Love and Hate (Just want to get this out of my chest)

[darkbahamut]

  Girls...I soo love girls...sobra as in they are like my weakness...madali nila akong mapasunod madali nila akong mauto...konting ngiti lang bibigay na ako...kaso...lately I've come to hate them as well...ewan ko ba yung pakiramdam na you hate and love them at a same time...hindi ako bading...I know what I want and I want girls...bakit nga ba ako humantong sa ganito...dahil ba sa trauma ko?...I used to have a girl...kaso sobrang tagal na nun...3-4-5 years na ang nakalilipas?...ewan ko ba...dahil ba sa minsan na akong niloko?...o siguro dahil sa panghahamak sakin ng mama ko?...we live in a world na kapag pangit ka stalker ka kapag gwapo admirer,  kapag panget manyak kapag gwapo pilyo, etc...aminin man ng mga kababaihan o hindi pero we live in a world na ang mga kalalakihan ay hindi na nirerespeto kundi inaabuso...hindi man aminin ng mga kababaihan pero ganun naman talaga nagaganap ngayun...equal right ang hinihingi nila pero kapag pinadanas mo ng hirap na nararanasan ng lalake nagrereklamo...sinasabinila na malakas ang katawan ng babae kasi kinakaya nila yung period nila pero ang mga suntok na tumatama sa katawan ng mga lalake hindi naman nila kinakaya makanti mo ssabihing "irespeto mo ako dahil babae ako" akala ko ba masmalakas kayo?...kapag naging mabait ka aabusuhin ka...tapos kapag wala kanang maibigay....hahanap ng iba at magpapaawa tapos iiwan ka nila dahil nahihirapan na sila sayo dahil wala kanang kayang ibigay...aalagaan mo sila tapos ang pipiliin nila yung taong nagpapaiyak sakanila tapos magrereklamo "bakit niya ako niloko?" may nagmamahal sa inyong lalake na "stick to one" tapos iiwanan ninyo para sa isang babaero tapos magrereklamo kayo?...sorry wah...never mean to offend anybody...I guess its that time of the year...malungkot ang mag-isa...I just miss the feeling of loving and caring someone and at the same time being loved and cared by someone...Haaay...kailangan ko na talaga ng psych bago pa lumala ang lahat...bago ako tuluyan mawalan ng respeto sa mga kababaihan..

[Prime™]

Women, you can't live with them, you can't live without them.

Girls are amazing, you just have to give yourself respect first. If the person is out of line, and doing something you wouldn't approve of, say it. Perhaps she doesn't know it's rubbing you off the wrong way and that behavior is unacceptable to you.

There are plenty of decent girls out there, the kind you can have a wonderful relationship with. My advice is keep away from the psychos and don't stick your d*ck in crazy. Seriously.

That aside, don't try to control things you cannot control. You will just be frustrated.

You can't control other people and their actions, pero you can control what you feel, how you deal with situations and people you let into your life.

If you are treating the person kindly, yet that person is being a jerk to you and doesn't treat you with respect, walk away. You control that aspect of your life, better use it.

Refrain from being a pessimist and a misogynist. Women would not want anything to do with that kind of person, and you will only make matters worst for you. Don't take that road.

Maybe you're not asking for advice, but if you are open to it, then that's my 2 cents.

[darkbahamut]

Thanks for the advise...

what you say is so true we can't live with them and can't live without them....

I'm not trying to control stuff I mean...I know for a fact that we can't control people as we please. That's the reason why treat women like a bird. wild and free. hindi ako mahigpit sa ex ko and for some reason yun pa ang isang dahilan ng pagkakahiwalay namin, I trust her and alam ko din naman kung kelan ko siya sasawayin. pero siya yung tipong alam na ngang mali ipipilit padin.

When I say psych what I mean is i need a psychologist or a psychiatrist. I want to re-align my thoughts my way of thinking I want to become the gentleman again that I was, yung kahit nakatalikod sa babae eh ginagalang mo parin sila. hindi yung kapag nakatalikod minamanyak mo na sila.

May respeto parin naman ako sa mga kababaihan. yun nga lang piling babae nalang ginagalang ko. sad to say they are not for me for they already belong to someone else.

Ang hirap kasi sakin alam ko yung pakiramdam ng walang matakbuhan o yung walang mapaghingan ng nararamdaman kaya naman ayun, matyaga akong nakikinig sa mga friends ko na babae na puno ng problema sa mga BF nila.

Haaay...malapit na yata akong bumigay...to be honest...iniisip ko ng bumili ng babae just for pleasure...ngayun ko lang narealise kung bakit may mga lalakeng gumagastos nalang sa mga babaeng bayaran...hindi dahil sa libog...kundi dahil deep inside malungkot sila...yung pakiramdam na kahit anong gawin mo eh hindi ka magkakaroon ng matinong makakasama...ang bayaran atleast alam mo na ginagawa nila yun para sa pera, para sa pamilya nila. pero ang mga babaeng sinasabi nilang matitino at hindi bayaran...kaasar...kalalake kong tao pero para akong babaeng mag-isip...alam mo yung virgin kayo pareho pero ikaw na lalake hindi ka lumadi kahit kaninno tapos si babae ayun iiwan ka at lalandi sa iba tapos mabubuntis pa...sa totoo lang minsan naiisip ko (no offence sa mga kababaihan wah) that women are better of to be six slave not worthy of being loved...sorry sorry sa mga kababaihan...sadyang nasaktan lang talaga ako ng sobra...shet!