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meron na ba ditong nailove sa best friend nila?
well ang best friend eh nariyan lang lage lalo na sa moments na down ka or siya
so ang tanung naranasan niyo na bang magkarelasyon sa bestfriend niyo?
share them here
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ooouuuccch.... maalala ko na naman ang bestfriend ko nung college... haha...
hindi ako ang na inlove sa kanya, siya yung na inlove sa akin nung time na yun... ewan ko bakit nagustuhan ako ng lokang yun... mag kaklase kami nung college, mag partner sa thesis, tsaka magka share sa mga gamit sa school, tas magkatapat lang yung boarding house namin so after school, tambay kami sa labas kaya madalas talaga kami magkasama.
Nalaman ko lang na inlove sya sa akin nung wala na kami nung girlfriend ko nuon, naka inom siya nung umamin sa akin, ako naman eh hindi naniwala, medyo alangan lang ako kasi turn off tlaga ako kapag babae ang umaamin or parang nanliligaw, so hayun, sinabihan ko siya ng tapatan na ayaw kong masira yung pagkakaibigan namin, mas compatible kami as friends kesa lovers..
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40-60 ang nagiging successful sa ganyan relationship.. mahirap kasi irisk yun pagiging bestfriends nyo..
Pero, syempre kung ikaw ang may nararamdaman, is it worth a try? yes of course. only to be ready to loose all companionship na nanyari sa inyo when you were together. Kung negative ang response ng bestfriend mo, you will loose him/her as a friend as well. Kung positive ang response, then x10 ang magiging boost sa relationship nyo. Together as lover and side by side as bestfriend
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out topic :
fayat isang post kanalng.. one more to goooooo.... congratz tol.. hihi
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K sayo Rai ..for this topic...maganda ang tema...:O)
..and to you also J! here's my +k for you...!
ako, nde pa naman nangyayari saken ito...hmnn, mostly kase ng friends ko babae...and among my male bestfriends actually 3 lang sila...(online pa yung isa) ....e nde naman ako nag fall sa kanila...i guess, para saken pag kaibigan...kaibigan lang talaga maaring maging malalim..like ituring mo ng kadugo or kapamilya ganun...but never...ko iri risik yung friendship sa ganun...if ever ako ang mag fall....i will surely stay away for a while from the person....at kung sya naman....pareho lang ng kay Derek ang gagawin ko...hehehe...
mas ok kung friends lang talaga...why complicate things? tapos sayang lang yung friendship...? aba! mas nagla last ang friendship kesa sa intimate na relationship kaya...i'll be selfish regarding this issue...hehe
i'll keep 'em for mah self as friends...( haha selfish talagah) at least nandyan lang sila diba...? ;D
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nice shares poh this is really deep kasi eh
the fact that if this ends up bad then you loose everything right?
if it's good then it will be great..
medyo mahirap lang talaga yata timbangin siguro ito noh?
well sa inyong mga nauna +k lahat kayo pero mamaya na yun hahaha
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K sayo Rai ..for this topic...maganda ang tema...:O)
..and to you also J! here's my +k for you...!
ako, nde pa naman nangyayari saken ito...hmnn, mostly kase ng friends ko babae...and among my male bestfriends actually 3 lang sila...(online pa yung isa) ....e nde naman ako nag fall sa kanila...i guess, para saken pag kaibigan...kaibigan lang talaga maaring maging malalim..like ituring mo ng kadugo or kapamilya ganun...but never...ko iri risik yung friendship sa ganun...if ever ako ang mag fall....i will surely stay away for a while from the person....at kung sya naman....pareho lang ng kay Derek ang gagawin ko...hehehe...
mas ok kung friends lang talaga...why complicate things? tapos sayang lang yung friendship...? aba! mas nagla last ang friendship kesa sa intimate na relationship kaya...i'll be selfish regarding this issue...hehe
i'll keep 'em for mah self as friends...( haha selfish talagah) at least nandyan lang sila diba...? ;D
hmmm pwedi bang malaman kung sino yung online friends mo...?
