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Tambayan ng mga Chicx at Tsonx => General Discussion => Love & Relationship => Topic started by: somebody on December 02, 2013, 11:32:10 PM
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Moving on seems so easy to say but definitely so hard to do...
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I used to think about you when the spirit of alcohol is in my system but just this night my tears fell and I’m thinking that you are the pillow I am hugging with. That you were sleeping beside me. Pathetic isn’t it?
Why just I can’t let go of you? Why do the memories still flashing in my head? I thought I’ve already moved on, but I just lied because all these time, it’s always been you Daryl. You are still the one I’m thinking and dreaming , that you are the one who would patiently waiting for me in the altar. But it seems like it will only happen in my imagination. We are million million miles away now.
If only I could turn back the time, I wish I had the courage to tell you how much you mean to me but I’m just a lousy coward and I just kept it. Until the time that I decided to work faraway from here because I thought it is the best way to forget about you. But as time goes by, no one replace you in my heart. I always think about you when I got drunk then I cried, asking god why it should be you? Why can’t I forget about you? Why do I need to torture myself? How can I love someone if you were always in my heart? So many questions that until now there are no answers. You are one of the reasons why I came back to town. I am ready to tell you everything; I’m longing to see you again. I’ve been active in the organization because I’m hoping that I might see you again. Then my birthday came, I thought I will see you again but it turns out that I’m already late. You're already working overseas. How many years do I need to wait for me to move on? How many years should I tell myself that you are not the one, that we are never been a destiny? But if he is not the one then why my heart does tells me that he is the one? Does my heart betraying me?
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need mo ba ng advice sis some hehe im not gud into words sis eh..
lika kung kelangang itagay yan samahan kita khit mahina yung tolerance ng katawan ko sa alcohol sasamahan kita hanngang sa maubos yung tindang alak sa tindahan ni aling nena, kung kelangan mong umiyak samahan din kita hanggang sa bumaha sa metro manila hihi o kaya umakyat na lang tayu ng bundok at maghanap ng saging mas madali to..
i-welcome mo lang yung sakit sis hanggang sa makasanayan mo na..
let it go na in da first place naman kung parehas kayu ng nararamdaman gumawa na cya ng way dati pa dba..
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need mo ba ng advice sis some hehe im not gud into words sis eh..
lika kung kelangang itagay yan samahan kita khit mahina yung tolerance ng katawan ko sa alcohol sasamahan kita hanngang sa maubos yung tindang alak sa tindahan ni aling nena, kung kelangan mong umiyak samahan din kita hanggang sa bumaha sa metro manila hihi o kaya umakyat na lang tayu ng bundok at maghanap ng saging mas madali to..
i-welcome mo lang yung sakit sis hanggang sa makasanayan mo na..
let it go na in da first place naman kung parehas kayu ng nararamdaman gumawa na cya ng way dati pa dba..
nyahaha.. nakita ko lang yan at pinost dito... amft :D
tara damayan natin ang akda nito,malamang nahihirapan pa rin sya ngayon.. ???
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Moving on is easier said than done. It is also difficult to advise a broken-hearted person because you don't feel the real pain he or she is trying to endure. With this in mind, I can only say that love can be heaven or hell depending on the person/s involved. Some of us feel blessed by love itself, no matter what the outcome. While some people see it as a curse when they part ways with the one they love. A curse that brings unbearable pain and suffering, a curse that one can only hope will disappear with the passing of time. Time is also a curse, because you spend it trying to ignore the pain of a broken heart, and try to move on.
So the only thing left to do is endure the pain, and try to soothe your broken heart with the heavenly memories of a lost love. And if you can, try to convince yourself that Love is a gift that comes in a package that includes good and bad emotions. We just have to take the good with bad, no matter how painful, no matter how...sad.
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nyahaha.. nakita ko lang yan at pinost dito... amft :D
tara damayan natin ang akda nito,malamang nahihirapan pa rin sya ngayon.. ???
:o Pusang gala!!! todo drama pa naman ako sa reply yun pala pinirata mo lang yung post!!!
Tara puntahan natin yun original author at gulpihin na lang natin para matauhan. hahahaha!!!
