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Title: regular communication sa ex. nya alarming b?
Post by: nemsis on July 14, 2013, 01:30:39 AM

through text and sometimes may personal visit pa. what should i do? need help please.

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Post by: backwithanotherone on August 20, 2013, 05:09:57 AM

Man, that's baggage, you gotta start doubting pag ganun

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Post by: EagleEye on August 21, 2013, 12:07:39 AM

onaman. ngyari na yan sakin nalaman ko may ginagawa sila on the side. kaya nga EX ibig sabihin tapos na.

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Post by: tomasmakirot on September 21, 2013, 03:10:57 PM

linawin mo na lang sa kanya..masakit baka rebound ka lang.ouch

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Post by: Tracertribe on September 23, 2013, 12:53:57 PM

alarming i should say YES! pero if you really trust your partner na wala na siyang gagawin eh okay naman its a matter of RESPECT sa isat isa.. what you reap is what you sow...

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Post by: babajee27 on September 23, 2013, 07:19:29 PM

Nako mahirap yan TS, para sakin di pwede yan ganyan lalo na may visit pa kung ako kakausapin ko ng gf ko tungkol jan o kaya yung guy na lumayo. Nakakaasar yan haha

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Post by: Itachi101 on September 28, 2013, 03:04:48 PM

mahirap yan for sure may lamat na relationship nyo

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Post by: bluerflow on September 28, 2013, 03:14:56 PM

Mostly pag may communication padin dun sa ex may konti pang pagtingin padin tlga  ???

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Post by: yikes@ako on October 03, 2013, 01:47:01 PM

Ok lang yan. Its a matter of trust and respect. if they're doing something else, then its better for you coz you'll know her a lot earlier...

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Post by: Vegeta X on October 13, 2013, 03:28:07 AM

kick the guys ass dude! may something na ginagawa yang dalawa!

CLUE : FUBU! if you know what i mean!

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Post by: stewy on October 30, 2013, 06:24:51 AM

That's a fail...for sure si EX lonely yan mayhinahanap...

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Post by: Prime™ on October 30, 2013, 06:52:11 AM

Thats a major red flag mate. If I understood it correctly, your partner is still seeing the ex?

That's an unacceptable behavior right there.

Don't make a fuss or act overly dramatic, but I wouldn't take this relationship very seriously anymore. Look somewhere else, mahirap yan.

It takes two to tango, dapat alam din siguro ng partner mo what constitutes as an unacceptable and insensitive behavior.

This goes without saying mate.

This is just my personal opinion, but at the end of the day you know what to do best. Try not to get your emotions blind your reason, and ask yourself if you're cool with this whole arrangement or not. Okay ba ito sayo o hindi? There's your answer.

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Post by: mahalo on October 30, 2013, 07:12:21 AM

unacceptable din po, lalo na kapag regular sila nagkikita.

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Post by: dimple on October 30, 2013, 09:07:31 AM

Depende sa case po.. first ano reason bakit kayo nagkahiwalay baka naman gusto lanf gumanti ni ex at akitin pabalik sa kanya...  or di maka.move.on effect tipong paawa blues

Second may anak ba sila para may dahilan na dapat may communication?

Third  are they goodfriends bago sila.magkahiwalay or talagang iloveyou goodbye ang drama..

Timbangin nyo po ang sitwasyon kase.minsan may guilt din sa both side naawa kase iniwan kaya kala.nila.may obligasyon pa rin sila sa ex nila... walang masama makipag communicate w/ur ex as long as u know ur limit... pero kung wala naman dahilan at walang attachment better back off na lang... kase wala naman patutunguhan kahit anong gawin nyo ex is ex...

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Post by: LimitLess™ on October 30, 2013, 02:16:24 PM

Maraming pwedeng mangyari kung mahal mo ang partner mo hanggat maaga ilayo mo sya doon sa lalake, pero kausapin mo sya in a nice way para hindi kayo mag-away o magtalo .. alarming talaga yan "Regular at bumibisita pa talaga?" Haha ..

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Post by: fayt on October 30, 2013, 02:30:20 PM

on regular basis/scenario syempre alarming yan... Red alert kumbaga... She has to respect your relationship.

pero kung may anak sya sa ex nya, wala kang magagawa sa part na yun. Syempre need nya magampanan kahit hiwalay na sya sa previous partner nya ang role nya bilang isang magulang.. Pagdating sa ganitong bagay, ikaw dapat ang magbigay ng pag unawa...

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Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on October 30, 2013, 08:51:05 PM

be alarmed at it but dont try to over act about it

depende yan kasi lalo na kung close friend niya ito eh...

just talk about it with your partner first.. in a mind gentle way

then if you're not convinced then talk to the ex..

if you're free to do it try to spy.. but the thing is it all depends on

how you understand things, be objective on how you view things first

then think about it before you decide on something else

like giving limitations to it or ending the relationship

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Post by: Kurimasu on October 30, 2013, 09:49:52 PM

Depende kung ano ang pinaguusapan. Kung about sa kanila alarming. Pero kung about sa khit na ano basta hindi related sa kanilang nging relasyon, ok lng yun.

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Post by: psycho29 on October 31, 2013, 02:30:52 AM

medyo alangan yan kung meron ka ng iba.. kasi baka maka apekto tlga yan sa rel nyo.. mas maganda wag na lang..

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Post by: eldrick15 on November 02, 2013, 03:38:36 PM

at my case very alarming kase my communication kame nun dalawa kong ex..yung ayaw nya daw malaman ng bf nya na my communication pa kame kase magagalit daw at mahal na mahal nya un pero ok lang sa kanya na my nangyayare samen..the other 1 is 3 bf na nya yung iniwan nya dahil sakin.. ata dati meron pa isa natigil lang noong nabuntis na siya naging gf ko ung bestfriend nya un nagpakasal na

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Post by: ¿m☺ÿ on November 02, 2013, 05:41:16 PM

ok kids, let's not get hasty but lets give a credit to the benefit of the doubt.... 1st of all, the story is not complete we really don't know the reason kung bakit bumibisita pa si ex? second, paano ang communication nila? 3rd, paano niya nalaman na may communication pa sila ni ex? sinabi ba sa kanya o nalaman niya sa ibang tao? if sa ibang tao tiniyak ba niya na totoo ito?

There are lots of variable na pwedeng maging dahilan or reason.... ang suggestion ko lang e...to get a better answer or advice, one should tell the full story, the last thing we don't really want is to give a wrong or bias advice hindi rin kasi fair doon sa involve.....

I'm asking these, kasi i have a good experience sa ganito. And during that time, i felt i made a wrong decision.

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Post by: jamesbond on January 05, 2014, 01:51:00 PM

very alarming indeed... One should be doing what must be done in moving forward... If the ex still hangs around what the heck she's doing man? Saving friendship? Hmmm.. Maybe so but she should not interfere with your daily grind.. Its your call after all.. Goodluck!


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