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K sayo Rai ..for this topic...maganda ang tema...:O)
..and to you also J! here's my +k for you...!
ako, nde pa naman nangyayari saken ito...hmnn, mostly kase ng friends ko babae...and among my male bestfriends actually 3 lang sila...(online pa yung isa) ....e nde naman ako nag fall sa kanila...i guess, para saken pag kaibigan...kaibigan lang talaga maaring maging malalim..like ituring mo ng kadugo or kapamilya ganun...but never...ko iri risik yung friendship sa ganun...if ever ako ang mag fall....i will surely stay away for a while from the person....at kung sya naman....pareho lang ng kay Derek ang gagawin ko...hehehe...
mas ok kung friends lang talaga...why complicate things? tapos sayang lang yung friendship...? aba! mas nagla last ang friendship kesa sa intimate na relationship kaya...i'll be selfish regarding this issue...hehe
i'll keep 'em for mah self as friends...( haha selfish talagah) at least nandyan lang sila diba...? ;D
well the logical thing nga is not to complicate things
meron naman yun iba na dahil in love na in lababo na eh clouded na yun judgement
at di na nakapag pigil di ba? di naman natin masasabi ang love na eksakto eh
well sir saludo ako sa ginawa mo at sa way of your thinking..
special mention na natin si hentai kamen derek on doing the same
good job poh sa inyo
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hmmm pwedi bang malaman kung sino yung online friends mo...?
Derek Parekoy!
...isa lang online bestfriend ko....isa lang....<<<<<<< nakita mo ba yon? wala ren syang buhok tulad mo..ahahahaha!!
;D :-\
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Derek Parekoy!
...isa lang online bestfriend ko....isa lang....<<<<<<< nakita mo ba yon? wala ren syang buhok tulad mo..ahahahaha!!
;D :-\
nyahaha buti nalang hindi ka nainlove sa akin parekoy... wahahaha
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nyahaha buti nalang hindi ka nainlove sa akin parekoy... wahahaha
Derek! uyoy ka bah!?! ano kala mo saken!? badenggg?!
tok! bog! pak! >:(
ahahaaha... ;D ;D
Rai,
yup tama ka dyan madalas...talaga nangyayari yan..kundi pareho...yung isang party nawawalan ng control and once nawalan ng control emotionally...nakakagawa na sila ng ng mga bagay na more or less pagsisisihan nila pagkatapos...saka ang sitwasyon na ganito...double jeopardy yan..as you said, you might gain a partner...but eventually lose your friend..if ever nde ok sa kanya or nde kayo magclick as partners...kaya nga gaya ng sabi ko....why risk and lose the person? if you can have them with you as friends...? saka depende ren siguro sa personality ng kaibigan mo...kahit naman frends kayo nde ibig sabihin nun magkasundo na kayo sa maraming bagay...or yung gusto nya ay gusto mo ren....nakakatakot lang na pag andun na sa kayo sa relationship...nde mo sya mapasaya or masatisfy sa maraming bagay...and from there magsisimula ang conflict...at napakahirap nung ganun...losing the one you love....lalo na kung ang foundation nyo ay friendship...unti unting guguho...mawawala...yung letting go process nun masakit...(kahit nde ko pa na eexperience...i'm sure masakit yan) ....kaya much better...
just love and take them as friends...and you can keep them for life....for as long as you will it so.
Cheers!
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i fell for a friend pero di sya bestfriend close friend lang.
madalas magkausap hanggang sa naging sweet. i got surprised nahuhulog na ako. dati naman kaya ko kontrolin pero sa kanya di ko maintindihan bakit kahit ano pilit ko kontrolin ay wala nangyayari. ibinaling ko na lang attention ko sa work, inisip ko na lang siguro dahil sa magisa ako at noon na lang ulet may nagsimulang mag-care namisunderstood ko.
ayun one day na lang sinabi nya may gf na sya nagulat ako. masakit pala feeling pero i was able to cope up naman kagad. pero nawala na ang friendship di na nya ako kinakausap kaya di na rin ako nangulit nahihiya din ako. never ko rin sinabi sa kanya dahil nagaalangan ako, alam ko naman kasi di nya ako type. hinayang lang ako sa friendship. wala naman kasi problema kahit may gf sya pwede pa rin naman maging friends.
kaso ramdam ko umiiwas na din sya so back off na lang ako. hirap magrisk lalo na kung ok talaga yung pinagsamahan nyo. sana makahanap pa ako ng friends hirap kasi pag puro work.
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Derek! uyoy ka bah!?! ano kala mo saken!? badenggg?!
tok! bog! pak! >:(
ahahaaha... ;D ;D
Rai,
yup tama ka dyan madalas...talaga nangyayari yan..kundi pareho...yung isang party nawawalan ng control and once nawalan ng control emotionally...nakakagawa na sila ng ng mga bagay na more or less pagsisisihan nila pagkatapos...saka ang sitwasyon na ganito...double jeopardy yan..as you said, you might gain a partner...but eventually lose your friend..if ever nde ok sa kanya or nde kayo magclick as partners...kaya nga gaya ng sabi ko....why risk and lose the person? if you can have them with you as friends...? saka depende ren siguro sa personality ng kaibigan mo...kahit naman frends kayo nde ibig sabihin nun magkasundo na kayo sa maraming bagay...or yung gusto nya ay gusto mo ren....nakakatakot lang na pag andun na sa kayo sa relationship...nde mo sya mapasaya or masatisfy sa maraming bagay...and from there magsisimula ang conflict...at napakahirap nung ganun...losing the one you love....lalo na kung ang foundation nyo ay friendship...unti unting guguho...mawawala...yung letting go process nun masakit...(kahit nde ko pa na eexperience...i'm sure masakit yan) ....kaya much better...
just love and take them as friends...and you can keep them for life....for as long as you will it so.