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Moving on is easier said than done. It is also difficult to advise a broken-hearted person because you don't feel the real pain he or she is trying to endure. With this in mind, I can only say that love can be heaven or hell depending on the person/s involved. Some of us feel blessed by love itself, no matter what the outcome. While some people see it as a curse when they part ways with the one they love. A curse that brings unbearable pain and suffering, a curse that one can only hope will disappear with the passing of time. Time is also a curse, because you spend it trying to ignore the pain of a broken heart, and try to move on.
So the only thing left to do is endure the pain, and try to soothe your broken heart with the heavenly memories of a lost love. And if you can, try to convince yourself that Love is a gift that comes in a package that includes good and bad emotions. We just have to take the good with bad, no matter how painful, no matter how...sad.
very well said ser magbubukid.. thanks for dropping by..
:o Pusang gala!!! todo drama pa naman ako sa reply yun pala pinirata mo lang yung post!!!
Tara puntahan natin yun original author at gulpihin na lang natin para matauhan. hahahaha!!!
yay pirata talaga hahaha.. may pahintulot po yan ke otor.. Who knows nababasa nya yung advice nyo po.. kaya chill lang..tara penge lambanog ser :D
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very well said ser magbubukid.. thanks for dropping by..
yay pirata talaga hahaha.. may pahintulot po yan ke otor.. Who knows nababasa nya yung advice nyo po.. kaya chill lang..tara penge lambanog ser :D
Siyaaaaaa!!! Mainam yaaaannn!! Tara nang bumarik ng lambanog primera para magkaalaman naaaa!!! :-X :-X
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Siyaaaaaa!!! Mainam yaaaannn!! Tara nang bumarik ng lambanog primera para magkaalaman naaaa!!! :-X :-X
hahaha.. isama natin si otor, mukhang kelangan nya talaga ng karamay... baka kulang lang sa kanya ang lumaklak ng lambanog..nyahaha
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hahaha.. isama natin si otor, mukhang kelangan nya talaga ng karamay... baka kulang lang sa kanya ang lumaklak ng lambanog..nyahaha
;) Pag babae siya at lasing na, matutulungan ko siya mag MOVE ON.
>:( Pag lalake naman at lasing na, itatali ko siya sa punong santol para mahulasan siya sa kasentihan niya!!!
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;) Pag babae siya at lasing na, matutulungan ko siya mag MOVE ON.
>:( Pag lalake naman at lasing na, itatali ko siya sa punong santol para mahulasan siya sa kasentihan niya!!!
Babae po yung otor nyan >:( paano mo sya tutulungan ser ??? Care to share 8)
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Babae po yung otor nyan >:( paano mo sya tutulungan ser ??? Care to share 8)
Patatagayin ko siya ng lambanog at bibigyan nang masarap na pulutan. Pag lasing na siya...bahala na kung ano mangyayare. ;D ;D ;D
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Patatagayin ko siya ng lambanog at bibigyan nang masarap na pulutan. Pag lasing na siya...bahala na kung ano mangyayare. ;D ;D ;D
aba may masamang binabalak.. hahaha... kakatakot yung bahala mo ser..lols
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aba may masamang binabalak.. hahaha... kakatakot yung bahala mo ser..lols
Dapat mag MOVE IN ako para maka MOVE ON siya. :P :P :P
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nak ng sunog na pandesal naman oh kala ko kaw na lilipad na sana ako papaunta jan sa place mo ayaw lang ipahiram ni darna yung bato ;D
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ok here it goes;
time cannot heal your wounds nor any medicine and alcohol that can be bought in the store, but it doesn't mean that its hopeless. you've said that you became active in your group just because you want to see him, is he all that matters to you? cannot live without him? you grow up with him? nurse you when your sick? fed you when your little? our feelings greatly affect our way of life, why not think about your family who was there when you are sick, friends whom lift you from those miseries, the ones you drunk with. that real friends that been givin' you hopes, that GOD created you, why not cherish everyday when you wake up you thank the lord that he had given you another chance to love and to be loved. Let it be GOD's ways when time is right he will definitely give it to you. Dont rush. If the ones he give you is not the one you expect dont ignore, it is him who knows what is right at that time. let your wounds and pain give you an education that LOVE is not a game. you never know when will it come.
