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Title: I wonder why do people fall out of love?
Post by: ladyvirus01 on March 21, 2013, 08:41:20 PM
Paulit- ulit na tanong ko sa sarili ko.. Sa umpisa parang ang tamis ng mga binibigkas mong pangako, at sa huli kaw lang ang kawawa.

Kesyo kelangan mo ng space, I need to find myself.. ano ba talaga bakit ang daming lumalabas na rason para lang malet-go mo yong isang tao.

Bakit ba ganun..

sabi nga sa isang kanta "I'd rather leave while I'm in love".

hay pag-ibig nga naman talaga bakit pa napauso, kahit wala sa trend anjan pa rin..

Basta para sa akin tama na yong minahal  kita at kahit papano minahal mo rin ako kahit sandali man lang.. :( ???
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Post by: kepweng on March 22, 2013, 12:30:39 AM
no one falls out of love. he/she just found someone more interesting to fall in love again.
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Post by: icarus on March 22, 2013, 02:44:17 PM
pwede rin siguro maging dahilan ay monotonous na,

kung nangyari yun, pwede kayo gumawa ng something spontaneous to spice up your life.

sa akin hindi nangyayari na naging paulit ulit kasi sa dami ng mga pinagdadaanan, it is enough to spice up my love. and it becomes more challenging pa and also, the suspense of the next big thing that will happen.
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Post by: dre on March 22, 2013, 04:02:28 PM
hindi mo pa nahahanap para sa iyo...ganon lang yun
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Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on March 22, 2013, 06:03:48 PM
i think it is when people found themselves

not having sense of fulfillment on the relation that he/she is with
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Post by: chiz on March 22, 2013, 06:17:49 PM
or pwede din na ang nawawala sa iyo is yung commitment na ituloy and not yung pagtingin mo sa kanya?
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Post by: caligula on March 22, 2013, 06:24:22 PM
It's just like the act of contrition, you fell in love at masaya ka, then you fell out of love, denying it at first, getting angry even, at later you admit it. Tapos you feel remorseful. And you find another one, falls in love, fall out... just a vicious cycle.

My advise is not to love, avoid it at all cost.
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Post by: chiz on March 22, 2013, 10:04:25 PM
inspired from little miss sunshine movie
If you're going to stop loving think of the suffering you're gonna miss. I mean falling in love? Being in love,those are your prime suffering years. You don't get better suffering than that :)
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Post by: jaycee on March 23, 2013, 07:56:52 PM
There's one lucky guy para sa iyo, you'll find him in no time... ^_^
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Post by: bong1830 on March 24, 2013, 04:06:40 PM
makikita mo rin po yun, just pray lang po  ;)
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Post by: monde8 on March 26, 2013, 08:29:27 AM
Sometimes people fall out love because they realize that they are no longer with the person that they fell in love with. People change and that's a given. Pero hindi lang naman sa kadahilanang people change kung kaya't they realize their no longer with the person that they fell in love with.

Maraming tao na sa umpisa ng relasyon ay gustong ipakita lahat ng magandang traits then sa bandang huli ay tsaka lumalabas ang tunay na kulay. Kaya napaka importante na magpaka totoo. Early palang sa relationship ay ipakita dapat sa isa't isa ang tunay na ikaw and not what you think your partner is expecting of you.
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Post by: Darqdcorrupt on March 26, 2013, 08:59:12 AM
Para sakin nmn possible reason dn na may nafafall-out of love sa isang relationship is probably dahil natitired ri ang taong un...i mean meron talaga kung minsan na isang relationship na prang isang tao lng talaga ang nag eeffort....iba dn kc minsan eh dba mas madali pag dalawa ang nagsasagwan sa isang bangka rather than sa isa lng? I myself mga bro experienced this first hand... its just one day ull wake up na fed up kna sa relationship nyo and then "snap!" Wala na...pagod kna..... i believe kc na with love comes suffering and dapat lng talaga nating makita ang taong kahit ano mng pain and suffering by rhe end of the day.....it will all be worth it....  :(
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Post by: ANONYMOUS05141981 on March 26, 2013, 12:08:53 PM
At first siguro kapag bago eh masaya ka talaga pero kung tumagal na kayo eh dun mo malalaman kung totoong fulfill ka na sa kapartner mo. Kung hindi eh dun na siguro naghahanap nang iba.
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Post by: sendoh on March 26, 2013, 02:15:12 PM
people fall out of love kasi meron na silang nakita na iba na pwedeng ipalit sa current realationship nyo or sa partner nila.
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Post by: monde8 on March 26, 2013, 11:29:24 PM
Kaya po bago magpatali ng tuluyan ay pagdesisyunan muna ng mabuti. Kapag kinasal ka na, hindi yan parang kanin na pwedeng iluwa kapag napaso ka at lalo pa kung may naging bunga na ang inyong pagsasama.
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Post by: lot on March 27, 2013, 01:51:13 AM
sa pag ibig ay dapat hindi mawawala ang unawaan.. wala naman kasing perpektong tao, wag titingnan ang mga kamalian ng partner. pupurihin din ang kanyang mga good sides.
pakaiwasan po ang prito(pride) dapat po ay palaging submissive.

