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Title: stupidest thing you did after a breakup?
Post by: maxpedition on March 02, 2016, 06:24:17 PM: got recently devastated a few months back and was going crazy being alone so i decided to unwind and go to the beach... a few days before my trip i met this girl online we chatted a few times and turns out she was heart broken as well. i wasn't looking for a rebound or anything and since it was online i asked her if she wanted to go unwind with me... we never met, i never asked how she looked like and neither did she ask me... kahit fb walang tanong tanong .. to my surprise sabi nya game daw... so i ended up picking her up sa bus station near the beach since we came from different directions.. when i saw her i was actually wishing that it was my x that i would be meeting and that she just made up that account to surprise me when we meet.... but that didnt happen.... so we carried on... stayed in one room and the first night i got wasted while pouring my heart out to this complete stranger... for a moment i got a sense of relief kasi i was getting actuall reactions from a person i don't know.. in fairness to her she was a good listener.. i also tried to listen to her rants about her x but she didn't had that much since she said that she is in the process of moving on and i was still in the process of figuring out what the hell was going on... long story short it was 3 days of mostly me ranting about my x and getting drunk...apparently during the night since we were staying in one room things happened....on the third day we said our good byes and parted ways...thanked her for the company and for listening and apologised for being annoying... now a few days later after i texted her and asked her whats up and we made conversation... told her na I'm gradually moving on like her but was still drinking to keep my x out of my mind... during the txt exchanges she was dropping for me not to feel sad and i could just be with her to help me forget... at first i took it as a joke since the whole time we were in the beach we would make fun by doing so.. then it hit me that maybe she was serious... i remember telling her before we parted ways when she was joking about us being together instead so we can move on together that i was not in a good place mentally and was not I'm my proper mind set and would not like to take advantage of her anymore...

the next day i texted her in the morning but never got a reply till i texted her again in the evening then she replied she was telling me that she was avoiding me because she assumed that what happened to us in our short getaway was something special so i apologised and told her it was but not the way she was expecting i thanked her again for the company and said sorry if i led her on.. well i also said sorry for the six since I'm assuming that was mostly the special bond that she was pertaining to.... now i feel really stupid and ashamed because i made her feel bad I'm still hurting about what happened to me and my x and feel extra stupid for dragging another person into my problems... sorry kung mahaba was just looking for an outlet... kayo share kayo ng experience nyo about stupid things you did after a breakup...
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Post by: shakiralala on March 03, 2016, 07:05:43 PM: me gagawin ko pa lang kasi ngayon ko lang na confirm na super napakasinungaling niya at asshole talaga! >:( >:(
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Post by: maxpedition on March 03, 2016, 11:31:48 PM: care to share mam? parang traumatic yang balak mo or ginawa sayo ah....
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Post by: therasmus on March 04, 2016, 03:49:09 PM: Sir Max.. hindi naman siguro yan "stupid", lalaki ka naman tapos okay naman sa babae na sumama sayo kahit na alam nyang hindi ka nya talaga kilala. As long naman maliwanag sa kanya na you're in the stage of moving-on, alam naman nya siguro yung consequences na maaari pa kayong magkabalikan ng ex mo. Meron naman kase syang option kung papayag sya o hindi pagdating sa ganun bagay. Diba?

Pero ang sarap siguro ng ganun ano? Yung meron sayong nakikinig habang nilalabas mo lahat ng lungkot ng puso mo at disappointments. Tapos may premyo kapa.. Hehehehe!
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Post by: naruto789544 on May 03, 2016, 11:43:21 PM: i feel you ts... sadly, you shouldn't have involved someone who's also in a period of moving on... though i don't blame you totally since as mentioned, she knows the consequences if ever in going with you...
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Post by: Heathcliff on May 05, 2016, 05:21:44 PM: given that both of you are emotionally devastated with what happend with your relationships, pwede naman talaga magpakalasing at magpakalunod sa sama ng loob, pero bakit naman kailangan may mangyari agad?

ganun na ba agad kabilis magpalit? kahit ba pisikal lang yun, may implikasyon yun sa bawat isa sa inyo, hayan na nga consequence ngayon.

both of you chose the wrong thing to do. You chose to numb your pain with something that you thought could pacify your distress but actually, it just triggered yet another problem: dealing with shame and self guilt.

stupid? desperate. i would say.

