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Tambayan ng mga Chicx at Tsonx => General Discussion => Love & Relationship => Topic started by: artistbyte on April 21, 2013, 08:05:00 PM
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Before i say anything about the right time to end any relationship, i would like to say… Leaving a relationship for some futile reasons,is never a good choice. It is never going to help you in your life.
Leaving a relationship because some of your expectations are not being fulfilled by your life partner is never a correct decision. Leaving a relationship where you truly feel that your partner loves you so much by heart but you are unable to adjust with your partner for some insignificant reason is the biggest mistake of your life. Leaving a relationship very quickly just after starting it without giving your partner a single chance is also such a huge mistake of life.
There can be hundreds of other reasons why you should not leave a relationship. But i am not here to show you a huge list of reasons for a break up. But before everything else, i am here to save your relationship. Remember, keeping a healthy relationship should get much more importance than leaving a relationship. Hopefully you now understand why you should always try to save your relationship. A relationship is a strong connection with someone you have good importance in your life. It can never be said that you have a relationship with someone for whom you don’t feel any importance. An importance person can only get a place a in your mind and a place in your life as well. The connection which is being created here is your relationship. Loosing this relationship means loosing a strong connection with someone very important for your life. So your first and foremost preference should always be how to save your relationship building a solid connection with your partner.
But even after saying all these things, i understand that there are times in life, we need to leave a relationship. In life we face many different types of situations where we want to leave a relationship for a new one. Or sometimes it hurts us so much that we don’t want to make a new relationship with someone else. But the question is what would be the right time to leave a relationship. Truthfully speaking there can never be a perfect time to leave a relationship. Because it depends on both of the partners. If both of the partners feel no importance for each other, believe me this is the right time to leave. But even if there is one partner interested in the relationship, the other one should never try to leave. Rather, he or she should try to find out solutions to the issues that are creating problems in the relationship.
But how would you decide if your partner feels any importance for you? To be clear, there is no trick that will work here except your own intelligence. The most proper way to do it is by talking to your partner directly. In a funny way, you may ask your partner if he or she feels any importance for you or not. The way your partner would answer the question has a lot of importance. If your partners answers quickly and without any hesitation, you may think that you think that your partner gives you importance. If your partner is hesitant enough to answer the question, you may take an opposite decision.
However, the above process may not always work correctly. But it might give you some hints about your partner’s feelings for you. The rest has to be done by your intelligence. As i have previously told you that you should talk to your partner directly. You should talk to your partner so much that it is becomes easier for your partner to share things. Doing this may help you understand your partner’s mentality. Most of the times, it might create a strong bonding with your partner that you would not like to leave the relationship. Keeping your feelings inside yourself does never help to build a strong connection with anyone in life. If you show your feelings for someone, only then there is a chance that the other one would share feelings with you. Until or unless you will open up, don’ expect others to open up in front of you. So your intelligence in the best way to find out if your partner really loves you or gives you any importance. Once you feel that there is no importance, you may feel about breaking up the relationship. However, giving tips and tricks may not work all the time. Because ultimately it is your life. So you must learn how to live your best life by yourself saving everything around you. Others can only give you some good suggestions. But they would never come to live your life for you.
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i agree with bella na its the hardest thing to do but if i'm not happy or the woman i love is not happy anymore and she'd found another......i don't want to deny her happiness.....actually way back before, the time i knew that the one i love loves another, is the time i know that its time to let go.....if some people will say, i have to fight for my love well it may be true but how can you win someone who doesn't love you anymore.....it will just add to the heart ache pretending you can win her back.....
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hmm probably when there's no trust and love anymore...
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yup its the hardest thing to do but if it will not end, then parehas lang kayo lalo masa2ktan... If you tried everything para maging ok ang relasyon nyo and the result is still the same then its time to end your relationship... :'(
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if all avenues of reconciliation has been tried and it seems nothing is working anymore then it is the time for you to go on your separate ways.
If there is no more meaning in being together what is the sense of it?
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As soon as possible to give other a chance to accept and adjust.
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pagwla n ung respect sa bawat isa thats the time :{
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When a relationship changes from mutual to parasitic, call it quits.
Pero kung hindi ka lang naitext at nag wawala ka na, abay may sayad ka. Haha..
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mas ok na tapusin na agad kung wala ka ng feelings sa kanya or respeto sa kanya kesa sa makipag relasyon ka sa iba na kayo pa... mas masakit yun....
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Kapag masstress kana sa relationship nyo. Imbes na mapasaya ka o mapangiti ka sa bawat pagkikikita nyo palagi na lang kayo nag aaway... Pag iniisip mo sya, sadness lang ang nanyayare sayo...
Eto na ang tamang time para makipagbreak na.
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I'll end the relationship if I'm not inlove anymore, that is, when I'm no longer cherising our moments, remembering our dates, smiling when I kiss him...
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Panu kung may anak na kayu at hindi pa kasal peru ramdam mu na wla ka ng pagmamahal sa kanya? ???
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Fallout
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it is when You've given it your all. as in kuntodo na, wala ka na itinira... and yet it is never enough...
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there's no definite time for this, it might be abrupt or deferred depending on how the situation calls for it... i've read all of the above replies here and they were all true... a person must use his or her mind to arrive at a certain decision whether to call it quits or to work it out... following your heart may not come up with something...
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basta kung yung mutual understanding sa isa't isa wala na
saka medyo complicated na ang sitwasyon
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I had a toxic relationship with the mother of my son, we were always fighting, most of the energy spent together is spent on fighting, imbes na lambingan, puro away, its not a good environment for our child so we talked about it and ended up ending the relationship, its a difficult decision but when you think about it, i guess it is for the best.. don't get us wrong though, we tried everything to fix the relationship but to no avail, so ayun..
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I had a toxic relationship with the mother of my son, we were always fighting, most of the energy spent together is spent on fighting, imbes na lambingan, puro away, its not a good environment for our child so we talked about it and ended up ending the relationship, its a difficult decision but when you think about it, i guess it is for the best.. don't get us wrong though, we tried everything to fix the relationship but to no avail, so ayun..
how sad naman.... but on the other hand, despite how both of you tried to mend it, eh ayos na din yan, masaya na din both parties, at least you've tried... wag lang mawala ang friendship nyo, para na din sa anak nyo yan...
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kapag hindi na kayo naggrogrow.. at nagkakasakitan na o nagkakasakalan..
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When both hindi na masaya wala na yong spark at mararamdaman mong marami na siya excuses keso busy sa work,mahina connection, palaging pagud etc etc so baket pa tatagalin ang relasyon? Db?! (^_~)
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