Post by: arthas™ on July 08, 2013, 08:23:15 AM
Post by: ¿m☺ÿ on July 08, 2013, 06:11:35 PM
Tingin ko may advantage at disadvantage ito....
ito yung para sa akin.....
Disadvantage:
1. Magastos, kasi nga kailangang i-renew pa... eh hindi naman lahat ng mag-asawa nakatira sa bayan...lalo na sa mga mag-asawang nasa abroad...kailangan nilang umuwi, mamasahe para lang ma-renew yung contract
2. Hindi convenient kasi kailangang maghanap ng time para mai-renew. ok lang sa mag-asawang walang trabaho yung isa...paano kapag parehong may work?
3. The meaning of marraige ay mawawalan ng halaga, the couple just have to endure the duration of marraige para lang matapos.
4. Kawawa ang mga anak, ok lang kung ang partner na makukuha ng kanilang magulang ay mabait at hindi abuser sa mga bata, nagger or ano pang "er"
5. Gugulo ang family code ng Pilipinas, maraming kailangang amyendahang batas para lang makalusot ito. means gagastos ng malaki ang gobyerno.
6. Kapag nagkaroon ng ganito, para na ring may divorce sa Pinas iba nga lang ang tawag.
7. Mawawala ang sanctity of marraige. kasi hindi na kailangang mag-adjust ng matindi para lang magwork ang relationship
8. Matutuwa ang mga palekero at palekera kasi madali na sa kanila ang magpalit
Advantage:
1. Hindi na kailangang magtiis ang mga babae or lalaking naa-abuse
2. Magiging maingat siguro ang couple sa pag-treat nila sa isa't isa
wala akong ibang maisip na advantage ah.....
nice trend sir, para sa akin magandang topic ito
+1k para sa iyo
Post by: fayt on July 08, 2013, 06:32:42 PM
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Post by: Heathcliff on January 19, 2015, 01:35:47 PM
Make mistakes as much as you can afterall there's a good way out.
If may expiration ang marriage contract.... Then why bother to get married and tie yourselves up to what they say as a lifetime commitment?
Wouldnt it be just a waste of time, effort and money?
All just because of that too easy way out ( regardless of the consequences) na pwede naman gawin at ienjoy ( being in a trial and error relationship, getting to know your partner) but respecting your commitment with each other...na walang nasasagasaan na prinsipyo ng kasal?
... Tsk! This world is really gettin too complicated.
Post by: Cathrina on January 20, 2015, 03:48:44 AM
Post by: Heathcliff on January 24, 2015, 08:35:49 AM
Hihi naalala ko tuloy yong joke ..neway kung may expiry date ok na siguro ang 2 yrs ahaha nasa sainyo na kung gusto nyo Irenew lol..joke Lang ..
Hehe! Two years talaga binigay mo ah! Teka baket two years sis Cath? What about that two year expiration?
... Napapaisip tuloy ako dyan.. Pede ren kaya may insurance for moral, physical damages? Haha...parang pre nup contract lang ah..hmnn..
Post by: caligula on January 26, 2015, 12:00:18 AM
I rest my case.
Post by: Heathcliff on January 26, 2015, 11:53:16 AM
Teka po Sir C! Lemme ask...
Just the carton? Or the carton plus the milk? Hehe...
Carton of fresh milk.. Usually two to three days lang duration nun... You consume it or not... Still... After a few days stale na yun.
Sa marriage? Compared sa carton of milk...may expiration or wala... Mapapanis din yan.. Kaya nga sabi ng mga product manufacturers ng perishable goods....
' consume before the date'
' best before________!!!'
But the real good thing is.. You get to
Know and cherish the person you chose to be your life partner... Forever man or hindi.
You have your good and bad memories together.... A proof that somehow... Once in your life... You believed sa sakramento ng kasal.
Post by: fayt on January 26, 2015, 12:37:14 PM
Compared sa ibang bagay na kahit walang control ang tao, they will perished eventually..
break it up or not, it is best to preserved what is duly given and marriage is the one (for me).
magiging iba kasi ang mindset kung in the first place alam mo na may expiration ang isang bagay...
Post by: caligula on January 29, 2015, 07:43:13 PM
Am I evil or what?
Post by: Sapphire18 on August 15, 2017, 05:22:20 PM
Feel free to comment po mga kaPT.
Nashline30
Post by: anino on August 15, 2017, 09:18:21 PM
Hah, imagine that na me expiration ang marriage contract ng mag-asawa, naimagine ko tuloy yung mag-asawa na ayaw irenew ang contract nila at pareho silang nag-aabang sa phone nila para pagpatak ng hating gabi magpapalit agad sila ng status from "Married" to "Single" hahaha. Or yung mag-asawa na matutulog na tapos ma realize nila na maeexpire na ang contract nila kaya dali-dali silang magbihis para pumunta ng korte at pilitin ang guard na buksan ang registrar para makapag renew ng contract.
Funny kung iisipin mo na ganun but there are a certain part of the Constitution na hindi ganun kadaling irevise kahit gawin pang low cost lang ang renewal marami paring variables ang magbabago. Opinion ko with the topic ay ganito.
Advantage:
Couples who no longer sees each other as a partner can easily just let the contract expire na hindi na sila dadaan pa sa maraming red tapes, court hearings para lang maghiwalay.
