Depends by what you mean by free or overly attached. I take it you mean overly clingy and on the other hand parang walang pakelam, is that correct?
I'm a guy, I like the girl showing affection. It's kind of a plus nadin kasi because females tend to be more showy than us and I appreciate that, there are times I'm not too showy at all and a girl na ma-cariño can turn a crappy day into an awesome day. Oh yes.
Ayaw ko naman ng too clingy na parang psycho, pero something in the middle lang.
Not the kind na mayat maya tatawag to check on you dahil duda siya na baka may iba kang kasama, checks your phone while you're asleep, stalks you and pag selosan kahit sinong kakilala mong babae.
That's just crazy, insecure and tedious. Pero ayaw ko din ng parang walang pakelam, it's boring.
Middle ground lang. Overly attached I can understand, pero overly clingy, insecure and petty jealousy? I'm too old for that crap.