Cheers!
very well said po sir sayang yun friendship
pag ganun ang nangyari kasi, ex. years mo na siyang kilala tapos naging kayo
tapos di nag work yun relation niyo, oh di ba pag di na kayo eh papansinin nyo pa ba
ang isat isa eh paano kung malala yun paghihiwalay nyo edi
totally wala na rin siya sa buhay mo as friend,
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had a lot of close friends na na-develop ako admittedly during the last decade hehe.. i don't know if it's love, but i usually go out with her (them pala, one at a time ha? hehe) pag lunch or coffee, minsan dinner pa nga.. masarap lang ung feeling siguro you're in the company of a lovely friend, pero alam mo hindi pwede maging kayo.. and ung masarap na feeling dun is ina-acknowledge naman nung girl friend na un ung friendship..
that is ego swelling for men siguro
the enjoyment of being around with females makes their ego so big
they love the feeling.. salamat sa pagshashare poh
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my best friend is a male so definitely hindi ako pwedeng ma-inlove sa kanya kasi pareho kaming lalaki.....but during highschool, i have a really close friend na lagi kong katabi sa seat.....at naging crush ko siya then i think i fell for her pero its hard to admit kasi i don't want to ruin our friendship and may ipina-partner sa kanyang classmate namin na masasabi kong hindi ko pwedeng tapatan, but thinking of it, i should have done something na malaman niya ang feelings ko but time really didn't gave me a chance kasi, the time that i want to show it, is the time we became busy sa mga requirements namin sa school at siyempre being a friend, ayaw ko magulo yung isip niya.....but i think it is worth the risk kasi if she is really a friend anuman ang mangyari, i know maiintindihan niya ang nararamdaman mo and maybe kung hindi man niya nakikita na bf/gf material ka para sa kanya, masakit man sa huli, the friendship will still be there....for me kasi, its better to say what you feel than keep it for yourself then regret it later....and that's what i've felt for a long time......
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It happened to me before,,close na kami eversince but we became closer after a painful break up..
pag naalala ko un I always had this in my mind na sana hinde na lang,,medyo magulo din kasi isip ko nun and I wasn't able to handle it ,,too bad I lost her :(
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:-\ i say why not?.... as long as when you want to break the protocol of being best friends, you must be sure of yourself na talagang love na yan and that the relationship you were about to propose to your best friend is for keeps... it is better to lose a girlfriend rather than a best friend.... kaya isip muna ng 100 times....
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its a big NO.
i can't imagine na magkahiwalay kami ng best friend ko just because of that stupid relationship. :(
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its a big NO.
i can't imagine na magkahiwalay kami ng best friend ko just because of that stupid relationship. :(
stupid? naku tatanda kang dalaga nyan cge ka hahaha... mahirap yan ning
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:-\ i say why not?.... as long as when you want to break the protocol of being best friends, you must be sure of yourself na talagang love na yan and that the relationship you were about to propose to your best friend is for keeps... it is better to lose a girlfriend rather than a best friend.... kaya isip muna ng 100 times....
very well said poh sir kung certain ka nga
na mahal mo siya at di lang pagnanasa yan go for it
pero if not it would be just a waste of friendship
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The problem with falling for a friend is that you won't know if it is love till the moment you are about to lose her forever.
But sometimes the one you love ends up hurting you the most... and sometimes, the friend who takes one into their arms and cries when you cry, turns out to be the love you never knew you wanted..
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The problem with falling for a friend is that you won't know if it is love till the moment you are about to lose her forever.
But sometimes the one you love ends up hurting you the most... and sometimes, the friend who takes one into their arms and cries when you cry, turns out to be the love you never knew you wanted..
very well said boss... and much worst he/she become ur enemy or turns to stranger
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The problem with falling for a friend is that you won't know if it is love till the moment you are about to lose her forever.
But sometimes the one you love ends up hurting you the most... and sometimes, the friend who takes one into their arms and cries when you cry, turns out to be the love you never knew you wanted..
Very well said.. it is all or nothing between the two of you..
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