Couples who no longer sees each other together in the future, pwede silang maghiwalay without any bad terms, they can talk it out na hindi na nila kailangan pa ng legal counsel (divorce/annulment lawyers).
Couples who agrees to end their lifeless marriage, kung me nahanap na silang ibang nagpapasaya sa kanila they can end the terms and go on with their own separate ways na walang ano mang problem since the only thing that keeps them together is that contract.
Disadvantage:
Property, yung mga na ipundar niyong dalawa dapat niyong paghatian yun. But the big question is "sino ang makakuha ng malaki at kanino ang konte?". What if ikaw ang nagpundar sa kung ano meron kayo ngayon tapos kukunin ng partner mo lahat yun dahil sa title niya sa'yo ano ngayon ang gagawin mo? Hehehe
Child(ren), if you know na me contract ang marriage niyo and anytime pwede niyo itong hindi na irenew what will become of your children? Kung isang bata lang ang meron kayong mag-asawa ang tanong diyan sino ang kukuha sa kanya? Ang alam ko sa parting yan mapupunta sa nanay ang bata now kung mangyari yun malamang hihingi ng child support ang babae sa lalake panibagon problema narin yan dahil the support has to be given hanggang makatapos ng college ang bata.
Did I mention the stress, frustration, depression na makukuha ng bata once maghiwalay ang mag-asawa? Contract is contract we all know that pero once hindi na irenew ng mag-asawa yan they have to explain that to their children why their parents can no longer be together. I understand sa mag-asawang hindi na nagkakaintindihan at wala ng pagmamahal pero nandun parin ang part ng bata na kailangan niyang malaman kung bakit, ang tanong ng bata diyan ay "bakit hindi na?".
Whether you continue or end your marriage the one factor na dapat niyong isipin bago kayo mag decide na maghiwalay are your children. Nevermind your property, renewal fee or sasabihin ng ibang tao, your child/children has to come first because that's what being a parent is. Think of the children.
Don't worry guys i'm not lost, alam ko palagi akong nasa NSFW(Tagalog) page hehehe, pero na miss ko lang ang ganitong forum. :peace:
Post by: jiren on August 15, 2017, 11:57:02 PM
Post by: Sapphire18 on August 16, 2017, 12:42:28 AM
Para sakin ok yun may expiration kasi kung magasto ang magpakasal mas magasto ang magpa annul
Sa isang banda maraming lalaki ang matutuwa nyan hihi peace.. at maraming babae ang kawawa, kasi sino pa magpapakasal sakanila ulit kung inanakan na ng unang asawa at tumaba dahil sa pag-aanak
marami pang dahilan na di dapat magkaroon ng expiration ang kasal.. at alam na natin ang mga yun.Nashline30
Post by: naruto789544 on August 16, 2017, 01:13:03 AM
Post by: jamoy on August 17, 2017, 12:58:27 AM
pero i don't totally support this expiration date thing sa marriage...
Post by: karaso on August 17, 2017, 08:06:41 PM
Aww meron na pala to..
Para sakin ok yun may expiration kasi kung magasto ang magpakasal mas magasto ang magpa annul
Sa isang banda maraming lalaki ang matutuwa nyan hihi peace.. at maraming babae ang kawawa, kasi sino pa magpapakasal sakanila ulit kung inanakan na ng unang asawa at tumaba dahil sa pag-aanak
Nashline30
IMHO it's not matter kung naanakan na ang babae sa unang asawa kasi hindi naman lahat ng habol ng lalake sa isang babae katawan lng - minsan sa attitude din... mahirap din naman nagtitiyaga ka sa partner mo kasi both are bound sa contract - paano kung pulos away lng mabuti na rin cguro to give chance both pra they can search their right (relative ang word na to pra sa akin) one.
reality bites pero karamihan din habol din ang figure ng isang babae, problema ba to for me hindi kasi bilang pagpapahalaga natin (health) sa ating sarili ito ay responsibility natin na gawing healthy ang ating katawan maliban na lng kung may sakit kaya tumaba at di advisable mag workout - situational din kasi ito. humbly, ang point ko lng naman di lahat katawan habol at ang pag maintain sa health esp sa figure is everybody's responsibility kaya di reason na allow natin tataba tayo - just my own opinion po.
Post Merge: August 17, 2017, 08:23:45 PM
it's possible maybe in a civil wedding case which is bounded by the law... but in a church wedding, what the sacrament binds cannot be undone...
sa totoo lng po kung law pag uusapan mas strong pa nga po ang civil wedding... reality bites po pero bakit pag mga celebrity parang normal na sa kanila if there's a need na mag annul cla? sa normal average people parang ang laki nga kasalanan pag mag decide to end the marriage? kung ang ultimate goal lng naman is to be happy paano na po pag di magkaunawan cla magiging happy ba cla non? personally I don't like this expiration ng marriage contract but what if the needs arises na need talaga kaya dito na cguro papasok ito - situational po cguro ang application nito kung maging Law ito at dapat clear at defined ang implementing guidelines.
Post by: jamoy on August 17, 2017, 10:37:35 PM
Post by: naruto789544 on August 17, 2017, 11:34:37 PM
divine law - sacrament of marriage - is by far harder to change and i think it's more or less self explanatory...