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Title: falling in love with a friend
Post by: EHGoods on February 18, 2016, 01:58:49 PM
i have a question. what if you've fallen in love with your friend? Should you confess, or keep it to yourself for the sake of your friendship?  :hilo:
Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: Primeā„¢ on February 18, 2016, 06:21:52 PM
Probably not a good idea not unless she also gave you some sort of hint that she wants to be more than platonic with you.

If she didn't like you that way, you run the risk of weirding her out and making your interactions with her awkward.

Kung okay lang sayo to lose this friend, then go for it. If staying with her as a friend would drive you crazy then I suppose tell her then para tapos na.

If hindi naman and you value your friendship more than the thought of pursuing a relationship with her then ibaling mo nalang sa iba.

If you're going to ask me what I would have done if I was in that situation, I'd probably risk the friendship and go for gold. Kung ayaw nya edi ayaw ko din siyang friend.. Hehehe...

I'm a Scorpio either oo o hinde. No in-betweens.
Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: naruto789544 on February 22, 2016, 11:38:59 PM
i'd also go for it... feelings have a natural way of showing itself... no matter how hard you try to conceal it, what you feel for her would eventually come out... who knows, she might also have the same feeling for you...
Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: therasmus on February 23, 2016, 11:25:19 PM
For me walang problema yun... Minsan kase nararamdaman mo rin kung nagspaspark ba kayong dalawa beyond sa pagiging magkaibigan nyong dalawa. Like doing what most couple do.. hindi yung HHWW with kiss, yung pagaalaga nyo sa isa't-isa at pag-aalala. From there masasabi mong pwede mong ipagtapat yung tunay mong nararamdaman.
Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: EHGoods on February 24, 2016, 11:44:49 AM
sometimes may mga gestures siya na kakaiba. like nung hinatid ko siya one time, iba yung tingin niya. iba yung tingin niya pag kasama namin ibang friends namin and pag kami lang. pero baka assuming lang din ako. :(
Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: therasmus on February 24, 2016, 03:52:54 PM
^ May signs na pala eh.. Dahan dahanin mo.. Yung tipong sweet, tapos magiging sweeter. Hehehe! Wala naman mawawala eh, wag mo lang ihohokage ah? Hehehehe!
Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: EHGoods on February 26, 2016, 01:03:51 PM
^ May signs na pala eh.. Dahan dahanin mo.. Yung tipong sweet, tapos magiging sweeter. Hehehe! Wala naman mawawala eh, wag mo lang ihohokage ah? Hehehehe!

Hahhaa! hindi ah! kaso kapag nagpaparamdam ako, wala eh! parang umiiwas naman. tatawanan lang ako.  :))
Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: Blackdog on February 27, 2016, 02:09:34 PM
Ang lalaki kasi kahit na alam na merong pagtingin ang kaibigan niyang babae hindi basta basta magpaparamdam or aatake kasi  iniisip din namin kung papano ganon lang talaga siya na minsan espesyal ang pinapakita takot kami na baka mali yung iniisip namin at masira yung pagkakaibigan hihintayin namin na yung kaibigang babae mismo ang mag confess or yung halatang halata na siya.

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Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: ladyvirus01 on February 27, 2016, 03:59:46 PM

Ang lalaki kasi kahit na alam na merong pagtingin ang kaibigan niyang babae hindi basta basta magpaparamdam or aatake kasi  iniisip din namin kung papano ganon lang talaga siya na minsan espesyal ang pinapakita takot kami na baka mali yung iniisip namin at masira yung pagkakaibigan hihintayin namin na yung kaibigang babae mismo ang mag confess or yung halatang halata na siya.

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Wow very well said BD hmm your back na talaga and comment pa more na miss ko mga advices mo bd


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Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: Blackdog on February 27, 2016, 09:12:37 PM
Falling in love with a friend, tulad niyan hindi ako mag coconfess kay Dra habang hindi siya nag coconfess or nagpapahalata na na huhulog siya sa akin hahaha :))

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Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: ladyvirus01 on February 27, 2016, 09:17:39 PM

Falling in love with a friend, tulad niyan hindi ako mag coconfess kay Dra habang hindi siya nag coconfess or nagpapahalata na na huhulog siya sa akin hahaha :))

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OT haha  there you are! Yan si bd kong bumanat, yan ang isa sa mga ninja


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Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: Blackdog on February 27, 2016, 09:22:41 PM
Ako din OT kaya lang walang dagdag bayad hahaha

Ninja? 48 yeara nga pala akong nawala kaya hindi kona alam ang ibang term dito hehehe
Nope seryus back to topic
Ang mga lalaki kasi mas pinahahalagaan nila yung friendship kung ma fall man sila sa kaibigang babae hindi hindi nila ito ipapahala or aaminin habang hindi sila bukong buko or hindi nila ma 101% sure na same feelings, in short takot kaming masira  or mag iba ang pagtingin sa amin ng mga kaibigan babae.

