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Tambayan ng mga Chicx at Tsonx => General Discussion => Love & Relationship => Topic started by: artistbyte on April 21, 2013, 08:03:11 PM
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Having a healthy relationship is not a big thing. It’s just a combination of a lot of little things. A healthy relationship is based upon freedom. It’s the one in which the loved ones are free to be what they want to be. They are free to do what they want to do. They can freely laugh with each other, but not at each other. They can cry with each other, but not because of each other. They can love each other without fear. They can trust each other without doubts and show the world how to have a healthy relationship.
If you want to have a healthy relationship, focus on developing yourself first. One of the best feelings in the world is the knowledge that your presence and absence both mean something to someone. If you really want to feel it, feel yourself at first, experience yourself and love yourself. At first, make yourself perfectly suitable to be loved by someone. Read How You can Quickly and Easily Stop Your Breakup?
A healthy relationship should mainly have three things. Eyes that don’t cry, lips that don’t lie and love that will never die. Trust only the one who can see these three things in you. Sorrow behind your smile, love behind your anger and the reason behind your silence. This is the reason why you should never rush into a relationship. Rather you should work on yourself. Then, the right people will love you at the right time. Here are some tips that would help you have a healthy relationship. But don’t just read, use your heart to feel the words written here.
1, Love Your Partner without Fear.
There is no fear in true love. Because true love is purely unconditional. True love doesn’t demand anything in return. True love can only grow in the soil of respect, acceptance and unconditional feelings. True love doesn’t expect rewards. It doesn’t demand anything from you. So if you don’t expect anything in return, there would be no fear at all.
Learn to love your partner without fear. Don’t love just to be loved in return. Love just because you want to love. Let me tell you that you are not afraid to love. But you are just afraid of not being loved back. Remember, love is such a feeling that can not be created forcefully. It just develops in your heart, sometimes even without your knowledge. It’s not difficult to have a healthy relationship. You just need to learn to love.
2, Trust without any Doubts.
It doesn’t really matter whether it’s a friendship or a relationship, all bonds are built on trust. Without trust, you have nothing in a relationship. If you find someone who is willing to go through hell, just to keep your relationship alive, never take their love for granted. Don’t let your doubts ruin everything. Remember, doubts always create negative thoughts.
Make a difference. Learn to trust in spite of all the doubts. There is always a right and a wrong choice. So be careful when it’s about one of the biggest parts of your life. Don’t let your doubts destroy your relationship. It’s better to have a good discussion with your partner and clarify everything. May be, what you were thinking was all wrong and you were going to make wrong decisions.
3, Be There and Love without any Restrictions.
Love doesn’t come with a tag of restrictions and limitations. It’s an independent feeling which arises from within and purely unconditional and boundless. It’s not just about being there for each other, but being there holding hands of each other and sincerely taking care of each other till the last day of life is what makes a strong and healthy relationship.
Let your partner feel that you will always be there. It doesn’t matter what it takes, but you will be there at every step of the way. Don’t make your partner feel lonely. Because loneliness is not always a feeling that you are alone. But it’s a time when nobody cares about you. So don’t let your partner feel the pain of being alone.
4, Accept Your Partner without Wanting to Change.
Before you criticize your partner for their mistakes, make sure you are not one of them. Accept your partner the way he or she is. Don’t try to change them. Rather, change yourself to make yourself a better person and to become more lovable. Trying to change your partner may sometimes be irritating. But trying to change yourself according to your partner’s choices would make your relationship much healthier.
But remember, it’s not about changing yourself to be someone you are not. It’s about changing yourself to be a clearer version of who you really are. If you are true to yourself and your partner, your partner would find it. And if it is, this is the beginning of a healthy relationship. Everyone loves to be liked and loved the way they are. So be the person you are and let your partner become what he or she is. Don’t change them, but accept it with a truthful heart.
5, Be Honest with Your Partner.
May be this is the easiest thing you can do for your partner. If you want to have a healthy relationship, you must be honest with your partner. It’s not about being someone you are not, but about daring to reveal yourself honestly. It’s about daring to be open and being truthful to your partner.
If you can’t afford to be honest, there is no point of loving. A healthy relationship basically requires three things – honesty, acceptance and commitment. Remember, a honest heart always produces honest actions. So if you want to be trusted, just be honest.
Truly speaking, it’s not very difficult to have a healthy relationship. Just stay faithful, respect your partner and make your partner feel loved and wanted. Everyone wants to be wanted and loves to be loved. So have time for each other. Then very soon, you will realize that your relationship is really a good solid loving relationship that can not be broken, no matter what happens.
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nice, thanks for sharing
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Nice read.. these can be used to rekindle the relationship
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