Words of wisdom for my fellow companion
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nak ng sunog na pandesal naman oh kala ko kaw na lilipad na sana ako papaunta jan sa place mo ayaw lang ipahiram ni darna yung bato ;D
wahaha madamot pala si darna.. ke captain barbel ka na lang manghiram sistah..hahaha... tats naman ako sis... salamat :-*
ok here it goes;
time cannot heal your wounds nor any medicine and alcohol that can be bought in the store, but it doesn't mean that its hopeless. you've said that you became active in your group just because you want to see him, is he all that matters to you? cannot live without him? you grow up with him? nurse you when your sick? fed you when your little? our feelings greatly affect our way of life, why not think about your family who was there when you are sick, friends whom lift you from those miseries, the ones you drunk with. that real friends that been givin' you hopes, that GOD created you, why not cherish everyday when you wake up you thank the lord that he had given you another chance to love and to be loved. Let it be GOD's ways when time is right he will definitely give it to you. Dont rush. If the ones he give you is not the one you expect dont ignore, it is him who knows what is right at that time. let your wounds and pain give you an education that LOVE is not a game. you never know when will it come.
Words of wisdom for my fellow companion
yun oh :D ang galing maka advice...hahaha... Salamat kulit for dropping by your reply... Honestly she appreciate everything in her life, it is just that this certain guy is the one who change her to be a better person. She just need sometime to realize that this man is really not her destiny..hanudaw ??? Time will tell :D .. amft affected lungs...
salamat ulit..mwaahugssssss :-*
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There's no such thing as moving on. It is bundled with acceptance.
Kung matatanggap mo ang mga bagay-bagay, surely, makakausad ka. It must be tough on you, but life must go on. Sure, you can't dwell on yesterdays too much, but it wouldn't hurt to look back sometimes, because one yesterday, you met the man.
I was going through the same thing before. Alam ko hindi ako dapat nagsasalita ng ganito, or hindi sa akin dapat manggaling (I mean, 19 lang po ako, haha!). I always thought hindi ko kaya, pero noong nakausad ako, narealize ko na may mas masaya pa sa makasama siya. :)
Cheers! Stay strong for yourself madam.
I'm not sure if I can be of much help, but if anything, I'm willing to.
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There's no such thing as moving on. It is bundled with acceptance.
Kung matatanggap mo ang mga bagay-bagay, surely, makakausad ka. It must be tough on you, but life must go on. Sure, you can't dwell on yesterdays too much, but it wouldn't hurt to look back sometimes, because one yesterday, you met the man.
I was going through the same thing before. Alam ko hindi ako dapat nagsasalita ng ganito, or hindi sa akin dapat manggaling (I mean, 19 lang po ako, haha!). I always thought hindi ko kaya, pero noong nakausad ako, narealize ko na may mas masaya pa sa makasama siya. :)
Cheers! Stay strong for yourself madam.
I'm not sure if I can be of much help, but if anything, I'm willing to.
i agree... +karma sa iyo...
Acceptance is really the right to do, moving on is just a word to say that we overcome a heart ache but it will not really go away in a short period of time.
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There's no such thing as moving on. It is bundled with acceptance.
Kung matatanggap mo ang mga bagay-bagay, surely, makakausad ka. It must be tough on you, but life must go on. Sure, you can't dwell on yesterdays too much, but it wouldn't hurt to look back sometimes, because one yesterday, you met the man.
I was going through the same thing before. Alam ko hindi ako dapat nagsasalita ng ganito, or hindi sa akin dapat manggaling (I mean, 19 lang po ako, haha!). I always thought hindi ko kaya, pero noong nakausad ako, narealize ko na may mas masaya pa sa makasama siya. :)
Cheers! Stay strong for yourself madam.
I'm not sure if I can be of much help, but if anything, I'm willing to.
