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Tambayan ng mga Chicx at Tsonx => General Discussion => Love & Relationship => Topic started by: artistbyte on April 21, 2013, 08:08:56 PM
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Missing someone is one kind of pain that we feel when someone close to us goes away from us. Normally, this sort of pain is very common in romantic relationship. Because in romantic relationships, the level expectations is quite high. When you keep a romantic relationship with someone, you would tend to feel said when your partner would go away from you. However, it happens mostly when you are romantically attached with someone. But this kind of feeling is not common when you are in a strong relationship with someone. So it can easily be said that you miss only the person you love. So the percentage of missing someone is very high in loving relationships.
Why People Miss Someone ?
I guess that you understood why people miss someone. The main reason is love. When you love someone, you would miss that person. If you don’t love someone, you will not miss that person. So it is very true that you will miss only that person whom you love. So i guess that the answer to the above question has been answered now.
Let me be a little more clear. You miss the person whom you love. So why people miss someone is that people love the person they miss. So love is the main reason to miss someone. So it was just to be a little more clear about why people miss anyone and how love is related to it.
What to Do When You Miss ?
I would not tell to miss the person you are already missing. Rather, try to understand why you are missing that person. Be clear how much you love your partner that when your partner is not with you, you are feeling a pain in your heart. Think carefully what happens when you are missing someone. It only gives to pain to your heart. I don’t think, it does anything more than that. But having a pain is definitely not a good choice. Rather, you should utilize your pain for something good about your life. Read How to Love Someone Unconditionally?
Let me tell you how to make that possible. As i have already told you that missing someone doesn’t give any satisfaction of mind. Because when you miss someone, it will only give you pain. I am not against missing your life partner or i am telling you anything to stop loving or feeling for your partner the way you feel. It is just to make you how much you love that person. Rather, missing your partner only, you should learn that you love your partner so much that you are feeling pain when your partner is not with you. This kind of feeling should increase your love for your partner. So utilize your love for the increment in love in your relationship.
Only missing and feeling sad when your partner is not with you, doesn’t make any sense. It even doesn’t help you anyway. So you should rather try to utilize your feelings in such a way that makes your relationship much stronger. Yes, this is what actually makes sense.
I am Not Teaching You:
You may have thought about it before. Or you may have done something like this. But did you ever try to understand if it is really helping you anyway or not? Do you know why you did not understand it? Because there was nobody to tell you the importance of doing it. This is the reason you failed again and again. But if you don’t only miss your partner, but you love your partner as well is fine. By the way, your love forces you to miss your partner. So from now onwards whenever you would miss someone, don’t just miss that person. Learn from your pain and utilize your pain for the betterment of your relationship. Read How to Be in a Good Relationship Easily?
A simple question may arise in your mind. You may be thinking that you already knew that you love your partner. Then where is the logic to understand it in a much better way. There logic is that…
Understanding something is totally different from knowing something. If you know that your partner loves you so much, you will only know that. But if you feel your partner’s love for you, you will not only know that love, but also you will understand that love. Here is the main difference. When you understand someone’s love for you, not only knowing that, you actually keep a solid connection with that person. This connection actually helps to build a strong relationship.
So when you only miss someone, you know that you love that person or you have a little interest in that person or you feel some attraction for that person. But when you feel your love for that person, because you are missing him actually builds your relationship and makes your relationship stronger. I guess, now you know what to to in the next time when you feel sad for someone you love. Don’t just be sad. It doesn’t make any sense and doesn’t help you in any way.