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Title: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: angelinasotto23 on April 19, 2013, 12:31:44 PM
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There is no place for abuses in a relationship whether physical, emotional or sixual. The sad truth is that, many a times, abuse is mistaken for love; the individual being abused forgets that there is no place for abuses where there is love. Love is meant to make a person feel good and more alive, not make them cry and be treated like a worthless organism. Look out for these signs of an abusive relationship, and help yourself or others if they are in such a relationship.

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Title: Re: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: ¿m☺ÿ on April 19, 2013, 02:04:46 PM
actually i agree, kaya lang kasi kapag married na there are tons of things to consider especially the children.....and most of the time the involve wife doesn't have a work to support herself and their children. Ewan ko ba kasi sa mga lalaking ginagawang battered wife ang asawa nila, pagkatapos nilang pangakuan ng langit ang ipinapakita naman ay hindi langit.....tsk.
Title: Re: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: fayt on April 19, 2013, 02:42:00 PM
Meron ba abuse if kung masyado mo lang mahal ang partner mo pero yun kapartner mo hindi ka nya mahal?


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Title: Re: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on April 19, 2013, 05:58:23 PM
dapat lang talaga na hiwalayan na agad pag inaabuso ka na kahit anong klase pa yan

di yan healthy sa isang tao at minsan di na mawawala yan sakit sa buong buhay nila

pero minsan talaga meron yung mga taong martyr na kahit naghihirapa na at lahat lahat na

di parin magawang iwan ang partner dahil sa pagmamaha nila
Title: Re: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: fayt on April 19, 2013, 06:44:20 PM
Pero pano kung ikaw mismo umaabuso sa sarili mo dahil mahal mo masyado yun tao?

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Title: Re: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: bong1830 on April 19, 2013, 08:59:17 PM
try to consider things first bago mo sya hiwalayan...
Title: Re: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: Cathrina on April 20, 2013, 12:12:04 AM
May iba kasi na dahil sa sobrang love hinde na tinitingnan yong darkside sa kanilang partner despite sa pang aabuso mas nangingibabaw yong love kaysa hate which is i admire to those who dont feel that way but in other way its ridiculous..why would someone want to suffer if there is a way out before the abuse gets worst ....
Title: Re: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on April 20, 2013, 12:19:12 AM
May iba kasi na dahil sa sobrang love hinde na tinitingnan yong darkside sa kanilang partner despite sa pang aabuso mas nangingibabaw yong love kaysa hate which is i admire to those who dont feel that way but in other way its ridiculous..why would someone want to suffer if there is a way out before the abuse gets worst ....
tama ka jan meron pa yun kapitbahay namin dati na border

lasenggo asawa niya lage siya binubogbog pero nun kinausap namin siya ayaw niya talaga iwan asawa niya

wala pa naman sila anak pero ewan ko kung bakit di niya maiwan ito
Title: Re: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: Cathrina on April 20, 2013, 01:47:50 AM
tama ka jan meron pa yun kapitbahay namin dati na border

lasenggo asawa niya lage siya binubogbog pero nun kinausap namin siya ayaw niya talaga iwan asawa niya

wala pa naman sila anak pero ewan ko kung bakit di niya maiwan ito

Yon na siguro àng sinasabi nilang love is blind..ms.rai..
Title: Re: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on April 20, 2013, 10:11:18 AM
love is blind ba tawag doon? baka love is black eye

usually kasi pag binugbog siya may black eye siya kung ako yun baka mag patayan na kami

di pwede yun ganun sa akin, well in the end pinalayas sila dahil sa lageng may gulo

pag lasing asawa niya 2 years din yun ewan ko kung ganun pa rin sila ngayon

Title: Re: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: Cathrina on April 20, 2013, 05:32:11 PM
Hahaha black eye pala,kaya nga nde na niya nakita ang maling ginagawa sa asawa kasi black eye na.haist yon den pinakaayaw ko yong nagkabruises na ..
Title: Re: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: jonson on April 20, 2013, 11:35:40 PM
dapat talagang hiwalayan mo na kung sinasaktan ka. kase kung mahal ka ng isang tao, hindi ka niya sasaktan.
Title: Re: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: ch33s3cak3_2k on July 20, 2017, 10:36:37 PM
Oo, pag nasasaktan ka na at natatapakan na pagkatao mo, wala ng respeto sa isa't isa ang relasyon na kinabibilangan mo, mas mabuti pang lumayo ka at pilitin ibangon ang sarili.
Title: Re: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: naruto789544 on July 20, 2017, 11:04:49 PM
there is no such thing as a perfect relationship.. but i do believe that love is an essential part of it... if the feeling is not the same anymore, and words comes to shoves, then i believe it is time to let go...
Title: Re: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: iam_me on July 27, 2017, 02:11:50 PM
my POV, if nasasaktan na physically, emotionally leave na no respect na yun if nagkakasakitan na , kung yung taong pinagkatiwalaan mo na mag po protect sayo e yun pa yung nananakit sayo let go na
Title: Re: Hiwalayan mo na kung nasasaktan kana!
Post by: ¿m☺ÿ on August 07, 2017, 03:50:03 AM
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There is no place for abuses in a relationship whether physical, emotional or sixual. The sad truth is that, many a times, abuse is mistaken for love; the individual being abused forgets that there is no place for abuses where there is love. Love is meant to make a person feel good and more alive, not make them cry and be treated like a worthless organism. Look out for these signs of an abusive relationship, and help yourself or others if they are in such a relationship.

See more... http://bit.ly/10m7WiN (http://bit.ly/10m7WiN)


may katotohanan ito kasi madalas sa part na nang-aabuse tingin nila pag-aari nila ang inabuso nila na parang bagay pero ang totoo hindi yun love kundi "obsession", sa part naman ng naaabuso dahil mahal nila yung nang-aabuso tinitiis na lang nila kasi nga mahal nila which for me is also like "obsession" walang pinagkaiba. Bakit kamo, kasi nasasaktan na siya pero sige pa rin ang pagtitiis niya, parang nai-encourage pa yung nambobogbog na ulit-ulitin ang ginagawa niya kasi walang aksyon na ginagawa yung inaabuso. In reality, we can not blame the one from the other kasi pareho silang may mali yun nga lang mas mabigat yung para sa nang-aabuso. Hindi matitigil yung pang-aabuso kung hindi hinahayaan. Sa mga mauunlad na bansa, hindi ito madalas mangyari.
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