Thanks Ser Wither.. acceptance ??? siguro yun ang di pa nga nya talaga nagagawa.. lage kasi syang lumilingon pabalik, at ang dami pa nyang what if sa katawan, dami regrets..kaya siguro nahihirapan syang magmove on..I know someday when she finds the word acceptance in her heart, for sure she can finally say goodbye and move on.. Salamat po ... :-*
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I don't think a teen like me deserves to be called sir :) Haha! Anyway, you're welcome.
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I don't think a teen like me deserves to be called sir :) Haha! Anyway, you're welcome.
whether you are a teen or not, you got my respect ...I'd still prefer to call you Ser... :D
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Ito ang brutal na pag move on.
Ayaw niya huwag niya! Hahanap na lang ako nang iba!!
>:( >:( >:( :)) :)) :))
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Ito ang brutal na pag move on.
Ayaw niya huwag niya! Hahanap na lang ako nang iba!!
>:( >:( >:( :)) :)) :))
kung sana ganun lang tayo lahat mag-isip noh..sana wala sanang naglalaslas, walang naglalasing ng bonggang bongga..
pero di kaya ganun kadali magmove on kung may malaking impact yung tao sa buhay mo..unless Fling lang yun..hahaha
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whether you are a teen or not, you got my respect ...I'd still prefer to call you Ser... :D
If you say so madam. Salamat po!
kung sana ganun lang tayo lahat mag-isip noh..sana wala sanang naglalaslas, walang naglalasing ng bonggang bongga..
pero di kaya ganun kadali magmove on kung may malaking impact yung tao sa buhay mo..unless Fling lang yun..hahaha
Actually madali lang. I'm surprised na natanggap ko agad ang mga nangyari in like a couple months despite being tied up in that relationship for four years. Acceptance is key. Every chapter of one's life needs a closure.
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kung sana ganun lang tayo lahat mag-isip noh..sana wala sanang naglalaslas, walang naglalasing ng bonggang bongga..
pero di kaya ganun kadali magmove on kung may malaking impact yung tao sa buhay mo..unless Fling lang yun..hahaha
Iba iba nga ang tolerance natin sa ganyan. Depende na lang tao kung kakayanin niya or hindi. Sana makayanan ko. :(
At biglang nag drama ang magsasaka! :)) :)) :))
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If you say so madam. Salamat po!
Actually madali lang. I'm surprised na natanggap ko agad ang mga nangyari in like a couple months despite being tied up in that relationship for four years. Acceptance is key. Every chapter of one's life needs a closure.
wow good for you ser wither... Yun ang wala si girl, yung closure ..kasi hanggang ngayon umaasa pa sya ke guy eh..madami pa sanang sasabihin si girl ke guy...pero huli na lahat... ewan..basta magulo...
Iba iba nga ang tolerance natin sa ganyan. Depende na lang tao kung kakayanin niya or hindi. Sana makayanan ko. :(
At biglang nag drama ang magsasaka! :)) :)) :))
nax..drama mode ser Magbubukid..hahaha... kakasagot nga pa lang nya sayo..enjoy the moment na lang po ang know the limitations..chos...
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wow good for you ser wither... Yun ang wala si girl, yung closure ..kasi hanggang ngayon umaasa pa sya ke guy eh..madami pa sanang sasabihin si girl ke guy...pero huli na lahat... ewan..basta magulo...
nax..drama mode ser Magbubukid..hahaha... kakasagot nga pa lang nya sayo..enjoy the moment na lang po ang know the limitations..chos...
Kinidnap ko kaya hindi na nakapalag. Minsan may nadadaan din sa dahas. >:D
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Look for a hobby, go out with your friends, keep yourself busy & higit sa lahat mag dasal. :)
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Look for a hobby, go out with your friends, keep yourself busy & higit sa lahat mag dasal. :)
very well said.prayers can really help..salamat po
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Kinidnap ko kaya hindi na nakapalag. Minsan may nadadaan din sa dahas. >:D
wahahaha.may kidnap pa talagang nagaganap...
isa ka palang marahas ser magbu
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wahahaha.may kidnap pa talagang nagaganap...