sa amin po ng mahal ko, "pag siya ay galit tahimik lang po ako
pero kung ako naman po ang nagagalit, dapat po tahimik lang ako"

di po ba walang gulo?
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Post by: camelleo on March 27, 2013, 02:20:28 AM
People fall out of love when they look for the traits that their current partner don't have.

Discontentment overcomes love and begins for the new search but then again you will only found out that the traits of the person you left is lacking on the new partner that you may found. ;)
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Post by: dimple on March 27, 2013, 02:28:28 AM
There is no such word as fall out of love... we choose to stop loving someone by choice.. because we want to not because we feel it...Sometimes when you start giving too much inportance to someone in your life, you tend to lose your value in their life.. strange but true.. :(
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Post by: serestro09 on March 27, 2013, 10:32:19 PM
fall out of love??? pag nraramdaman mong wala na syang effort na iparamdam na importante ka sa kanya........ thats the time na unti-unting mawawala narin ang dating pag mamahal mo sa taong dati ay halos araw-araw ay laging nag paparamdam....
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Post by: toshka on March 28, 2013, 01:31:01 AM
mahirap mafall out of love, pero nangyayari ito. dapat lang pag may signs na gumawa ng paraan ang partner or both to bring back the love again. kung wala tuluyan na mawawala.
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Post by: naligo on March 29, 2013, 12:07:40 AM
Sa palagay ko, kadalasan mangyari lang kapag mag-iba na ang situasyon nung kay ay nag ka-inlab.
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Post by: fayt on March 29, 2013, 12:55:27 AM
Confliting matters, 3rd party, lack of communication and monotonous realationship

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Post by: freezingfire11 on March 29, 2013, 01:45:13 AM
ganun talaga basta :)  :P
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Post by: kimchick on March 29, 2013, 02:48:09 AM
People fall out of love because the respect is lost. Lalo na sa magasawa nangyayari yan. Pag sobrang nagger si wifey or nasasakal na si hubby. Or lumabas na tunay na kulay. Pwede din too much expectation. Maraming pwedeng maging rason. Love itself is not enough to keep a relationship strong. Once respect is lost you're doomed!
Kaya sa mga girls wag masyado nagger sa mga boys naman wag puro dota or barkada :)
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Post by: Ultraman80 on March 29, 2013, 01:51:31 PM
Totoo ba yung term na "fall out of love" or ginawa lang natin ito para magkaroon ng justification na tapos na ang isang kabanata ng buhay natin nung "ma-inlove" tayo? Can we also say "fall out of hate" kapag bigla na lang tayong na-inlove sa taong kinaiinisan natin; or kinabwibwisitan natin (just derive it from "the more you hate, the more you love"). Can we also say, "fall out of indifference" kapag napansin na natin yung mga tao sa paligid natin at gusto na nating ma-establish ang isang relationship (relationship - as a broader meaning)

When we feel cheated in a relationship, if ever there was a chance that we'd seen our partner with someone else enjoying another person, we feel betrayed. When we have found a new love while we are trapped in a current relationship, we feel guilt. When things doesn't go the way we want them too, we feel powerless, and it frustrates us. It's Hippocratic to even think that we can justify all that has gone awry in our life "because we have just grown tired of them". It's more satisfying to answer trivialities rather than succumb to an empty reason, that maybe we just don't love them anymore.

