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Title: Dapat ba???
Post by: Pogz Mendoza on April 07, 2013, 09:52:09 PM
Dapat mo bang ipaglaban ang taong mahal na mahal mo kahit may iba na syang karelasyon? Bakit?
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: Prime™ on April 07, 2013, 09:53:37 PM
Ha? That's kinda stalker-ish hindi ba?
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on April 07, 2013, 09:56:08 PM
dapat po sir kahit meron na iba agawin kung kinakailangan

siraan mo yun kinakasama niya, mahal mo nga dapat gawin mo lahat ng bagay para makuha mo gusto mo

disgrasyahin mu para mawala sa landas mo
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: Prime™ on April 07, 2013, 09:58:44 PM
dapat po sir kahit meron na iba agawin kung kinakailangan

siraan mo yun kinakasama niya, mahal mo nga dapat gawin mo lahat ng bagay para makuha mo gusto mo

disgrasyahin mu para mawala sa landas mo

Bwahahaha! Brutal and parang hitler! I like it! Haha!


Still kinda stalker-ish though.
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on April 07, 2013, 10:07:45 PM
Bwahahaha! Brutal and parang hitler! I like it! Haha!


Still kinda stalker-ish though.
it's not stalking kung gagawin mu harapan at alam ng mahal mo

if you really love someone you should be willing to eliminate the competition figuratively and even literally
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: Prime™ on April 07, 2013, 10:10:20 PM
it's not stalking kung gagawin mu harapan at alam ng mahal mo

if you really love someone you should be willing to eliminate the competition figuratively and even literally

Hahaha that's.. fantastic haha

I'm going to sleep. See you around hitler hahaha
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: fayt on April 07, 2013, 10:12:35 PM
Hindi na.. kung masaya na sya let it be.. kung sakali sasama sya sayo, ibig sabihin nun kaya rin nya sumama sa iba kahit kayo pa.

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Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: Cathrina on April 07, 2013, 10:21:55 PM
Kung may karelasyon na siya at ayaw na niya sakin ..i set him free na lang kahit mahirap gawin yon ..
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: Pogz Mendoza on April 07, 2013, 10:44:29 PM
Hindi na.. kung masaya na sya let it be.. kung sakali sasama sya sayo, ibig sabihin nun kaya rin nya sumama sa iba kahit kayo pa.

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??? kahit na alam mong mahal ka pa NIYA (ex)?


Thanks sa Reply. +karma..
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: fayt on April 07, 2013, 10:47:49 PM
??? kahit na alam mong mahal ka pa NIYA (ex)?


Thanks sa Reply. +karma..


Kung mahal ka nya bakit sya may iba?

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Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: Pogz Mendoza on April 07, 2013, 10:54:10 PM
hindi porket may iba na sya, hindi ka na nya mahal. may ibang dahilan kung bakit hindi kayo magkasama. at hindi dahil hindi mo kayang iwan ang karelasyon mo ay Mahal mo na.
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on April 07, 2013, 11:01:05 PM
hindi porket may iba na sya, hindi ka na nya mahal. may ibang dahilan kung bakit hindi kayo magkasama. at hindi dahil hindi mo kayang iwan ang karelasyon mo ay Mahal mo na.
tama po kung minahal ka niya dati at nagkahiwalay kayo ng landas

di po ibigsabihin na nawala na lahat yun pagmamahal niya sayo meron pero di lang gaya ng dati
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: Pogz Mendoza on April 07, 2013, 11:12:42 PM
babalikan ko un tanong ko...
Kung ikaw un nasa ganyan sitwasyon, na ngayon na realized mo kung gaano mo sya kamahal. ipaglalaban mo pa ba kahit may iba na syang karelasyon at hindi ka na nya ganun kamahal gaya ng dati?
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on April 07, 2013, 11:26:06 PM
babalikan ko un tanong ko...
Kung ikaw un nasa ganyan sitwasyon, na ngayon na realized mo kung gaano mo sya kamahal. ipaglalaban mo pa ba kahit may iba na syang karelasyon at hindi ka na nya ganun kamahal gaya ng dati?