isa ka palang marahas ser magbu
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Kinidnap ko at dinala sa isang bodega. Wala na siya magagawa kaya sinagot na lang ako. >:D
OT: Call me if you cannot move on. Bigyan kita wheelchair for Christmas. >:D
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Kinidnap ko at dinala sa isang bodega. Wala na siya magagawa kaya sinagot na lang ako. >:D
OT: Call me if you cannot move on. Bigyan kita wheelchair for Christmas. >:D
hahaha... walangchoice kaya sinagot ka nalang..lols :suka3:
Wheelchair talaga ??? lumpo lang ..hahahah
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Maybe my trick is not so nice, but it's very effective. >:D
OT: At least the wheelchair can make you move along, if not on. :))
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Maybe my trick is not so nice, but it's very effective. >:D
OT: At least the wheelchair can make you move along, if not on. :))
magamit nga yan minsan yung trick mo ser magbubukid..hahahah
hahaha..itutulak lang ang wheelchair para makamove on :D
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lemme share these tips on how to move on...tanong ko, sagot ko..hahaha
1. Cry. Face the fact that you are sad and depressed. There’s no point of hiding it to the world most especially to yourself. Lock yourself in your room and cry. Sob or even wail all you want, just cry to let out all the heartaches you are feeling. It hurts so badly and the pain is so unbearable so let it out by all means. You might get raccoon eyes but at least not cancer or any heart ailments.
2. Scrounge Some Ear. When in pain and confused, it is always advisable to have someone around. Pouring over your sentiments with a friend over a bottle or a cup of coffee is a great catharsis. Who cares if you have told the story a hundred times already to your friends, as long as the anguish is still there just keep on talking.
3. Don’t Listen to Love Songs. As we all know, love songs tend to wake up our emotional side, so be wary not to let yourself indulge into it when you’re broken hearted or else you’ll end up feeling like a complete loser.
4. Keep Yourself Busy. Do the things that you have neglected doing because you were busy with someone else before. Finish your cross stitch that has been idle for almost a month now. Open that novel where your bookmark has been on the same chapter for a year already. Do all the things you’ve been dying to do before but just didn’t have the time. Organize an out of town trip with your friends or try hosting a party. Be with happy people and absorb their vibes.
5. Reminisce. This may sound weird but is sometimes effective. If avoiding all the places you two have been and all the things both of you were doing before didn’t come up with a good result, then might as well try this one. No, reminiscing doesn’t mean that you have to punish yourself by reliving the memories you once shared, it’s just a way of making yourself immune to all the pains he has caused and for you to face the reality. Remembering the good times you have spent together will somehow make you realize that life isn’t bad after all. Believe me, in time, you will just find yourself laughing at all the things that happened and it will somehow make you proud also because you have overcome them all.
6. Start a Diary. Start writing in a journal and make it your new best friend. Jot down all the dreadful things that happened to you and purge out all the things that’s on your mind, no holds barred. Confess to your new best friend how despicable your boyfriend is and vow to forget him the soonest time possible.
7. Clean up the Clutters. It’s time to pick up the pieces and clean up the clutters of your once shattered life. A closing doesn’t necessarily mean a shut down. It’s just a phase that everyone needs to undergo to pave way for a new start. Keep away from your sight all the things that bring back memories of you together. Put them in a box and make sure you’ll never get a glimpse of it to avoid temptation to look at them again. And when I mean keep away from sight, just toss it aside first, not return to the giver.
8. Pamper yourself. Head to the spa, gym or even to the parlor for a complete makeover. Enough of the sulking days, it’s unfair for you to see him happy while you are still there in your room wallowing in despair. Give yourself a treat and stop looking miserable. You wouldn’t want to look wretched when the hands of fate suddenly give you the person who will completely ease your broken heart, would you?
sana makatulong ^_^
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Well, moving on is really difficult if you can't accept emotionally that the person will never go back. Magstart ka in giving importance for yourself, afterall it's not love we're talking about here now it's about love being gone. A definite closure will be a big help pero hindi lahat kaya ito, pero paano mo nga naman malilimutan ang isang tao na sinisilip mo pa sa fb or pinadadaanan mo ng GM. For my own experience when i "moved on" means apathetic na ako sa person. I am not happy nor sad nor angry whatever she does. We have our own process, nagkakapareho lang tayo on how we start and how will it end.