. . . sometimes when we are too desperate to find something to ease our pain, nakakalimutan natin na bawat gagawin natin ay may consequence. Dealing with a failed relationship is tough, but you have to accept it, pain, frustration...resentment., everything...it would be painful as hell but as soon as you deal with it , the better...lahat naman sa mundong ito temporary...same goes with heartache.

dont be stupid as to avoid the pain...deal with it and get done with it.

...and that too, like all other loves that comes to an end....shall pass away.

Goodluck sa Heartache mo. :peace:
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Post by: Prime™ on May 15, 2016, 07:56:56 PM: Quote from: shakiralala on March 03, 2016, 07:05:43 PM
me gagawin ko pa lang kasi ngayon ko lang na confirm na super napakasinungaling niya at asshole talaga! >:( >:(

Bwahaha ayan binigyan kita ng like. Pakan m na.

OT: hmm la naman. 4 days after the break up I was seeing 4 chicks.. Oops. ;)
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Post by: BlackmagiC on May 21, 2016, 11:25:35 AM: ahmmmm ako parang wala eh kasi ung mga x ko wala kaming proper closure na maghiwalay na bigla lang mawala walang txt parang ganun.minsa ako rin mangiwan ako rin mawala e mas okey ung ganun ky sa mag hiwala kayo sa personal e masakit un e mas okey ung walang txt walang paramdam tapus makalimutang mo na sya.tapus hanap ka nang bago.ung ang ginawa ko ung x ko hindi na nagpa ramdam sakin.tapus ako rin eh hanapa agad nang kapalit eh un naka naka hanap ako ng mali.kahit diko love un kumapit ako sa babaeng un tapus nabuntis ko sya wala eh.kala ko pwedi ma turoan ang puso di pala.meron ba ditong teacher ng pag ibig hehehe
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Post by: paulei16_3 on May 23, 2016, 09:26:01 AM: nag-asawa ako!
yes.
hindi pa ako nakapagmove one, tapos dumating siya... he cared for me... fixed my broken heart... namanhikan... hayun, asawa ko na.

pero ngayon ko narealize.. mali pla.
nagmadali ako.
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Post by: Bummergurl on July 13, 2016, 10:13:46 PM: Nilibre ko siya ng trip ✈️ Wala kasi ako kasama e.😜
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Post by: Brokenheartedgirl on July 17, 2016, 01:25:27 AM: Mag start palang akong gawin lahat ng iniisip nya sa kin nun kami p.. now totohanin ko na.. ganun naman iniisip nya sa kin palagi ::) sana masaya na sya..
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Post by: GoodnightGuy on July 17, 2016, 01:53:28 AM: Quote from: Brokenheartedgirl on July 17, 2016, 01:25:27 AM
Mag start palang akong gawin lahat ng iniisip nya sa kin nun kami p.. now totohanin ko na.. ganun naman iniisip nya sa kin palagi ::) sana masaya na sya..

awww... ano yung mga itotohanan mo na ma'am? care to elaborate?
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Post by: Brokenheartedgirl on July 17, 2016, 02:30:28 AM: Quote from: GoodnightGuy on July 17, 2016, 01:53:28 AM
awww... ano yung mga itotohanan mo na ma'am? care to elaborate?

Mkipg chat.. mkipg meet.. and to play dirty.. un iniisip nya totohanin ko n.. :brucelee1:
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Post by: GoodnightGuy on July 17, 2016, 03:44:45 AM: Quote from: Brokenheartedgirl on July 17, 2016, 02:30:28 AM
Mkipg chat.. mkipg meet.. and to play dirty.. un iniisip nya totohanin ko n.. :brucelee1:

i understand... galit galit na ba? bahala sya sa buhay nya? :P
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Post by: Brokenheartedgirl on July 17, 2016, 12:49:15 PM: Quote from: GoodnightGuy on July 17, 2016, 03:44:45 AM
i understand... galit galit na ba? bahala sya sa buhay nya? :P

Yup wala na kami pero mahal ko pa fin wahhhh ::) hirap ::) ::) ::)
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Post by: GoodnightGuy on July 17, 2016, 10:11:08 PM: Quote from: Brokenheartedgirl on July 17, 2016, 12:49:15 PM
Yup wala na kami pero mahal ko pa fin wahhhh ::) hirap ::) ::) ::)

it's always like that ma'am. mahirap talaga lalo na if hindi ikaw nag nag-initiate ng breakup. kelangan mo lang ma-replace with something or someone para ma-alleviate ang pagkamiss at tuluyang makalimutan na.
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Post by: Brokenheartedgirl on July 17, 2016, 10:24:50 PM: Quote from: GoodnightGuy on July 17, 2016, 10:11:08 PM
it's always like that ma'am. mahirap talaga lalo na if hindi ikaw nag nag-initiate ng breakup. kelangan mo lang ma-replace with something or someone para ma-alleviate ang pagkamiss at tuluyang makalimutan na.