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Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: ladyvirus01 on February 27, 2016, 09:44:16 PM
Yes its true hirap masira ang pagkakaibigan nio lalo nat super close na kau pero nevertheless mabuti naman kong ang kaibigan mo na ito ay hwg na magsabi hihi dahil masisira lang friendship dahil mababagi na ito
Hahaaha gulo ata sinabi ko dahil pati ako hindi ko maintindihan sinasabi ko


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Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: Blackdog on February 27, 2016, 10:01:22 PM
Yes its true hirap masira ang pagkakaibigan nio lalo nat super close na kau pero nevertheless mabuti naman kong ang kaibigan mo na ito ay hwg na magsabi hihi dahil masisira lang friendship dahil mababagi na ito
Hahaaha gulo ata sinabi ko dahil pati ako hindi ko maintindihan sinasabi ko


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Ang gulo mo Dra hahahaha
Ang sabi nga ng nag post ay meron din siya pagtingin sa kaibigan niyang lalake at nagpaparamdam na yung babae pero manhid yung kaibigan niya tapos aadvice ka na huwag ng mag confess yung lalaki, baka sasabunutan ka nung nag post  :))

Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: ladyvirus01 on February 27, 2016, 10:09:18 PM

Ang gulo mo Dra hahahaha
Ang sabi nga ng nag post ay meron din siya pagtingin sa kaibigan niyang lalake at nagpaparamdam na yung babae pero manhid yung kaibigan niya tapos aadvice ka na huwag ng mag confess yung lalaki, baka sasabunutan ka nung nag post  :))

Haha kaya nga nagulohan ako sa sinabi ko bd, well as gurl hihi babae nga ba ako? Nyeahh kiddng aside mas ok namn na magsabi siya na may nararamdaman na siya sa babae at ganun din ang babae, sometimes ng aassume lang tau same ang feeling niya eh paano kong close lang talaga siya dahil kaibigan nga db? Im talking to my own experienced "akala" niya may pagtingin ako sa knya but its only a close close friend nothing else
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Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: Blackdog on February 28, 2016, 06:30:06 AM
Haha kaya nga nagulohan ako sa sinabi ko bd, well as gurl hihi babae nga ba ako? Nyeahh kiddng aside mas ok namn na magsabi siya na may nararamdaman na siya sa babae at ganun din ang babae, sometimes ng aassume lang tau same ang feeling niya eh paano kong close lang talaga siya dahil kaibigan nga db? Im talking to my own experienced "akala" niya may pagtingin ako sa knya but its only a close close friend nothing else
Hihi sana hindi na magulo comment ko


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OT parang kilala ko yata iyan Dra hahaha :))

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Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: ladyvirus01 on February 28, 2016, 07:13:18 AM

OT parang kilala ko yata iyan Dra hahaha :))

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Hahaha don't tell me kilala mo siya?! Hmmm name drop pls


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Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: Blackdog on February 28, 2016, 08:55:05 AM
Nope akala ko ako yun hahahaha
Lagi kita kasi pinipikon dati na meron ka pagnanasa sa akin hahhaha :))

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Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: maxpedition on March 02, 2016, 06:37:22 PM
go for it... at the end of the day if you end up loosing her as a friend if things don't work out then maybe your not really that good at being friends either...
Title: falling in love with a friend
Post by: ladyvirus01 on March 02, 2016, 10:12:04 PM
Nope akala ko ako yun hahahaha
Lagi kita kasi pinipikon dati na meron ka pagnanasa sa akin hahhaha :))

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Hahaha assuming huh, marami naman dati "akala" niya porke kinakausap mo na eh may pagtingin ka rin sa kausap mo....
Sa pagkukulit mo naman skn eh hindi ko binibigyan ng malisya beside hindi ako pumapatol sa doggie hahaha just kiddn hindi naman ako pikon noh


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Title: Re: falling in love with a friend
Post by: jamesbond on March 13, 2016, 04:01:40 PM
i have a question. what if you've fallen in love with your friend? Should you confess, or keep it to yourself for the sake of your friendship?  :hilo:

:-\ nothing bad about falling in love with your friend... it's normal... should you confess? well if its the right time i guess... you must have loved her company that is why you feel her that much... just go on with the relationship...
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