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Title: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: powerboxx23 on September 10, 2017, 11:33:26 PM: so ito po ang kwento. nililigawan ko po siya cguro almost 11months na and meron ng mga iloveyou and iloveyoutoo. then may time na nagusap kami na bakit nga ba hindi pa nya ako sinasagot ganon. ang gusto nya daw muna maka graduate kami bago daw magkaroon ng label. ano po bang maipapayo nyo saakin? Maraming salamat
Title: Re: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: naruto789544 on September 11, 2017, 01:12:56 AM: hmmm... i'm reading within the lines sir... the mere fact that there were already i luv u exchanges means to say that you both have feelings with each other... that's good... with regards to the formal answer to your courtship, i think she just wanted to make sure that both your feelings stay within a boundary to make sure both of you complete your study first... that is a one in a million girl ts... keep her and take good care of her...
Title: Re: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: powerboxx23 on September 11, 2017, 01:32:02 AM: Nung sinabi nya yun sakin parang medyo syempre ang tagal pa halos 11months na nga ako nanliligaw maghihintay pa ulit ako ng ganun katagal and goodnews naman dun nextyear na kami gragraduate. but i cant wait na maging kami na lalo't feeling ko maraming mga umaaligid aligid dyan. pero kung may commitment na kami syempre ung iba dyan naman lalayo kasi alam nila may BF na. Meron akong tiwala sakanya pero syempre mahirap na.
Title: Re: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: Ravendelle on September 11, 2017, 06:55:58 AM: Quote from: powerboxx23 on September 11, 2017, 01:32:02 AM
Nung sinabi nya yun sakin parang medyo syempre ang tagal pa halos 11months na nga ako nanliligaw maghihintay pa ulit ako ng ganun katagal and goodnews naman dun nextyear na kami gragraduate. but i cant wait na maging kami na lalo't feeling ko maraming mga umaaligid aligid dyan. pero kung may commitment na kami syempre ung iba dyan naman lalayo kasi alam nila may BF na. Meron akong tiwala sakanya pero syempre mahirap na.

As a woman, i would suggest that if you really want to keep her, then do as you were told. Meaning, ayaw pa nya na maging totally kayo kasi nga nagaaral pa kayo. Kung talagang mahal mo cya, then you wait. You have waited long enough for 11 months, why not go for another year. Mahirap na pilitin mo cya na maging totally kayo kasi baka mamaya ma-pressure cya at mawala pa cya sa yo. Ikaw din...

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Title: Re: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: anino on September 11, 2017, 10:22:09 AM: Patience is the key, the love is there so be more patient and wait. Darating din kayo sa inaasahan mong relationship. Gusto lang niyang maka siguro na seryoso ka at hindi lang pagka babae niya ang habol mo, otherwise, be patient and be more understanding.
Title: Re: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: iam_me on September 11, 2017, 12:25:45 PM: ang mahalaga naman alam mong mahal ka nya, sundin mo na lang muna yung gusto nya :)
Title: Re: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: powerboxx23 on September 13, 2017, 10:21:16 PM: Salamat po sa lahat ng mga nag suggest and nag payo sakin. Much Appreciated :-* :-* :-*
Title: Re: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: naruto789544 on September 14, 2017, 01:12:59 AM: keep us posted ts... here's hoping for the big yes after your graduation... goodluck... :)
Title: Re: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: renaire33 on September 14, 2017, 11:16:57 PM: for your case TS, same tayo, ng hintay din ako after graduation, worth the wait if mahal mo talaga sya ng tunay, eto kami ngayon, 6yrs and counting :)
Title: Re: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: powerboxx23 on October 10, 2017, 02:15:45 AM: mga ka TS, kailangan ko ng tulong nyo ngaun.
So ganto na nga ang ngyare, namatay ang mama ng nililigawan ko and keep in check na madami silang problema like financial problem. bali kasi nag stop siya ng 1year kasi nga d kaya, So this november sana 2nd sem is makakapag aral na siya which is sabay na sana kami gragraduate and btw mas angat siya ng 1year sakin. So ganto ang nangyari baka daw di na siya makakpag aral this upcoming sem kasi nagastos niya sa hospital ung naipon niyang pera. So sabi okay lang naman, Then yung lamay ng mama nya okay pa naman kasi medyo madalang na nga lang mag usap kasi nga busy siya. After ilibing yung mama niya, after 2days di kami nagkakausap. like hindi siya nag rereply sa mga chat or text ko then suddenly right now nagkausap kami tapos parang ang cold cold niya sakin then tinanong ko kung may problema and here it comes the problem. sabi nya tigil na daw namin to, like that actually ito ung pinaka huli nyang text sakin "Last text ko na to. Sorry kung hindi ko maipaliwanag sayo ng maayos. Sana mapatawad mo ko. Thankyou sa lahat. Mamimiss kita. I hope u will find someone better than me. I mean yung hindi katulad ko. I love you but you deserve better. I want you to be happy kaya ko kelangan gawin to. Someday you will know.Goodbye" mga ka PT hirap na hirap ako ngayun ano ba dapat kong gawin? Please can someone help me @naruto789544 @Ravendelle @anino @iam_me