Korek.. i just keep myself busy with things to do but everytym i pause i still think of him.. :uwa: hirap naman..
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Post by: unsoy on July 26, 2016, 07:38:39 PM: Quote from: Brokenheartedgirl on July 17, 2016, 10:24:50 PM
Korek.. i just keep myself busy with things to do but everytym i pause i still think of him.. :uwa: hirap naman..
Oo nga mam dapat keep in touch with friends din para ma divert attention mo

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Post by: -kobe- on September 02, 2016, 10:22:15 PM: ako simplea at mabait akong gumanti eh

yayain ko xa makipagdate dinner or lunch whatever..oorder ako kahit anung special kahit sobrang mahal para sa kanya..at siempre para sakin mahal din.. tas mag excuse ako na mag toilet..
di ko na babalikan.. bahala xa sa bills ;-)
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Post by: remediate on September 16, 2016, 03:52:22 AM: drunk call my ex

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Post by: multo on June 12, 2017, 03:56:44 PM: the most stupid things that i did was nagpakalbo ako tapos narealize ko na pangit na nga ako mas pumangit pa ako lalo haha
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Post by: jamoy on June 17, 2017, 01:52:51 AM: ^ hahaha while yung mga girls nagpapaganda after ng break up, tayong mga boys nagpapakamiserable....

stupid thing i did?? we had s_x, right after we broke up.

days later we are together again.... then we broke up, then had you know what after....

then get back together again....

it went on a cycle for a few weeks...then we just stopped and broke up for good... :hilo: :hilo: :hilo:
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Post by: ch33s3cak3_2k on June 21, 2017, 08:36:04 PM: Nagstalk ako sa ex ko thru internet. It started out when I got bored one day and thought of googling his name up. Lo and behold! I did not expect to find a chest full of nakakadiring mga revelations. :brucelee1:
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Post by: karaso on July 26, 2017, 09:29:54 PM: Quote from: paulei16_3 on May 23, 2016, 09:26:01 AM
nag-asawa ako!
yes.
hindi pa ako nakapagmove one, tapos dumating siya... he cared for me... fixed my broken heart... namanhikan... hayun, asawa ko na.

pero ngayon ko narealize.. mali pla.
nagmadali ako.

care to share the details? curious lng me ano po basehan na mali po itong napili nyong asawa mam? if he cared for you...fixed your broken heart how come "MALI" po. did he change to worse? or you still love your ex?
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Post by: appleblossomgirl on August 09, 2017, 12:29:19 PM: nagmakaawa akong balikan nya ko. hahaha!
bumalik nmn which is pinagsisihan ko,. sana hindi nlng . kasi hihiwalayan ko rin xa dahil di nmn xa nagbabago
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Post by: jamoy on August 17, 2017, 12:16:34 AM: Quote from: appleblossomgirl on August 09, 2017, 12:29:19 PM
nagmakaawa akong balikan nya ko. hahaha!
bumalik nmn which is pinagsisihan ko,. sana hindi nlng . kasi hihiwalayan ko rin xa dahil di nmn xa nagbabago

Aww...sad for you girl... kaya nga sabi nila paf ex, ex na dapat...hahaha
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Post by: ladyvirus01 on August 17, 2017, 12:42:20 AM: Dapat hindi ko na kinakausap at pinag aaksayahan ng oras at pansin that's my stupid things i did

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Post by: Sapphire18 on August 24, 2017, 03:13:32 AM: Kasalanan ko e
Maghahabol ako
Babalewalain ako
Magsasawa ako xa naman maghahabol hihi

