Bago lang sa dating..

[Choke]

Sabihin na lang natin late bloomer ako and bago lang sa dating scene kahit na nasa early 20's na ako, hindi talaga alam ang basic unwritten rules.

Tulad ng kapag di nagparamdam ang nililigawan ng ilang araw ay panic na agad. Masyadong nagiisip nag bagay bagay at lalong lumalala pa. mga ganun

Any tips and unwritten rules na alam niyo?

[jamesbond]

hmmmm... just be yourself... wala naman unwritten rules that exist in a dating stage... kung girl ka, just play the game and be sure to impose your right kapag hindi mo gusto ang mangyayari... sometimes guys want to impose their superiority & masculinity eh baka hindi ka makatanggi... i'm sure that all the legal norms being taught in school are there for you to exercise... huwag masyadong showy sa dating... maging prim and proper ang poise and most especially, and personal hygiene wag kalilimutan at napaka importante nito sa isang date.... if you are a guy naman, naku, you are the one running the show so dapat may pera lagi sa bulsa... be a gentleman that you are and treat your date as if you are caring for your sister or your mother... kung barumbado ka sa nanay at sa kapatid mo eh huwag ka ng makipag-date sa iba at lalo lamang liliit ang mundong iyong gagalawan... ganun din, importante din ang personal hygiene....

both should possess a good sense of humor... karaniwan isang listener at isang speaker ang tinadhana ng Diyos... boring ang date kapag walang tawanan....

sana sa munting nakayanan ko ay may naiambag akong tips sa iyo.... 

[Choke]

well tingin ko magaling naman ako na listener.. and she's madaldal haha. ayun

[fayt]

just act as yourself... kung ano ka yun ang ipakita mo..

kung hindi ka gusto edi let her go...

syempre kung talaga may bad habit ka like drugs, yan ang dapat ikaw ang magbago. pero kung wala ka naman natatapakan na tao sa ugali o asal mo edi continue mo lang yan...

saka konting care and sweetness sa girl na gusto mo...

wag mo lang ilagay sa pedestal o sambahin ang girl na iniibig mo... tama na yun magpakita ka ng appreciation pero wag mo sila itreat na masyadong princesa at ikaw ay alipin lang..

i mean wag mo masyado ibaba ang level mo para mapansin ka lang nyan.. 

[Choke]

i mean wag mo masyado ibaba ang level mo para mapansin ka lang nyan.. 

Eto ang dapat nalaman ko nung 1st time ever ko nanligaw.. hahahaha

[¿m☺ÿ]

agree sa dalawang ninja master sa taas, just be yourself and try not to do things or promise things na hindi mo kayang panindigan.....try to make her smile or laugh, if you can do this sigurado ako hahanap-hanapin ka niya. And one more thing, try to know what her likes and not likes.... this can help you do things na ayaw niya.

[Prime™]

You've heard a lot of times to be yourself, pero this is the best advice we could give you.

Pretending to be somebody else might work for a while, pero how long can you keep up with the facade? Do you really want to start your relationship with lies and pretensions? Most women have great instincts, and they will feel if you're being disingenuous after spending time with you.

There are times na meron ako mga hindi pinursue na relationships because I know we wouldn't click. I'll just be wasting my time and hers. Mas mabuti ng sa umpisa palang honest na agad.

Ask yourself ano ba ang gusto mo sa isang relationship? Are you looking for a quick hook up or LTR? If long-term ang hanap mo, kilatisin mo muna yung girl. If you think okay ang ugali niya for you, then go for it, subukan mo ligawan. If busted ka, then probably you wouldn't have clicked anyway.

I never subscribed to the method na ligawan mo hanggang makulitan. No way. So many things could go wrong with that kind of setup. Maybe with some people this worked great, pero logically speaking it really doesn't make too much sense to beg a girl to be with you. Where is the attraction in that?

A great relationship is when the girl wants to be with you as much as you want to be with her. Hindi yun dahil anjan ka lang kaya pwede ka na pagtyagaan.

Oh and raise your standards. If girls have standards, have one too. Don't accept bitchy behavior, red flag yan. If she starts acting bitchy or flaky towards you, just drop it. This isn't worth your time. Millions of great girls out there man, don't waste time on one that doesn't think much of you. Trust me, that kind of drama is pointless.

It's your job na kilatisin yung girl, because its her job na kilatisin ka naman. You catch my drift?

There are literally millions of single, eligible high quality girls out there that are looking for a true romantic relationship; all you have to do is open yourself up for the opportunity to meet them.

Most of all have fun and don't take rejections too seriously. Sometimes meron lang talaga specific na gusto yung girl, kahit kay Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt meron mambabusted, so don't take it personally. Not everyone will buy what you're selling so to speak.

P.S.
If you found a real keeper and a really great gal, don't be a douche and play with her feelings and abuse her. Alagaan mo na yun and be happy together.

Best of luck mate.


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[Choke]

Medyo clingy ba ang dating ko?

[¿m☺ÿ]

welcome to the world of women si Choke.... normal yun sa babae, pero one thing for sure malaki ang chance mo sa nililigawan mo. My previous gf once told me that, when a girl accepted your invitation for a date yung chance mo is more then 50%. Take it easy, kung pumayag siya, just make sure to tell her kung saan kayo magkikita or kung susunduin mo siya....hindi mo na kailangang kulitin siya every now and then baka ma-annoy lang siya, kasi if ever magbago ang isip niya.. i know she'll make a way to tell you.....

[Choke]

Hindi naman ako nangungulit sa kanya, gusto ko lang mag confirm kung tuloy since mamaya na nga un, kasi nangyari na dati na nagcancel ako, meron din time nagcancel din siya.

[iceprince]

Hindi naman ako nangungulit sa kanya, gusto ko lang mag confirm kung tuloy since mamaya na nga un, kasi nangyari na dati na nagcancel ako, meron din time nagcancel din siya.

sir Choke...if you are the man you want to impress the girl...
hanggat walang notice na hindi tuloy eh di pumunta ka...+ factor yun kasi puede mong gamitin yun balang araw...hahaha

bast inform her that you'll be there...and you want to see her...

and kapag hindi nagtext...puede ka namang tumawag??? para mas sigurado na maconfirm mo...hahaha

[Choke]

*deleted for too much overthinking. sorry*

[angelmassacre]

Sabi ni Dragon Bautista: Just don't order extra rice on the 1st date.