain and confused, it is always advisable to have someone around. Pouring over your sentiments with a friend over a bottle or a cup of coffee is a great catharsis. Who cares if you have told the story a hundred times already to your friends, as long as the anguish is still there just keep on talking.3. Don’t Listen to Love Songs. As we all know, love songs tend to wake up our emotional side, so be wary not to let yourself indulge into it when you’re broken hearted or else you’ll end up feeling like a complete loser.4. Keep Yourself Busy. Do the things that you have neglected doing because you were busy with someone else before. Finish your cross stitch that has been idle for almost a month now. Open that novel where your bookmark has been on the same chapter for a year already. Do all the things you’ve been dying to do before but just didn’t have the time. Organize an out of town trip with your friends or try hosting a party. Be with happy people and absorb their vibes.5. Reminisce. This may sound weird but is sometimes effective. If avoiding all the places you two have been and all the things both of you were doing before didn’t come up with a good result, then might as well try this one. No, reminiscing doesn’t mean that you have to punish yourself by reliving the memories you once shared, it’s just a way of making yourself immune to all the pains he has caused and for you to face the reality. Remembering the good times you have spent together will somehow make you realize that life isn’t bad after all. Believe me, in time, you will just find yourself laughing at all the things that happened and it will somehow make you proud also because you have overcome them all.6. Start a Diary. Start writing in a journal and make it your new best friend. Jot down all the dreadful things that happened to you and purge out all the things that’s on your mind, no holds barred. Confess to your new best friend how despicable your boyfriend is and vow to forget him the soonest time possible.7. Clean up the Clutters. It’s time to pick up the pieces and clean up the clutters of your once shattered life. A closing doesn’t necessarily mean a shut down. It’s just a phase that everyone needs to undergo to pave way for a new start. Keep away from your sight all the things that bring back memories of you together. Put them in a box and make sure you’ll never get a glimpse of it to avoid temptation to look at them again. And when I mean keep away from sight, just toss it aside first, not return to the giver.8. Pamper yourself. Head to the spa, gym or even to the parlor for a complete makeover. Enough of the sulking days, it’s unfair for you to see him happy while you are still there in your room wallowing in despair. Give yourself a treat and stop looking miserable. You wouldn’t want to look wretched when the hands of fate suddenly give you the person who will completely ease your broken heart, would you?sana makatulong ^_^
'to panahon masarap bumili ng gadgets. hehe.. o kaya shopping sa mga gurls. diversion!
