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Tambayan ng mga Chicx at Tsonx => General Discussion => Topic started by: Tonying Bayawak on January 10, 2014, 02:13:29 AM
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Any experience of this? Either professional/school, personal, internet, or family (kung meron man)? Problema na nakukuha dahil attractive ka?
What do you feel? Do you feel, awkward/embarassed? Or do you feel proud? How did it end up? Or how are you planning to solve it? Somehow, pakiramdam mo ba na hindi blessing ang appeal na binigay sayo? Share!
Examples:
-Ikaw ang tagahingi lagi ng number ng friend ko para mas mataas ang odds na magbigay yung girl/boy ng number.
-Yung nililigawan ng friend mo, sayo nagkakagusto.
-Pagpunta sa mall, parang Poong Nazareno ang dami ng lumapit na guys/girls.
-Nagkagusto sa'yo ang gf/bf ni utol mo.
-Papalit-palit ka ng number dahil sa dami ng taong nagtetext sayo (usually hindi kilala) para manligaw.
-Kapag may lakad kasama ang 3+ mong kaibigan, ikaw lagi pinapansin ng marami.
-Alam na sa trabaho na may asawa ka, may nagflir-flirt pa rin.
-Nagconfess ang isa mong friend that he/she likes you, pero hanggang friends lang tingin mo.
Share your story, walang makapal ang mukha dito. Basta totoo!
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Hahaha natawa ako doon sa "poong nazareno" part..
I don't know if I should say I'm good looking or not, it's always the cliche of its up to the beholder. I look alright, I guess. I've always been comfortable with the way I look so that was never an issue.
Pero I remember nannanyari more than once na hung nililigawan ng mga kaibigan ko, sakin pala interested.
How it made me feel? I hated it. I felt like a jerk through no fault of my own. I care about my friendships and I take them seriously kaya it was awkward as hell specially if it happened a few more times. You feel kinda guilty about something you didn't do.
I mean sure, it's kinda flattering, pero if it happens more than once, some of your friends look at you funny and somehow they think you must be doing something to warrant this. Hayy.
Anyway I'm sure others have better stories, for you. Mine is pretty ordinary and nagkataon lang. I never pursued any of them though, even if some of them medyo gusto ko din, pero like I've said, I take my friendships seriously. I guess it's a Scorpio thing? All that friendship loyalty shebang.
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Hahaha natawa ako doon sa "poong nazareno" part..
I don't know if I should say I'm good looking or not, it's always the cliche of its up to the beholder. I look alright, I guess. I've always been comfortable with the way I look so that was never an issue.
Pero I remember nannanyari more than once na hung nililigawan ng mga kaibigan ko, sakin pala interested.
How it made me feel? I hated it. I felt like a jerk through no fault of my own. I care about my friendships and I take them seriously kaya it was awkward as hell specially if it happened a few more times. You feel kinda guilty about something you didn't do.
I mean sure, it's kinda flattering, pero if it happens more than once, some of your friends look at you funny and somehow they think you must be doing something to warrant this. Hayy.
Anyway I'm sure others have better stories, for you. Mine is pretty ordinary and nagkataon lang. I never pursued any of them though, even if some of them medyo gusto ko din, pero like I've said, I take my friendships seriously. I guess it's a Scorpio thing? All that friendship loyalty shebang.
Nice share sir, so how do you deal kapag umamin na sa inyo yung girl? Do you tell her the truth you don't like her or do you leave the topic hanging (parang magets nalang niya sa actions mo)?
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Nice share sir, so how do you deal kapag umamin na sa inyo yung girl? Do you tell her the truth you don't like her or do you leave the topic hanging (parang magets nalang niya sa actions mo)?
I just don't let anything happen. I just say "just go out with so and so, he's a great guy etc etc". Nilalakad ko pa; Sometimes I just ignore, and let it be.
One girl in particular is still pissed off at me to this day cause I never really gave us a chance to start a relationship cause I didn't want to hurt a friend who was crazy about her.
She knew the feeling was mutual and I liked her too, but the guy was my best friend, what can I do?
Another girl gave me an offer incredibly hard to refuse, but I declined, one friend was courting her too. Kabarkada ko. So... Yeah.. That was awkward.
So I did what any gentleman would do, I went for her cute sister instead who was also studying at the same school.
Yeah I know.. Jerk behavior.. I was not the nicest guy in the world at the time. But at least walang sabit. I still got to satisfy my twisted sense of honor, at the cost of almost driving that girl insane with anger. I still remember the evil eye she gave me nung graduation... Sheesh.. It almost burned a hole through my back.
She was hot as hell btw, she's taken up modeling last time I've heard. A total knockout. I still speak highly of her whenever she's brought up by old friends in our conversations. I can only say good things. At least I owe her that.
Anyway, c'est la vie mate. We all have our fair share of unfair ineffable behaviors.
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I bet you guys are so good looking it's stressing you out. Gee whiz, what am I gonna do with this handsome face?