then risk it all better doing something

than never did a thing, kung mahal mo talaga then pursue her/him malay mo maisip nya

na may puwang ka pa din sa puso niya, kung sabihin niya ok pero 3 party ka lang ok lang sige lang

kahit kabit ka lang basta makapiling mo siya, you can turn the lie into reality

it depends how you play your cards, lay it all no holds bared, then kung wala talaga

edi wala at least you wont regret something that you didn't try
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: Pogz Mendoza on April 07, 2013, 11:32:19 PM
Grabe ka pala talaga magmahal xxxchoholic rai. hindi kaya yan dahil sa hilig mo sa anime hehehe. sana lahat ng tao may ganyang tapang at lakas ng loob pagdating sa pag ibig. sana kagaya ka nya.
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on April 07, 2013, 11:59:22 PM
Grabe ka pala talaga magmahal xxxchoholic rai. hindi kaya yan dahil sa hilig mo sa anime hehehe. sana lahat ng tao may ganyang tapang at lakas ng loob pagdating sa pag ibig. sana kagaya ka nya.

alam ko naman po kaibahan ng anime sa realidad

sinasabi ko lang po ang tingin ko na pwede mong gawin rather than doing nothing

or chasing when the ship has already sailed, habang maaga gawaan mo na paraan

kasi pag nagtagal pa lalo lang lalalim ang ugnayan nila sa isat isa at dadating yun araw

na baka siya na lang ang nakikita niya at wala ka na magagawa doon

parang ang dali sabihin noh? oo mahirap gawin pero kung mahal mo at pursegido ka

bakit ka pa magdadalawang icip, parang susuko ka na kasi eh nagtatanong ka palang dito

do something 1st then try it harder!!
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: Hashishtemasu on April 08, 2013, 03:33:15 AM
No. If that person leaves the other for you, who's to say s/he won't leave you for another.

Also, do not do unto others...
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: fayt on April 08, 2013, 05:37:01 AM
hindi porket may iba na sya, hindi ka na nya mahal. may ibang dahilan kung bakit hindi kayo magkasama. at hindi dahil hindi mo kayang iwan ang karelasyon mo ay Mahal mo na.

Yeah you may right, hindi agad nawawala ang pagmamahal. Kahit ako pag nakikita ko ex ko, masasabi ko mahal ko pa rin sya. Pero kung nagkaroon na sya ng ibang relasyon at wala naman sila problema. It better to leave them. Kahit kasi mahal natin sila, di dapat maging selfish para sa ikakasaya natin. Kahit kasi mahal ka, iba na ang nagpapasaya sa kanya. Iba na yun tao nagbibigay ng pagmamahal na dati binibigay mo. Just accept that fact na hindi na ikaw parte ng buhay nya kahit nasasabi mo mahal ka pa rin nya.

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Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: fayt on April 08, 2013, 05:45:03 AM
then risk it all better doing something

than never did a thing, kung mahal mo talaga then pursue her/him malay mo maisip nya

na may puwang ka pa din sa puso niya, kung sabihin niya ok pero 3 party ka lang ok lang sige lang

kahit kabit ka lang basta makapiling mo siya, you can turn the lie into reality

it depends how you play your cards, lay it all no holds bared, then kung wala talaga

edi wala at least you wont regret something that you didn't try

An dali sabihin ang mga bagay na yan. Pero ang sakit na mabebear mo as 3rd party yun ang pinakamahirap. Yeah tama ka na its better to take th risk. Pero you have to think after effect na mga gagawin mo. Hindi naman basta gusto mo lang gawin, you can do it freely. It is unfair dun sa present kapartner nya na nagmamahal dun sa taong mahal mo. Kung sa inyo gawin yan, di ba kayo masasaktan? Kung nagfail ang relationship from the past, kasalanan na natin yun kung bakit nanyari yun at kasalanan natin yun na hindi kaagad natin nafix at the certain time. If your love, is inlove with someone else, even though may feelings pa rin sayo. As long as wala silanh problema let them be. Kung kayo talaga, God will find ways.