"falling out of love" is just another term for "we are bored" or "we don't care anymore".  ???
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Post by: ShadowShaman on March 30, 2013, 09:45:21 AM
Love naman kasi feeling lang yan... parang pagiging masaya o malungkot. Di naman lagi kang malungkot o laging masaya. Pero ang pagiging commited sa isang relasyon ay isa mong desisyon na dapat mong panghawakan kaya yun dapat lagi mong isipin.
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Post by: ladyvirus01 on March 30, 2013, 09:46:04 AM
Totoo ba yung term na "fall out of love" or ginawa lang natin ito para magkaroon ng justification na tapos na ang isang kabanata ng buhay natin nung "ma-inlove" tayo? Can we also say "fall out of hate" kapag bigla na lang tayong na-inlove sa taong kinaiinisan natin; or kinabwibwisitan natin (just derive it from "the more you hate, the more you love"). Can we also say, "fall out of indifference" kapag napansin na natin yung mga tao sa paligid natin at gusto na nating ma-establish ang isang relationship (relationship - as a broader meaning)

When we feel cheated in a relationship, if ever there was a chance that we'd seen our partner with someone else enjoying another person, we feel betrayed. When we have found a new love while we are trapped in a current relationship, we feel guilt. When things doesn't go the way we want them too, we feel powerless, and it frustrates us. It's Hippocratic to even think that we can justify all that has gone awry in our life "because we have just grown tired of them". It's more satisfying to answer trivialities rather than succumb to an empty reason, that maybe we just don't love them anymore.

"falling out of love" is just another term for "we are bored" or "we don't care anymore".  ???
very well said sir the explanation are clear enough how falling out of love is a matter of justification, clarification, specific relationship or rather says "feeling of emptiness"    :( ewan magulo ata sagot ko hahaha basta yun na yun
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Post by: Palaman on March 30, 2013, 06:33:16 PM
Parang hagdan lang yan. Akyat baba lang ang mga tao, pero yung iba nahuhulog.  ;D ;D ;D
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Post by: shygurlz001 on April 01, 2013, 09:31:26 AM
Maybe nagsasawa na sa paulit-ulit na routine. They do not try to do something new. Boring na kumbaga..
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Post by: darkbahamut on April 01, 2013, 12:33:10 PM
Hindi naman sa nawalan na sila ng pagmamajal...may nahanap lang sila na taong mas kayang ibigay ang hinahanap nila... :(
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Post by: zzgundam on April 01, 2013, 01:03:19 PM
Unrealistic expectations.
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Post by: Palaman on April 01, 2013, 01:12:03 PM
Because of frustrations and disappointment. Yung akala mo mansanas yung pinitas mo, pero nung kainin mo red bell pepper pala  >:(
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Post by: ladyvirus01 on April 01, 2013, 01:49:19 PM
Because of frustrations and disappointment. Yung akala mo mansanas yung pinitas mo, pero nung kainin mo red bell pepper pala  >:(
>:( akala ko ampalaya yan tinapa?
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Post by: Palaman on April 01, 2013, 06:17:37 PM
>:( akala ko ampalaya yan tinapa?
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Sobrang labo naman ng mata mo pag inakala mo na mansanas yung ampalaya. Sa kulay at hugis pa lang sablay na  >:( ha ha ha!!!
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Post by: ¿m☺ÿ on April 01, 2013, 09:06:57 PM
either they are not really inlove or felt neglected.....it is very easy to say i'm inlove without thinking it is just infatuation....and when a person felt neglected and found someone more worth spending time with then it happens....Hindi madaling alisin ang pagmamahal sa taong talagang minamahal pero hindi lahat ng puso eh manhid, may mga pusong natututo rin sa mga kamalian.
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Post by: grabehhhhhhhh on April 20, 2013, 04:20:40 PM
they  found some1 better or he/she is no longer interested in you( yun ang masakit)
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Post by: Jelai on April 20, 2013, 05:15:06 PM
Minsan pag masayadong perfectionist yung partner nakaka walang gana talaga.
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Post by: jonson on April 20, 2013, 11:40:38 PM
siguro dahil bored na sa relationship. or maybe dahil may nakita ng iba na mas-interesting.
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Post by: reborn on April 21, 2013, 01:38:49 AM
syempre nakakasawa na, wala na kayo mapagusapan, paulit ulit nalang lalo na kung maliit na bagay pinagaawayan niyo at di na kayo magkasundo palagi sabay may biglang asungot na lalandi sa bf/gf mo na magaling magcomfort e di madaling mawala ang pagibig.
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