How to (politely) ask a woman if she's a trans or not.

[grayle]

I'm not ashamed to admit it, but ever since I started growing balls on my nuts, madalas ako magkamali ng akala if girl or bading ang nasa harap ko. Well, around 40% mali, which is still huge I guess. I try to look for the obvious signs, no boobs, broad shoulders, adam's apple, muscular thighs/calves - pero nagkakamali pa din. Especially now with the advancements in surgery, masmahirap to tell the difference.

Sometimes the best option is to ask up front, but I've been slapped a few times already. I cn't help it, may suspicion na ako sa masyadong maganda - more often than not, baka trans.

So what's the best way to ask a woman whether she's a trans or not guys? How do I word it so I don't offend the person I'm asking? Thanks! 

[jamesbond]

i have answered or encountered various topics here in our forum but not of this kind hahahaha... mahirap ata ito since it primarily deals with the 3rd s3x... so okay... if i were in your place, i'd rather not ask "her" about her gender... talasan ko na lang pakiramdam ko, let her open up so in that way sa kanya na manggagaling yan... anyway, if "she" wants to do you in bed merong abiso na magmumula sa kanya on what to expect, which is not normal sa actual encounter with a real girl.... pero mahirap talaga i-differentiate ang real sa trans... tama ka.. nakakalito nga talaga yan... +like syo idol...

[grayle]

Hirap talaga papi pag ganyan, especially sa mga hunting grounds like clubs and bars. You know, places na under time pressure ka sa unahan sa maganda para maiuwi. No unpleasant surprises so far naman as far as doing the deed, but yun nga - nasasampal ako and I end up offending the girl instead of getting her number or having coffee later.

Kahit sa Tinder, which is supposed to be a hook up app. Basta anything that involves a ticking clock of sorts. lol

[jamesbond]

ah ok... well, the first sign i usually see in a woman, that is if have doubts, is her shoulder.. medyo wide ang sa transgender as compared sa real woman... anyway, looks can really be deceiving so it takes a keen eye for one person to notice something unusual... i guess morfe practice will do hahahaha... goodluck bro and happy hunting...

[grayle]

I mean seriously mga papi, to be honest lang, hindi kayo magkakamali sa mga ganito?

[razorsharp]

mas matitiis ko ata ang isang sampal kesa naman sa dilim ko pa malalamang espada din pala ang kaharap ko     

[Heathcliff]

Haha...Sir Razor, nde pala target shooting...fencing pala ano...


Ontopic:

A man need not to be verbal about this. If you suspect something is fishy about her gender...i think just being observant will satisfy your curiosity.

Look for some irregularity sa proportion ng shoulder blades..if she's not a swimmer malamang trans yan. Check her sides just below the armpits..kapag may thickness dun...and it doesnt look like it's a cellulite or excess boob fat....na nag overlap lang sa bra...then it's actually a muscle ..mahirap kase tanggalin yun...

Kahit magtake sila ng hormonal pills..there are particular things na mahirap baguhin...like yung hair growth sa upperlip nila..legs and arms..and even sa brows...the male bone structure is usually thicker than the female..kaya makikita mo rin...especially sa kamay....hindi sya slender and shapely katulad sa babae...not unless the trans in questions is petite still...may signs pa rin yan...pinaka mahirap baguhin is yung voice..there are available voice chip implants but.. mahirap pa rin talaga baguhin ang timbre ng boses lalaki...sasablay at sasablay talaga dyan.

Kaya first thing is to make her talk....laugh..and coax her to respond to you in a rather 'purring' 'cooing' manner...you'll see the difference..

Iba ang tono ng boses ng babae kapag excited, napatili...humahagikgik..yung timbre...impit..tila falsetto pero hindi nagpa falter sa pandinig

Kapag trans... tumili..kala mo nahulog ang balls sa lupa...at tila hinuhugot ang kaluluwa mula sa singit. Wala sa tono. Umeebang ang mga nota.

Hehe...


In short... sintunado.

Kaya malamang pati halinghing nyan...laglagan ang nota na parang putol putol na kwerdas ng gitara.


Ay ano ba sinasabi ko lol!