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Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: Prime™ on April 08, 2013, 05:47:56 AM
Careful though. The other person may not see it the way you do. Even if that person does love another, wouldn't that person be a cheater?

Maaring pwede manyari yung scenario na nabanggit. Pero minsan when we are passionate about things we tend to cloud our judgement and sense of reason.

What if we are the only ones who feel that way? Because we wanted it to be that way. What if we became delusional?

I suggest pag ganito situation, you move on unless you want to jeopardize your sanity. Very complicated and not worth the aggravation.
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: escape_artist on April 08, 2013, 05:48:38 AM
Dapat mo bang ipaglaban ang taong mahal na mahal mo kahit may iba na syang karelasyon? Bakit?

Ako hindi na kahit mahal ko pa rin cya. As mentioned may karelasyon na cya, bakit ko pa guguluhin. Ayoki rin namang gawin sa akin ng iba un. Kung sakaling dumating ang time na maging single or out of commitment, at kung mahal ko pa rin , thats the time na eeksena ako ^_^

Off topic: mod ret nakakarami kna ha :)
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: wanderpol on April 08, 2013, 07:23:47 AM
hindi.. dapat ka ng mag move on... hapi na siya.. bayaan mo siya..
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: ¿m☺ÿ on April 08, 2013, 02:34:55 PM
Ang sabi...."love is not selfish" if you really love a person and that person love somebody else then set that person free kasi if you really love that person you should be happy if that person is happy....so my answer is big "no".
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: serestro09 on April 08, 2013, 04:20:56 PM
"you should move on life must go on... with or without your love... mas mainam na love your self then pag ngawa mo na un then darating din ung pra sayo na sayong sayo lang hanggang pumuti na ang buhok nyo...
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: angbananas on April 08, 2013, 10:44:05 PM
hindi na. hindi ka din makapag move on
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: Pogz Mendoza on April 08, 2013, 10:45:20 PM
Ako hindi na kahit mahal ko pa rin cya. As mentioned may karelasyon na cya, bakit ko pa guguluhin. Ayoki rin namang gawin sa akin ng iba un. Kung sakaling dumating ang time na maging single or out of commitment, at kung mahal ko pa rin , thats the time na eeksena ako ^_^

Off topic: mod ret nakakarami kna ha :)

OT: inspirasyon kasi kita SM Escape.  :)

maraming salamat sa lahat ng nag reply, +karma...
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: monde8 on April 08, 2013, 10:45:51 PM
Its worth a try pero not up to the point na may pinaglalaban ka pero ayaw naman na pala niya na ipaglaban mo siya. A person must know when to quit.
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: kylun on April 11, 2013, 04:39:04 PM
hindi na..let go move on na lng..mkakalimutan mo rn xa... :( :( :(
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: Troll Montero on April 11, 2013, 05:37:48 PM
hindi na dapat kase may hangganan ang katangahan
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: Parabola on April 12, 2013, 12:44:18 AM
hindi na dapat, kasi kung mahal ka talaga ng girl eh ipaglalaban ka din niya.
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: mackdaddyjrc on April 12, 2013, 12:51:21 AM
hahaha. medyo bastusan pre >:(
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: dimple on April 12, 2013, 07:48:58 AM
Dapat mo bang ipaglaban ang taong mahal na mahal mo kahit may iba na syang karelasyon? Bakit?