Sana matulungan nyo ako kung ano ba ang dapat kong gawin, should i give her space muna kasi nga kakamatay lng ng mama nya? Pleeaaseee.
Title: Re: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: naruto789544 on October 10, 2017, 02:47:12 AM: there are many possibilities sir... but i do suggest you give her some time for mourning and to recover from the depression she is in now... people tend to shy away in times of difficulties due to self pity and uncertainties of what the future will hold for them... stay at a safe distance for now and when the right time comes, talk with her again... goodluck...
Title: Re: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: iam_me on October 10, 2017, 10:34:53 AM: hi sir tama naman si sir naruto give mo lang sya ng time para maka pag mourn medyo mahirap yung pinagdadaanan nya paalam mo lang sa kanya na nandyan ka pa rin if need nya ng makakausap.... give mo muna yung space na gusto nya ..god bless bro :)
Title: Re: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: Ravendelle on October 10, 2017, 07:31:48 PM: In a woman’s point of view she needs time.madami marahil sya iniisip at madami pino-problema which is ayaw pa nya na sabihin sa yo or makabigatnsa yo.let her resolve things on her own.kung talagang kayo ang para sa isa’t isa,5 yrs,10 yrs man kayo na magkalayo,magiging kayo pa rin.wag mo na muna cya kulitin.give her space and time to fix herself and her life.irespeto mo gusto nya.masakit or nakakahinayang man,so be it.let her face it on her own.may pamilya cya na sinusuportahan din cya and at the moment,love life is not on her priority list nor in her mind.

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Title: Re: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: 5y5t3m_cr45h on October 11, 2017, 08:53:43 AM: in my own point of view kosang @powerboxx23 kailangan mong double effort or better yet triple the effort, yes give her space but keep her on a short leash. be her besh kung kaya mo at least it will remind her na di mo sya pababayaan in times of trouble that she can depend on you. wag mo lng sya e pressure. ika nga give without thinking of taking something back. yan if you do really care about her. >:D
Title: Re: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: jamesbond on November 04, 2017, 11:27:22 PM: inspite of it all eh mahal mo pa din ba sya?
hmmmm..... hanap ka din ng iba pa chief.... daming chicks dyan sa tabi tabi... mejo bomalabs ata ang relasyon nyo at parang di ka sineseryoso nung girl.... namatay lang ermats wala na agad? hmmm... walang bread para sa enrollment eh ganun agad? hiwalay? parang di ko makonek chief...

i'm starting to get the feeling that it's her own way of getting rid of you... paasa lang muna then ditched you off just like that... in a true sense of a relationship, saying goodbyes are not coursed through text especially when it comes to ending a relationship... buti sana kung friends lang kayo, eh hindi eh, sabi mo 'kayo' tapos ganun ganun lang ending agad? hmmmm.... she didn't even saved your friendship.... haaaaysss... so try to move on na chief... hang out with friends and start girl hunting again... goodluck...
Title: Re: Mahal ang isat isa pero walang label
Post by: naruto789544 on November 23, 2017, 12:11:04 AM: just wondering what happened with our ts already? hope he was able to get his answers already...