Nashline30
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Post by: naruto789544 on March 21, 2018, 03:29:07 AM: just recently broke up... and asked her if she's alright... i was too insensitive that time...
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Post by: magbubukid on March 21, 2018, 02:19:50 PM: I jumped into another relationship. It didn't work out. ;D
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Post by: iam_me on March 21, 2018, 03:20:52 PM: Quote from: magbubukid on March 21, 2018, 02:19:50 PM
I jumped into another relationship. It didn't work out. ;D

sino yan biyef parang di mo ko na inform tungkol dyan ha :D :D :D :D
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Post by: magbubukid on March 21, 2018, 03:28:32 PM: Quote from: iam_me on March 21, 2018, 03:20:52 PM
sino yan biyef parang di mo ko na inform tungkol dyan ha :D :D :D :D
Wushuuu kunwari ka pa giyef, alam na alam mo naman kung sino yun. C:-)
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Post by: iam_me on March 21, 2018, 04:15:59 PM: Quote from: magbubukid on March 21, 2018, 03:28:32 PM
Wushuuu kunwari ka pa giyef, alam na alam mo naman kung sino yun. C:-)

naku biyef wala akong kamuwang muwang sa ganyang usapin wag mo ko paratangan :)) :)) :)) sino yan biyef :)) :)) :))
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Post by: glen1234s on March 22, 2018, 11:23:47 AM: Nung nagbreak kami ng ex ko.... kasi barkadahan.. I had six regularly with her younger sis and best friend :) nung nalaman niya nakipagbalikan siya. So nagbalikan kami pero di nagtagal dahil di ko na rin naman tinigil ang six with her sis and best friend :(. Ayoko kasi pagbintangan na hindi loyal kaya pinangatawanan ko na sa kanya na hindi ako loyal :)... aws... in the end nahinto din lahat kasi tinanggap ko offer to work abroad ...
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Post by: rhian on March 22, 2018, 06:58:27 PM: I got drunk totally wasted and ending up waking in a different house. :-[
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Post by: karlkutu on March 22, 2018, 06:58:56 PM: fall her sister.

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Post by: Cathrina on April 21, 2018, 08:24:12 AM: The stupid thing i did after break up was i traded in my cellphone and changed number and before i trade my cellphone i deleted everything then threw my sim card away,so may bago na ako phone and new sim card but then i realized i forgot to save all the contacts sa old sim nadala ako sa emotion kasi ayoko nang maka reciv ng txt or call sa kanya nakalimutan ko ang power ng block button >:D ;D buti nalang may facebook at dun ko nakuha mga number ng family and friends ko ..
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Post by: moodie_ako on May 01, 2018, 02:00:43 PM: umiyak ng umiyak feeling ko di nya deserve ang luha ko,oo bitter ako napakawalang kwenta kasi nyang lalake di na nga sya gwapo napakababaero pa tanginis!
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Post by: SandPits on May 23, 2018, 05:58:49 PM: Naging desperate to win her back...which didn't work. so followed steps ng "The Magic of Making Up" by TW Jackson. 1. Understand 2. Get Head Straight 3. Assess 4. Work the Plan. Took me six (6) months to get my partner back pero sulit kasi hanggang ngaun, kami pa rin. We'll celebrate our 11th year next month
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Post by: jogradnapogi on May 24, 2018, 03:48:44 PM: muntikan ko ng barilin yung ipinalit sa akin ng ex ko, ayy mali, inagaw pala sa akin. well, kasalanan ko din, nawalan ako ng time sa kanya dahil nagkaron ako ng iba. Buti diko tinuloy baka napatay ko yung lalaki kung sakali. Now looking back, natatawa nalang ako sa mga binalak ko nun.
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Post by: kuneho on June 29, 2018, 12:26:36 AM: Naalala ko lang ng nag break up kami ng EX ko, sobrang sakit 7 years kaming magkasama. Halos araw araw na ginawa ng panginoon lasing ako , at ang matindi nakipag rambol sa grupo ng mga koreano sa isang bar. Muntik ng makulong, salamat nalang at may mga connections ang family kaya nagawan ng paraan kahit nsa police station palang.
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Post by: chronoone5 on July 01, 2018, 05:45:23 AM: Most stupid thing ive done .. stalk .. pumupunta mo sa lugar kng saan alam ko n nsan sya .. titingin sa malayo .. ung prng my gusto ka bilhin pero alam mong hindi mo kyang bilhin .. masaya k na na nakita mo sya .. natatawa nlng ako pg naalala ko ngun.
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Post by: antipatiko19 on November 28, 2018, 09:10:25 PM: yosi, alak, mary jane, stalk hi hi hi. at babae pa din ang sagot :)
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Post by: yrk0ugm on July 28, 2019, 11:04:25 PM: Nagyosi uli ako. Pero after isang taon huminto uli ako hehe
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Post by: jan22 on August 03, 2019, 12:37:01 PM: ako nun nag bike mga 100+ km din pampawala ng stress