mahirap din talagang i-challenge yung sinasabing baka hindi talaga sila in-love in the first place.... kasi yung iba umaabot ng maraming taon ang relationship then they settle down just to have to separate in few months or years...... meaning, as mysterious it is, love simply can't be measured by days or years or until now we can only guess what love is and what it really do.... in the Bible (sorry po sa ayaw ng Bible, if i will used this as referrence) in 1 Corinthians chapter 13, gave us how love should be.... but it doesn't mean that we can follow it all and we can just wake up and do all of it at once, still there are process and a lot of changes tha will take place before we can really achieve these.... and because we can not follow it, so it comes back to what we think is love and start building up to achieve the love we expect it should be....still were simply human with emotions we can simply guess what it is and pretend we don't know or sometimes think it as we know it. but the best way to know that it is really love, is when we've loss love if the person we really love is already gone away.
You can cite the bible as much as you want buddy. Okay na okay yan.
Perhaps you are right.
Pero love in what way? Platonic? Romantic? Filial?
Will you fall out of love for your parents? Your children? Your siblings?
No?
Why should your wife or spouse be any different then?
Why should romantic love be any different from other types when it comes to longevity?
What makes one say one loves someone romantically? How sure are you that it is not simply infatuation, fixation or lust even?
If it's not infatuation or fixation, or lust; Then how would "love" be any different from those superficial emotions?
Why is it that some couples make it and some do not if they share the same type of "love"?
Why is this love thing so fickle and yet so.. sought after?
If we cannot challenge it as you say, then what makes "love" any different or special even from the others?
When just like lust it will not last,
like infatuation it will expire,
and like fixation it will shift from one person to another?
What makes it so precious that it is the stuff of songs, movies, poetry and even legends to some extent?
Can we really not challenge it my friend? Can we really say the "love" between these two septuagenarian couple who spent all their lives together for the most part, the same as these two young couple who separated after 10 years?
Anyway silly questions in my mind. I am actually the last guy that should be asked when it comes to lovedovey stuff. Hahaha..!
Appreciate your input mate. I am genuinely curious and interested cause honestly I have no idea what this "true love" really is. Nag tataka lang ako kung ano ang pinagkaiba and what makes it so special if pare pareho lang pala.
P.S.
Use the bible anytime you wish. Di ako palabasa masyado but I salute you guys who are. It's a free world mate.
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