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Tambayan ng mga Chicx at Tsonx => General Discussion => Topic started by: lovemarie on June 25, 2015, 07:13:20 AM
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"Why We Shout In Anger"
A Hindu saint who was visiting rive Ganges to take a bath found a group of family member on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his disciples smiled and asked.
"Why do people in anger shout at each other?"
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout.'
'But why should you shout when the other person is next to you? You can as well tell him what you want to say in a soft manner.' asked the saint.
Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the other disciples. Finally the saint explained.
'When two people are angry at each other, their heart distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the louder they have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.
What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either non existent or very small...'
The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'
He looked at his disciples and said.
'So when you argue, do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, or else there will come a time when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.'
*credit to the source
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very well said... when i am angered, i seldom shout. rather, i keep silent because when a person is angry, he says things unworthy of listening. only poison keeps coming out of his tongue.
so i try to calm myself first before i speak my mind out. i also avoid saying shit words...
how about you?
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:-\ wow... ang ganda ng paliwanag ng saint na yun... i think i'll browse this share of yours TS using my iPhone and have it screenshot so i can keep it always closer to my heart and whenever someone comes to me for some advice i'll let her/him read it... ang ganda... +like po ito...
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"very well said... so it is really true that anger blinds the person and peace is the only way for that person to be able to see again..."
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same here, i am usually quiet when i am angry and when i can't handle it anymore i just cry so that i can vent all my emotions...from there i can be more objective so i won't say harsh words to my love ones...
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nasigaw ako kapag galit, kapag nagulat, at kapag nasasarapan hehehe...
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nasigaw ako kapag galit, kapag nagulat, at kapag nasasarapan hehehe...
geh nga ano sigaw mo kapag galit? gulat? nasasarapan? sure ako malaki pagkakaiba nyan hehehe...
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Ako tahimik na lang ako kapag galit. Hinga lang ng malalim mga three times sabay alis okay na ako. Katwiran ko kase huwag lang nilang sagarin ako. Sumisigaw ako kapag malayo kausap ko. :book1: :think:
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Ako tahimik na lang ako kapag galit. Hinga lang ng malalim mga three times sabay alis okay na ako. Katwiran ko kase huwag lang nilang sagarin ako. Sumisigaw ako kapag malayo kausap ko. :book1: :think:
Apir sir shane! ganyan di ako eh. . .
ako naman sumisigaw kapag bingi ang kausap hahahaha. . . .
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:think: nakikinig naman ako ah... di naman ako bingi... hmmm.... hahahahaha.... +like syo mam...
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:think: nakikinig naman ako ah... di naman ako bingi... hmmm.... hahahahaha.... +like syo mam...
aba aba kelan ba kita sinigawan hahaha . . . i am so nice ah :-X
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i tend to be quiet when i'm mad. basta hindi ako hot-tempered :)
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i tend to be quiet when i'm mad. basta hindi ako hot-tempered :)
It's good when we know how to control our emotions especially when we are mad. We tend to say things and do things that we are not supposed to be doing and in the end we hurt others.
Thanks for droppin'
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nope..di ako sumisigaw pag galit, pero makikita mo sa mukha ko na dismiyado ako. Napapasigaw lng ako mag may umutot sa tabi ko.. :))
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Nyaha! yun pala nakakapagpasigaw kay sir :)) :)) :)) :))
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mahaba ang pasensiya ko pero kapag naman naabuso na napapataas ang boses at napapasigaw gawa na rin cguro na hypertensive na rin ako. pero sa post ni TS naliwanagan ako. ganun pala yun + like sa yo mam marie. ??? salamat sa share mo.
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Sumisigaw ako pag galit pero dipende sa place at mga tao na kaharap ko. Dapat ilugar din ang rage natin.
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Di na ako sumisigaw kasi may resting bitch face ako. Medyo takot na kasi ang mga tao. Pinipisil ko nalang sarili ko
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Di naman ako nasigaw. Pero nataas lang ang boses. Noon yun pero ngayon di na. Hayaan ko nalang. :brucelee1:
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Basta sinisigurado ko na ako lang ang tao sa lugar.
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Pag sobrang galit napapataas ng boses pero ndi naman to the point na sumisigaw talaga. Nakokontrol ko pa naman hehe.
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Syempre naman sisigaw, kung minsan may kasama pang mura na katakot takot . Mas mabuti na yang nailalabas kaysa kusa nalang bumagsak sa sama ng loob.
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Ganda naman ng explanation :)
Hndi naman ako sumisigaw... tumatahimik nlng at naiiyak sa galit....
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Sumisigaw nalang ako kapag galit ako dahil ayaw kong pagbuhatan ng kamay ang kung sino man ang nakapag pagalit sakin specially ang mga taong mahal mo sa buhay na gusto lang naman ay mapabuti ka ngunit ako lang ang pasaway. hehe
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Just to let go at para e exhaust yong galit . yon din ang paraan para hindi ka mapuno at sumabog sa sobramg galit.
"PEACE"
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halos lahat naman ng tao sumisigaw pag galit.. maliban nlg talaga sa tao na walang pakiramdam. heheh