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Well, moving on is really difficult if you can't accept emotionally that the person will never go back. Magstart ka in giving importance for yourself, afterall it's not love we're talking about here now it's about love being gone. A definite closure will be a big help pero hindi lahat kaya ito, pero paano mo nga naman malilimutan ang isang tao na sinisilip mo pa sa fb or pinadadaanan mo ng GM. For my own experience when i "moved on" means apathetic na ako sa person. I am not happy nor sad nor angry whatever she does. We have our own process, nagkakapareho lang tayo on how we start and how will it end.
:hi1: ser Tonying.. salamat po at napadaan kayo dito.. very well said po kaya +k kayo sakin :D ..
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sabi nga ni ramon bautista.. there's more to life than love.. xD haha enjoy mo ung little things at wag muna sya ang isipin..
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lemme share these tips on how to move on...tanong ko, sagot ko..hahaha
1. Cry. Face the fact that you are sad and depressed. There’s no point of hiding it to the world most especially to yourself. Lock yourself in your room and cry. Sob or even wail all you want, just cry to let out all the heartaches you are feeling. It hurts so badly and the pain is so unbearable so let it out by all means. You might get raccoon eyes but at least not cancer or any heart ailments.
2. Scrounge Some Ear. When in pain and confused, it is always advisable to have someone around. Pouring over your sentiments with a friend over a bottle or a cup of coffee is a great catharsis. Who cares if you have told the story a hundred times already to your friends, as long as the anguish is still there just keep on talking.
3. Don’t Listen to Love Songs. As we all know, love songs tend to wake up our emotional side, so be wary not to let yourself indulge into it when you’re broken hearted or else you’ll end up feeling like a complete loser.
4. Keep Yourself Busy. Do the things that you have neglected doing because you were busy with someone else before. Finish your cross stitch that has been idle for almost a month now. Open that novel where your bookmark has been on the same chapter for a year already. Do all the things you’ve been dying to do before but just didn’t have the time. Organize an out of town trip with your friends or try hosting a party. Be with happy people and absorb their vibes.
5. Reminisce. This may sound weird but is sometimes effective. If avoiding all the places you two have been and all the things both of you were doing before didn’t come up with a good result, then might as well try this one. No, reminiscing doesn’t mean that you have to punish yourself by reliving the memories you once shared, it’s just a way of making yourself immune to all the pains he has caused and for you to face the reality. Remembering the good times you have spent together will somehow make you realize that life isn’t bad after all. Believe me, in time, you will just find yourself laughing at all the things that happened and it will somehow make you proud also because you have overcome them all.
6. Start a Diary. Start writing in a journal and make it your new best friend. Jot down all the dreadful things that happened to you and purge out all the things that’s on your mind, no holds barred. Confess to your new best friend how despicable your boyfriend is and vow to forget him the soonest time possible.
7. Clean up the Clutters. It’s time to pick up the pieces and clean up the clutters of your once shattered life. A closing doesn’t necessarily mean a shut down. It’s just a phase that everyone needs to undergo to pave way for a new start. Keep away from your sight all the things that bring back memories of you together. Put them in a box and make sure you’ll never get a glimpse of it to avoid temptation to look at them again. And when I mean keep away from sight, just toss it aside first, not return to the giver.
8. Pamper yourself. Head to the spa, gym or even to the parlor for a complete makeover. Enough of the sulking days, it’s unfair for you to see him happy while you are still there in your room wallowing in despair. Give yourself a treat and stop looking miserable. You wouldn’t want to look wretched when the hands of fate suddenly give you the person who will completely ease your broken heart, would you?
sana makatulong ^_^
'to panahon masarap bumili ng gadgets. hehe.. o kaya shopping sa mga gurls. diversion! >:D
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'to panahon masarap bumili ng gadgets. hehe.. o kaya shopping sa mga gurls. diversion! >:D
Tama po kaya dyan ser lex...
Somebody that I Used to Know *-*
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Kala ko pa naman si T.S yung nag momove on. Nosebleed amp.