Depende ano ba pagtingin nya sayo? ano ba status ng relationship nyo... ang masasabi ko lang ipaglaban mo ang relasyon kung pinaglalaban ka rin nya pero kung ikaw lang ang lumalaban eh sad to say it will not work out!
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: dre on April 12, 2013, 07:51:34 AM
huwag na maiksi lang ang buhay para sayangin sa ganyan...
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: dimple on April 12, 2013, 07:56:07 AM
then risk it all better doing something

than never did a thing, kung mahal mo talaga then pursue her/him malay mo maisip nya

na may puwang ka pa din sa puso niya, kung sabihin niya ok pero 3 party ka lang ok lang sige lang

kahit kabit ka lang basta makapiling mo siya, you can turn the lie into reality

it depends how you play your cards, lay it all no holds bared, then kung wala talaga

edi wala at least you wont regret something that you didn't try

Nice! sa lahat ng sagot mo eto ang the best mam Rai! I agree... mahirap yung may regret sa dulo... pag sumugal ka dapat malakas ang loob mo...
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: ANONYMOUS05141981 on April 12, 2013, 12:23:54 PM
Sugal ang pagmamahal. Pwede mag-work o pwede ring hindi. Pero mag-ever happen talaga marunong kang tumanggap kung hindi talga pwedeng kayo.
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: LokoLoko on April 12, 2013, 08:34:48 PM
mahalin, yes, but respeto naman sa present relationship niya.
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on April 12, 2013, 10:46:56 PM
its true sugal ang pag ibig nasayo kung paano mo ito pagyayamanin

well mas mabuting sumugal kesa magsisisi ka huli.. kelangan lang ang lakas ng loob

at logical na pag iisip tignan kung may chansa ka, siguraduhin mo ang estado niyo

baka naghahabol ka tapos wala rin pala
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: iamamorion17 on April 17, 2013, 11:28:08 AM
para saken hindi na..:)
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: billkulas on April 17, 2013, 12:56:20 PM
Mas ok kung kalimutan mo na sya. Hwag ka ng manggulo sa buhay na pinili nya, dun sya masaya.
May panahon at tamang tao din para sau. pilitin mong makarecover sa ngaun.
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: rhedzz on April 17, 2013, 10:26:21 PM
dapat? seryoso? sa telenovela lang ata nangyayare yon...
think...
kung saan ka masaya siguro "OO".
pero kung nararamdaman mo sa sarili mo na hindi na TAMA ang ginagawa o nangyayare sayo..
itigil mo nalang... kesa kung saan pa mapunta yung mga bagay na akala mo eh masaya ka talaga...
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: yannarose on June 20, 2013, 11:48:31 PM
Hindi na dapat ipagpatuloy pa un pagmamahal mo sa kanya dahil ikaw na rin may sabi na my karelasyon na xa..bkt dodoblehin mupa un hirap mo..
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: Cathrina on June 21, 2013, 12:04:51 AM
Yan ang sinasabing love is blind na kahit alam mong may iba siya mahal mo pa.ok naman ipaglaban mo ang sa tingin mo nararapat pero kung binaliwala nya yong mga ginagawa mo ay no chance na yon move on ka na lang hwag mo na pahirapan sarili mo..
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: dere'k ™ on June 21, 2013, 12:18:33 AM
kung mahal niya ako cguro ipaglalaban ko yan... pero kung ako lang ang nagmamahal, naku hahayaan ko, hindi na ako magiging sagabal sa kanila.... actually nangyari na sa akin yan before.... and i think. ginawa ko lang yung tama haha
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: yuel0022 on June 21, 2013, 07:27:22 PM
Dapat mo bang ipaglaban ang taong mahal na mahal mo kahit may iba na syang karelasyon? Bakit?

Naniniwala ako na kelangan mo ipaglaban ang taong mahal mo unless sinabi niya na huminto ka na
Title: Re: Dapat ba???
Post by: Blank on June 21, 2013, 08:05:27 PM
Dapat mo bang ipaglaban ang taong mahal na mahal mo kahit may iba na syang karelasyon? Bakit?

Is it worth fighting for???  You have to weigh if this person are valued enough to fight for your love. If she or he is, then fight for it. Try to show the pureness of your intentions and set the limit of your try.... The good thing here is you tried... Goodluck
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